Hapa is a term for someone who Half Japanese/Half White. Most of them are located on the West Coast. Because their numbers are small relative to the population, a lot of dudes have the idea that these girls are exotic stunners and get caught up. I'm here to dispel that notion; they'll spread their legs just the same. There are a few things to keep in mind:

1. These girls' number one asset is their mixed features. Dudes open them with the same cheesy lines "What are you?You're exotic looking." Which brings me to the most important point: don't make any mention of their looks or ask questions about their background. You'll differentiate yourself just by doing this.

2. Dovetailing on #1, Be unflappable. Chances are she'll try to see if she can make you get tongue tied by getting close to you or being overly flirtatious. They respond well to teasing.

3. Dress well. The upper tier of hapa girls will discriminate on looks so dress the part.

4. If you have a date with them DO NOT GO TO SUSHI! They've seen that move get played a million times.

In conclusion, treat them like you would any other attractive girl.

Hapa nowadays applies to anyone half Asian. As a (kinda) hapa guy, the race opener works wonders for me on females hapas. But yes, they hate it when white or black guys use it.

I'm convinced half white half asians are the hottest broads on earth. Maybe half Indian/Persian and white comes close.

Quote: (03-30-2012 01:53 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  

As a (kinda) hapa guy, the race opener works wonders for me on females hapas.

I'm hapa and use it on them all the time too haha.

Quote: (03-30-2012 02:01 PM)Mujeriego Wrote:  

Quote: (03-30-2012 01:53 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  

As a (kinda) hapa guy, the race opener works wonders for me on females hapas.

I'm hapa and use it on them all the time too haha.

I hooked up with this hapa gymnast I met about a year ago. 34DD, TONE AS ALL HELL, curves in all the right spot. Gave me the best head I EVER got and swallowed every drop. Freak in the bed.

She bailed after I offended her some how (I do that a lot, this is DC). Also her vagina smelled horrid so I always wrapped it up and kept my face away as far as possible.

Tips for Picking Up Hapa Girls:

1. Be White.
2. See #1.

Not to race bait, but that's been my overwhelming experience/observation.

Hapa girls in the US overwhelmingly date white guys, probably more so than full asian girls. I think it has to do something with daddy or identity issues. Just game them like white girls (cause that's what they are inside) and ignore their race.

Quote: (03-30-2012 03:38 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Tips for Picking Up Hapa Girls:

1. Be White.
2. See #1.

Not to race bait, but that's been my overwhelming experience/observation.

What about hapa guys? (half-white half-asian guys). Any of you guys hang out with hapa guys?

Quote: (03-30-2012 01:53 PM)Scarlet_Terror Wrote:  

I'm convinced half white half asians are the hottest broads on earth. Maybe half Indian/Persian and white comes close.

I've loved that combo ever since I was a kid. The first girl I can say I was truly infatuated with was half Polish and Chinese. She's probably the one that kicked off that general preference.

I would like to point out one combo that is (in my opinion) quite underrated: Blasians.

I'm a little biased since a) I'm at least an 1/8th asian myself (well, East Indian-still technically south asia) and b) I come from a region where there are a decent number of blasians, and so have been able to see them both in and outside of my family.
Regardless, I just find that combination very appealing.

I find Afro-Indian girls and the predominantly black women out there with just that hint of east-indian blood particularly beautiful, though that Black+East Asian mix looks just as good IMO.

My ideal women look like this (Black + Chinese + East Indian):



And these (both Indo-African):



It is a real shame (for me, anyway) that these mixes are so rare outside of the Caribbean.
More Blasians if anyone cares:

delete.

hapas are cute. i like that indo-african

I'm somehow unattracted to half white/half asian girls. Their eyes look weird. The first thing that I notice are the eyes. I am attracted to full asian girls though.

I'm white with a beard. In high school asian girls approached me outright and I didn't have any facial hair. I think with tight game I could possibly pull an asian chick 2-3 points better looking than me.

Quote: (03-30-2012 05:19 PM)blurb Wrote:  

What about hapa guys? (half-white half-asian guys). Any of you guys hang out with hapa guys?

I'm usually the only one unless I'm hanging out with my brother or cousins. Back when I had no game these girls stopped my cousin and I in the club and asked to take a picture of us. My cousin knew what the deal was while my dumbass didn't know how to follow up. We ended up banging the girls but if it wasn't for him I would've fumbled it.

Athlone the first girl in the pics you posted is mad fly.

Why are Asian girls obsessed with white guys? I always think its strange when a girl won't mess with ANY guys of the same ethnicity. That's like saying you hate your people or skin color. I don't know if that's a west coast thing or what, because most of the ones down here stick with Asian dudes. Matter of fact, all the Asian betas that pop up occasionally need to take a trip down here and take notes from the Asian gangsters. Those boys always have some fiiiine Asian girls with them.

You Hapa guys should check out some hapa meetups in your city.

I went to one in Tokyo with a buddy (who is hapa) and I tripped at the level of talent. Strange thing about Tokyo though, is the hapa there seem to date within their hapa circle (other Japs dont see them as Japanese, or so I am told).

Quote: (03-30-2012 11:27 PM)houston Wrote:  

Why are Asian girls obsessed with white guys? I always think its strange when a girl won't mess with ANY guys of the same ethnicity. That's like saying you hate your people or skin color. I don't know if that's a west coast thing or what, because most of the ones down here stick with Asian dudes. Matter of fact, all the Asian betas that pop up occasionally need to take a trip down here and take notes from the Asian gangsters. Those boys always have some fiiiine Asian girls with them.

