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04-06-2019, 09:00 AM
"You have mental issues."
Ad hominem. I'm suggesting you offer something more constructive, sir.
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04-06-2019, 09:21 AM
ksbms,
Who hurt you?
This whole thread is funny because
1 - Duh it is all dudes
2 - Y'all all still paying for Tinder despite this
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04-06-2019, 09:27 AM
How could the researchers determined the sex ratio?
Tinder would surely guard this secret for all its worth.
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04-06-2019, 09:30 AM
"Is it really that hard to grasp that some people can have female friends?"
Very easy. My male gay friends have tonnes of female friends.
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04-06-2019, 09:32 AM
Anyone whos never had female friends is either fairly unlucky or has pretty bad mental issues. Anyone who thinks "No true man has female friends" definitely has mental issues.
Are they as reliable as male friends? No. Are they as fun? Usually no. Are they as close? Also usually no. But they can still make very good friends. And often in very different ways to men - they're more emotionally open generally, can offer good fashion advice, give an insight into the female mind, bring their friends to your parties...etc. They provide plenty of value, just in a different way to a male friend.
If someone has managed to go through life with no female friends from where they grew up, from where they went to school, from university, and from any jobs they've had then the problem is them - not all the thousands of women they've met socially in that time. The vast majority of women may be terrible platonically, but theres always going to be a decent minority.
Hell, most people should at the very least have close female friends from within their family. Hows your relationship with your mother ksbms? Any sisters? Female cousins? Are they not your friends?
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04-06-2019, 09:55 AM
I have genuine female friends, but none that I'm sexually attracted to
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04-07-2019, 02:07 AM
If you actually read IG "game" reports you would know it's a waste of time to use it as a dating tool.
You should use it as an aid to your game, for example you add a girl you want to keep in the backburner and she sees your pictures on her feed a few weeks/months down the line, she comments on your picture and then you reignite the connection.
Most girls would feel like absolute sluts going out with someone they only know from IG, also I'm sure most of them don't even look at their comments since they are filled with thirsty ass indian guys spamming tongue emojis.
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04-07-2019, 03:09 AM
Instagram has all the hot chicks or shall I say hotter chicks.
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04-07-2019, 08:42 AM
I'm convinced that there was a MALE baby boom in the 1980s and 1990s.
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04-07-2019, 09:22 AM
Pick ugly girls as friends ?
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04-07-2019, 01:36 PM
It's much easier to have hot female friends as you get older. The flirting and chemistry adds to the fun - maybe they're married. Maybe they're a cousin as someone noted. You can't fuck ALL the hot girls, no one can. I'd rather have a hot friend that I can use also as a pawn that helps me get other hot girls to fuck, rather than fuck a hot friend once and have it ruin the relationship.
You know what website has tons of girls who are DTF and the ratio is pretty even -- fetlife. Not a dating website per se but you can meet 100s of girls easily from there. And they mostly have photos showing you exactly what they look like in just about every area.
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04-07-2019, 11:41 PM
I swear online dating has gotten massively worse in just the last few years. I hadn't really messed around with okcupid in a while, but lately I gave it another shot and it's ridiculous. The last three interactions I had on the site went as follows:
1. Was lying about her age by 11 years, went on the date with me to try and wheedle me into buying her dinner and a joint.
2. Chats with me for three days before telling me she doesn't want to go out with me along with a litany of insults about my appearance. (I hadn't said or done anything to provoke this beyond suggesting grabbing a beer)
3. Messaged me first and super excited about meeting up for a date tonight until about thirty minutes beforehand when I message to confirm and subsequently her profile disappears. She blocked me on the site instead of having the basic sense of politeness to just cancel.
Compare this to the past where I could get dates on the site fairly reliably. Although you'd have the occasional chain rescheduling that went nowhere, typically the girl would show up on the first date and talk to you for an hour or so before politely making an excuse if she didn't like you. Now the women all act like 12 year olds.
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04-08-2019, 12:37 AM
Quote: (04-07-2019 11:41 PM)BortimusPrime Wrote:
I swear online dating has gotten massively worse in just the last few years. I hadn't really messed around with okcupid in a while, but lately I gave it another shot and it's ridiculous. The last three interactions I had on the site went as follows:
1. Was lying about her age by 11 years, went on the date with me to try and wheedle me into buying her dinner and a joint.
2. Chats with me for three days before telling me she doesn't want to go out with me along with a litany of insults about my appearance. (I hadn't said or done anything to provoke this beyond suggesting grabbing a beer)
3. Messaged me first and super excited about meeting up for a date tonight until about thirty minutes beforehand when I message to confirm and subsequently her profile disappears. She blocked me on the site instead of having the basic sense of politeness to just cancel.
Compare this to the past where I could get dates on the site fairly reliably. Although you'd have the occasional chain rescheduling that went nowhere, typically the girl would show up on the first date and talk to you for an hour or so before politely making an excuse if she didn't like you. Now the women all act like 12 year olds.
Thank you for your perspective and I am not trying to put you on the spot at all because I did the same with Tinder. Re-downloaded and deleted within couple days.
I had this thought the other day. "Trying to find a long-term relationship or a companion on a dating app or online is like trying to find a car that can be driven for a long time without huge issues on craigslist."
"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."
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04-08-2019, 02:30 AM
Been on the date with 6 - and she had 500 matches on Tinder.
Land whale in my office easily can get laid and on Tinder she feels like she is hot superstar.
All beta knights floods girls accounts with messages: Hi beauty, and they are looking for relationship straight away - for them female with pussy is a princess.
and 6 on the date was really boring so I wasted my time and refused to have fun...