Quote: (09-03-2018 02:08 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

Quote: (09-03-2018 07:13 AM)Lowkey Wrote:  

Some brothers are just plain bitches. Some see you as a threat to their perceived social ranking. In those type of guys eyes their are only one token black guy allowed in their social circle, And they will fight to be the one maybe even kill

Not usually my taste, but that was kinda funny.

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Quote: (09-03-2018 01:30 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

Quote: (09-02-2018 09:24 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  

I find Indian girls in Europe and Australia are much easier to slay than N.A. girls. It’s something about living here in America that turns girls against dating black men. I wonder what that is ? ?

My observation: ethnic women in NA typically want either their own men or white guys when dating out. Very few seem to be open to other ethnic dudes - but guys I've seen succeed typically did it through social circle.

Bold part is what I'm referring to.

I have no idea what you are talking about.

I've traveled all over north america and I've attracted girls of all ethnicities except indian girls.

I see couples with black guys and other ethinicities everywhere and all the time.

I love being black and i see it as an advantage in north america.

We have built in "bad boy" factor by default.

I think its easier for a black guy to get laid then even a white guy.

Indian girls are the only girls I never see with black guys; they are the exception so far in my experience.

Quote: (09-03-2018 10:37 AM)Iso Wrote:  

Hey guys,

I want to ask a question about situations that have been troubling me recently. I have found myself going to house parties/gatherings/etc. quite a bit in recent times where I do not know a single person except the 1 friend who invited me. The difficulty is that I'm usually the only Black Man in those gatherings. I'm trying my hardest to build rapport with the men and women there, but the conversations never surpass a superficial level. How do you guys gain rapport in those situations?

I find that some are intimidated by me, a Tall Black Man. I want to show my friendliness but others typically keep a distance.

Iso with friend - introduce me to some one you know.

Friend introduces you to Chad - Yo, this is my Boy Iso.

What up Chad, small talk, - hey do you know that group across the way

Yes - introduce me
No - Let's go introduce ourselves.

To new group - I'm Iso, this is Chad - do you know my friend?

What are your names?

Blah blah blah.

To new group - do you know that squad over there?

Rinse and Repeat.

WIA

Quote: (09-03-2018 10:37 AM)Iso Wrote:  

Hey guys,

I want to ask a question about situations that have been troubling me recently. I have found myself going to house parties/gatherings/etc. quite a bit in recent times where I do not know a single person except the 1 friend who invited me. The difficulty is that I'm usually the only Black Man in those gatherings. I'm trying my hardest to build rapport with the men and women there, but the conversations never surpass a superficial level. How do you guys gain rapport in those situations?

I find that some are intimidated by me, a Tall Black Man. I want to show my friendliness but others typically keep a distance.

Option A:

Dance. Literally just start dancing. Between me and you all it takes is some rudimentary footwork to outdo 99.99% of American dudes(occasionally if you're lucky some chick who strips or dances semi-professionally will make some moves toward you as well). Once you've done that just high five someone randomly or fist bump someone after which you start some random mundane discussion.

That's usually how I do it. Once you get good at this. You'll even have girls coming up and whispering in your ear to head back out there with them. Dancing is extremely primal and sets off something in every lizard's hind brain. White, Black, Latina(especially), Asian, etc.

Option B(can be segwayed from Option A):

Talk to someone and ask them about the host and who he/she is. People who throw parties usually have some dirt on them and people love to shit talk others so they'll be interested in the topic at hand. Let them mouth off and segue the conversation elsewhere introducing yourself/some commonalities with the people around you.

I can honestly go on about this stuff for hours, but these are generally best option after years of field testing.

Edit: Just read the scenario. My advice only applies to big parties with 20+ people(usually with a live DJ and atleast a small dancefloor in front of where the shit is setup). With small groups it's just intimate. Stay quiet and throw in a few jokes occasionally until people open up to you. People are getting more and more tribal by the day so you have to just provide some immediate and opportune value upfront. Don't be afraid to jump into other people's conversations(though don't dominate them either).

Quote: (09-02-2018 08:04 AM)Moma Wrote:  

Quote: (09-01-2018 07:28 PM)TheScientist Wrote:  

I just joined this forum to specifically ask other black guys about indian girls.

I'm a pretty good looking black guy and I attract all types of girls but indian girls seem to have no interest in me at all.

It's actually been bothering for a long time now as I have a thing for caramel colored girls so I see a lot of indian girls who I'm attracted to. There's a lot of them where i live.

Is any black guy in here regularly fucking some hot indian girls?

Does anyone else feel completely ignored by these girls?

I've heard Indian people in general are very racist towards black people so are these girls just racist?

Also, where I live most of the brown girls are indian so I'm talking about them specifically as I do not have experience with brown/arab girls from other countries.

I have heard that other brown girls like persians and morocans like black men so this does not seem to be an issue with all brown/arab girls.

Please share any info you have on this.

It depends where you are in the world. My black friends went to a university in London heavily frequented by Indians and they were running through the girls like a train with failed brakes. Move to other regions and depending on the population, it may become more difficult. Certain Indian sects may be more open minded than others. Goans are pretty open minded but there may be others that are from a harsher culture.
Maybe you should start by looking for a Goan meetup?