Cause white guys have huge cocks. I used to bang this Mongolian girl. She was 90 pounds. I could barely get my cock inside her. It bottomed out all the time. She loved it though.

I banged out a few Korean girls and a Taiwanese girl. Same thing pretty much. They're all super tight down there.

I believe Asian guys are more racist than white guys. They won't date half Asian girls. White guys on the other hand will fuck pretty much anything. It's probably why Hapas like white guys. Cause they're probably not accepted by the Asian community.

Quote: (03-31-2012 09:12 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote: (03-30-2012 11:27 PM)houston Wrote:  

Why are Asian girls obsessed with white guys?

Cause white guys have huge cocks.

Bullshit. If that were the case, I'd be seeing Asian girls with black dudes more than once a year. This comes down to some weird Asian fetishization of white dudes.

Quote: (03-30-2012 11:27 PM)houston Wrote:  

Why are Asian girls obsessed with white guys? I always think its strange when a girl won't mess with ANY guys of the same ethnicity. That's like saying you hate your people or skin color. I don't know if that's a west coast thing or what, because most of the ones down here stick with Asian dudes. Matter of fact, all the Asian betas that pop up occasionally need to take a trip down here and take notes from the Asian gangsters. Those boys always have some fiiiine Asian girls with them.

Because generally speaking, asian guys are traditional controlling assholes. Every asian girl I've dated has said the same thing. They probably look at American guys and think we're either nice, sweet doormats, or independent playboy types who are capable of giving them the hard fuck they want without any emotional or relationship commitment. This has been my experience with Latina girls that go for white guys too.

If you're a tall (6'+), decent looking white guy, you should be able to absolutely kill it with asians and Latinas.

Quote: (03-31-2012 10:15 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Quote: (03-31-2012 09:12 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Quote: (03-30-2012 11:27 PM)houston Wrote:  

Why are Asian girls obsessed with white guys?

Cause white guys have huge cocks.

Bullshit. If that were the case, I'd be seeing Asian girls with black dudes more than once a year. This comes down to some weird Asian fetishization of white dudes.

The brothas are packing too much junk for them

Quote: (03-30-2012 03:38 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Tips for Picking Up Hapa Girls:

1. Be White.
2. See #1.

Not to race bait, but that's been my overwhelming experience/observation.

Maybe it's a little different depending on the area. We have a lot of half Asian mixes in Vancouver, comes with the monsterous influx of Asians in general. I find that the full Asian crowd tends to stick to their own a lot more and the ones that do stray tend to lean white guys. They're more parent friendly than the darker shades lol...but the halfie mixes are pretty open, I've dated at least 6, banged 4 of them not a huge number by any means but one of my workout partners is a muslim giant mutant, just a massive lifter and he's on the darker side, he's got hardcore asian fever and he's cleaned up with mixes, the filipina/white mix especially but the other ones as well. It's a really diverse city so that might skew it a little...I guess what I'm saying if anyone want hapa women, get to vancouver, you'll have to put in your time as like any girl there it's probably gonna be work but you'll have options and you'll get them.

Quote: (03-30-2012 03:38 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Tips for Picking Up Hapa Girls:

1. Be White.
2. See #1.

Not to race bait, but that's been my overwhelming experience/observation.

So true, So true. It is what it is.

It's funny how we see so many things as either/or. With these Hapas, it is probably a combination of not being truly Asian, thus Asian guys reject them. Also, more often than not, their dad is the white parent, and depending on how much access they had to the Asian half of the family/culture, they may be culturally white. Therefore, they date men that are like their dad, and the guys that find them attractive.

On the West Coast, Asian guys do not reject them. They are considered very desirable . If you are "fresh off the boat" from Asia, it might be a little different. But lets be honest, those guys wanna fuck the hapas too.

Some of the hottest girls I've seen/known/dated/banged were a mix of persian/SE Asian. Feminine features, olive / bronze skin, great assets.

My observation is that straight-up Asian guys go after the hapa chicks pretty damn hard (not "reject" them as other have claimed). Just anecdotally, in my pre-game days, I was with an LTR who was hapa, and the Asian guys would trip over each other to hit on my chick (and she was a 7, at best). I remember having to check a few thirsty, no-game betas who kept lavishing her with the "exotic" label and asking her about her race non-stop while I was standing right there. One guy, who she knew through her social circle, sent her this epic four-page, hand-written letter to her house declaring his love for her. This is in the era of email, just to be clear. What I wouldn't do to see that letter today.

The hapa chicks, however, tend to go for the white guys--whenever they can. It's not surprising that Asian guys would pursue hapa chicks. Asian culture--especially Japanese--celebrates European features to no end. It's almost disgusting how much they do it. Just watch two seconds of anime or play video games made in Japan. Both genders, but the girls especially, have blue eyes, light hair, and (very) marginally Asian features. I'd argue that many of these idealized representations appear "hapa." Let's not even talk about "Asian Eye-lid Surgery," which as another discussion entirely.

Just as one example: how "Asian" does the drawing of the girl below look to you? She's a character named Sakura who's supposed to be Japanese. You may recognize her from the Street Fighter franchise. The Final Fantasy franchise is one of the worst offenders, presenting the spectacle of blonde Asian people and other odd hybrids that rarely appear in nature.

   

   

http://thathapagirl.blogspot.com/2011/09...o.html?m=1

Tuthmosis you had me cracking up about the thirsty betas popping at your girl. Some of the worst game I've ever witnessed was chumpy asian and white dudes trying to holler at my hapa cousins. These guys literally lost their minds over them.

I never did get the big deal asians made about having a double eyelid. They always comment how I got "lucky" to have the trait.