This is an old story........ probably one of the most famous ones in Asia on why westerners should be careful about who they cuff. Or one of those you can't take the bar out of the bar girl stories. I think anyone that's spent a month or more in the Phils has seen it by now. Nevertheless, it's worth watching and I'm glad I did. Just some responses to the above.
Quote: (04-11-2019 04:51 PM)Aurini Wrote:
Kudos to the extended family for doing what was right, and providing the evidence which led to her arrest. They went beyond the differences between them and the British family, and spoke for justice.
This guy was swimming outside of his own waters, in places he didn't understand. He married a woman who was a bad seed from the start - that's part of it - but one of her sisters never would have married him because she never would have met him.
Some takeaways:
Don't date outside of your class. You're cucking the lower class men.
Don't date outside of your income bracket. You're cucking the hardworking.
Don't date outside of your race. Unless if one of you is ready to abandon your culture, you'll be nothing more than planets passing in the night, orbiting different stars.
Tragedies like this are all too common in the era of equality. And let's not pick on him for being a Beta - many of us could have fallen into a similar trap at his age, without the wisdom we've accrued from the online world. He was a victim of a sick society.
One thing to address here. The extended family did not do the right thing on the girl's side. You gotta read between the lines with that. The guy that turned on his two friends was absolutely part of the husband's murder, even if he wasn't the ring leader (aka the 1k a month thug side boyfriend). They didn't do it out of justice. They did it because the husband's mother basically bribed her way into getting justice on this case. Money got her to the people they needed, but they needed a testimony for face. The choice ended up being avoid jail/death or get taken down with his friends. The extended family guy made a choice that most of us would in that spot. It's the equivalent of getting the rat and witness protection deal in the US. He got lucky the mother's true targets were the wife and the thug boyfriend. I came out of that whole heartedly believing he got away with it because he was the first to snitch on his friends.
I don't agree about class and race dating. It's not common but certainly enough people do it successfully to completely write it off. Admittedly there are more hurdles though. What I'd edit this to is don't cuff a girl with obvious red flags, whether she's rich, middle class, poor, white, black, or yellow. And also, remember the never take a bar out of bar girl rule especially.
To conclude. The mother absolutely got justice that normally wouldn't be sought in this country. Let's be clear she only got it because she dumped all her financial resources to move this case to the top of the list for local authorities. The wife and boyfriend I don't think realized they were messing with in the locals eyes were a family with deep pockets to keep this going. Normally I'd say this is a bit petty, but in this case there was absolutely greater good at stake with getting justice here because of the two kids that the husband and wife had. God bless the husband's parents for taking those kids on. Not only are they getting a first world life in a loving home, but more importantly, those kids got taken away from a mother who showed she was an unstable psychopath.
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