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08-20-2018, 10:35 AM
Quote: (08-16-2018 05:18 PM)cosworth Wrote:
Mens biological imperative is unlimited access to unlimited sexuality, its social constructs that put them in relationships.
Probably only the very top 2% of men can achieve the true player lifestyle...
Not everyone acts out on purely biological instincts (or want to) however. After having bagged 300+ chicks (or less) ONS gets pretty boring (unless there's literally zero effort involved - like with call girls). Some people strive for meaning, whether that be changing your environment politically, or raising mentally healthy children. No true player who has lived that lifestyle for a long time would say it gives him much pleasure or happiness. Same as doing cocaine every day isn't that enjoyable in the long run either.
Even Justin Bieber is getting married now.
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02-17-2019, 09:55 PM
Because most people realise there's no value in being a "player" past the age of 25.
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02-17-2019, 11:26 PM
Not as many as you would think.
For one, you don't need great game to get laid. Often times just having your shit in order and not being ugly will let you bang 5-7 with minimal effort.
Many of the high SMV guys I know got their player days out of the way in their twenties and then found a solid chick to lock down with kids while they built their careers or passions up. Honestly, it seems to be a rare bird that can spend years running hard game while building a truly exceptional life and making tough decisions on the fly.
For every Dan Bilzerian, there seem to be a lot more Zuckerberg, Gates or Buffet type rich dudes.
I don't want to make examples in extremis, so let me step back a moment. If we're talking guys who are in good shape, have decent cash, above average careers and the like, I'd still say the same thing. A lot of dudes are really not cut out for being players in anything other than short periods where they're between LTRs. Few guys need to (or want to) walk this path.
It also seems like the face-types who have high career ambitions have become a lot more saavy when it comes to being caught out by roving thots. Many of them do not have social media beyond what is necessary and are pretty discrete.
I know dudes in China working in upper management in big foreign companies who won't be caught dead in certain parts of SZ for fear of being seen entering some places on camera. Some of these guys do rack up numbers but many of them are pretty low-key and would probably appear boring or underachieving to much of the forum.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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02-18-2019, 02:05 AM
I feel like I'm walking backwards through life.
I was a dutiful serial monogamist in my 20s. Then a dutiful faithful husband in my 30s.
When I divorced at 38, it just seemed pointless to continue that strategy.
I'm high SMV in almost every way (except bank account), and now that I'm in my 40s, I feel the pull of the player lifestyle. I lived it fully for about a year, and I'm living it partly right now.
Also, I discovered that in the 7 years I was tied down, my value on the sexual market had actually risen.
Why wouldn't you take advantage of high stock? Wouldn't you sell some of it?
To take FULL advantage of a player life, the way that I would like, requires a bit more cash than I can manage right now. But I'm making plans, working on the career, and the future is bright.
Anyways, long story short, I'm growing into my playerdom. I'm aging INTO it rather than aging OUT OF it.
My two cents.
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02-18-2019, 12:31 PM
Most high SMV guys lack something. Usually it’s game. Women natural game is almost as good as most guys trained game so once a girl gets a high SMV guy it’s game over. Most players are the “bad boys” or the “adventurers” the type that would be players without looks, money, or even game.
I say look around, maybe at the people you know, what percentage of that are players. That would be the same percentage out of the low percentage of high SMV guys.
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03-02-2019, 05:41 PM
I have a tough time believing that a guy who had it easy with women in high school and college would want to pursue the player life afterwards, the chip on the shoulder and drive is just not there.
Speaking of this, I am debating posting a new thread on it where I will be attacked since whenever I post a thread I get attacked anyways. But if we can prevent posting a thread and maybe talk it out here, I'd love to get the thoughts of you guys.
What advice would this forum and all of you have for guys who missed out on not only sex and dating but also fun social experiences in their high school and college days?
What can they do with their lives now to not go down the continued path of misery?
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03-02-2019, 06:34 PM
Take a holiday in Thailand
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03-02-2019, 06:38 PM
U have time to go to New Orleans and e joy bourbon street for Fat Tuesday (bourbon street isn’t the best location but it will give you that college experience)
Basically just get out and enjoy the night life, take trips to party locations, sleep with women, go crazy.
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03-02-2019, 08:08 PM
From everything I've read none (few) players are born for it. If you were you wouldn't really need to find this forum or PUA books.
The guys I know who have done better since they were young were above average looking, of above average status and above average in charm/game. Of these guys I was in school with one is now obese married to a girl above his SMV; the other has fucked about on his very LTR and is now settling with her - she's a 5 and below his SMV; the other pushed the 'roids to the limit and has settled with a below average woman.
These were guys that were naturally gifted and they probably got in the 15-30 bracket just by being themselves. Not much impetus to look into game or self development. The exception would be the last one who hit the gym, but now he's just some fairly average guy.
The only person I know who I suspect is 50+ is my cousin who has put considerable work throughout his life into becoming the rare type of guy who turns heads where he goes due to being very high in multiple categories: style, muscle, frame, game, money... The other guys I mention above, they didn't really turn heads, but were naturally good at getting girls' attention by talking with them.
So for such guys who are naturally relatively high in looks, status and game, they probably slip into 2-5 bangs per year if they choose to. And with the drama that probably comes along with those (with their likely blue pill outlook) they may not be racing to get to 100. That takes a special kind of thirst.
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03-02-2019, 08:47 PM
Quote: (03-02-2019 08:08 PM)gework Wrote:
So for such guys who are naturally relatively high in looks, status and game, they probably slip into 2-5 bangs per year if they choose to. And with the drama that probably comes along with those (with their likely blue pill outlook) they may not be racing to get to 100. That takes a special kind of thirst.
For a man, getting 100 notches requires a competitive, goal-oriented mentality.
For a woman, getting 100 notches requires a vagina.
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03-03-2019, 03:03 AM
Simple figure out what things u like and the network.
For example I love working out, and I love cigars/whiskey. I took my work out friends to a cigar lounge. They loved it. Now my cigar friends and my gym friends are friends and we’re planning on doing the same thing with the shooting range and such.
U have to have a cult leader like mindset when you’re older and trying to make friends.
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03-07-2019, 04:12 PM
You don't have to fuck a lot of girls to be the man.
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03-08-2019, 08:50 PM
My take is that the player lifestyle is chosen by guys who are either
1) Coming out from years of sexual repression/incel and want to make up for lost time
2) Have a really adventurous side to their personalities which makes them ill suited for long term relationships.
Most high SMV guys have usually had hot girlfriends in serial monogamy type situations since they were in their early to mid teens so they don't have the need to "make up for lost time" and are fine with a steady girlfriend.
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03-09-2019, 01:19 AM
My take is most men don't understand women and would rather just be with one hot wife than try to work with multiple girls. Plus some people are genuinely happy in relationships. If their job is nice then coming home to a nagging wife isn't a problem.
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03-09-2019, 08:09 PM
Alot of HIGH SMV guys ARE NOT players because they don't have an understanding of women. They are still high SMV therefore they attract high-quality women but they're fine with that one hot wife instead of having a harem.
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03-10-2019, 02:40 AM
Chad with low game awareness gets a hot wife, but not a loyal one.