Bold part is what I'm responding to.

I'm glad you reminded me of London.

You are the 2nd person recently who has mentioned Indian girls in London love black men.

I'm hoping to go there this year and see for myself.

Game universally applies to all aspects of interpersonal communication. Levity is a must, don’t ask a bunch of close-ended questions and throw topics out there for opinions & debate. I absolutely hate when folks ask me what I do, where I live, where I went to school etc. Chics don’t like that shit an neither do strangers.

Quote: (09-03-2018 01:30 PM)jselysianeagle Wrote:  

Quote: (09-02-2018 09:24 PM)Mentavious Wrote:  

I find Indian girls in Europe and Australia are much easier to slay than N.A. girls. It’s something about living here in America that turns girls against dating black men. I wonder what that is ? ?

My observation: ethnic women in NA typically want either their own men or white guys when dating out. Very few seem to be open to other ethnic dudes - but guys I've seen succeed typically did it through social circle.

The social circle phenomenon seems to vary in strength regionally. I think social circle is the mandatory vetting some of these younger chicks seem to require to even look at you & be cordial with you in smaller markets (smaller towns, suburbs, exurbs, smaller cities with less transplants). I will give you a prime example from this past weekend. I was out at a couple bars / nightclubs in the suburbs of Detroit this past weekend & the vast majority of the crowd out there were comprised of tight knit social circles. I was with a chick one night & just doing the grown n sexy thing couplesy thing (kissing up on her in the club & all that). The other night I ended up rolling solo dolo when the chick had to bow out kinda early. I was getting cockblocked & hated on by captain save da gal types in there (I think they were Chaldean / Iraqi Catholic) just for dancing too close to one of their women hahah. I could tell what was happening. One of the fattie chicks in their crew was kinda feeling me but her girl was in hardcore cockblock mode & the men in their crew were insecure 20 somethings trying to guard their "women" lol. But the realest G's in the club definitely gave me daps. Isn't it kinda ironic that the toughest dudes in the spot often times are the least insecure and actually the coolest broskis?

Now another night of the holiday weekend I ended up down at a techno / house music club in the city of Detroit & it was a far different atmosphere. A lot less haterade & townie shit. Just people dancing & having a good time rave style (granted some of them might have been on drugs, I was just lit off of some liquor). It is what it is I guess.

Typical A-rab behaviour.

TDK

Quote: (09-04-2018 12:55 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  

Typical A-rab behaviour.

TDK

LOL yeah. At least a lotta the Ay-rabs in the titty bars I used to hit up were generally just older guys that kept to themselves. Been staying away from the thot spots this year. But yeah the young'ns tend to cockblock by nature when they have their women with them.

Shout-outs to all the cool Persians, Chaldeans, Assyrians, Arabs, etc. tho I'm not trying to ignite race wars.

Going to NYC in a few days, any advice? Take in mind I've read the data sheets as well

Where are you staying?

Do you know people in the city?

Have you been before?

What kind of crowd are you looking for?

NYC is really easy mode if you know where to go and what to do.

When others say that people are getting more tribal, are you stating that social circle game is becoming easier and getting you higher quality chicks? Or are you saying that men are cold-approaching less?

Quote: (09-04-2018 08:53 AM)BasketBounce Wrote:  

When others say that people are getting more tribal, are you stating that social circle game is becoming easier and getting you higher quality chicks? Or are you saying that men are cold-approaching less?

Like P Diddy once said I'm seeing mini cliques linking up with other mini cliques. Like his interlude lines from Biggie's "Big Poppa" -

"Yeah, honey, check it—
Tell your friends to get with my friends
And we can be friends
Shit, we can do this every weekend, aight?
Is that aight with you?
Yeah… keep bangin' "

Quote: (09-04-2018 03:38 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  

Where are you staying?

Do you know people in the city?

Have you been before?

What kind of crowd are you looking for?

NYC is really easy mode if you know where to go and what to do.

I’m staying in Manhattan.... looking for chill crowd, I’m pretty down to check out anything. No I haven’t been there before. I’ll be staying for 6 days.

Quote: (09-04-2018 10:15 AM)ballsyamog Wrote:  

Quote: (09-04-2018 03:38 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  

Where are you staying?

Do you know people in the city?

Have you been before?

What kind of crowd are you looking for?

NYC is really easy mode if you know where to go and what to do.

I’m staying in Manhattan.... looking for chill crowd, I’m pretty down to check out anything. No I haven’t been there before. I’ll be staying for 6 days.

You know which part of Manhattan?

Quote: (09-03-2018 05:21 PM)TheScientist Wrote:  

Bold part is what I'm referring to.

I have no idea what you are talking about.

I've traveled all over north america and I've attracted girls of all ethnicities except indian girls.

I see couples with black guys and other ethinicities everywhere and all the time.

I love being black and i see it as an advantage in north america.

We have built in "bad boy" factor by default.

I think its easier for a black guy to get laid then even a white guy.

Indian girls are the only girls I never see with black guys; they are the exception so far in my experience.

It's not like I never see mixed race couples - but from 20 combined years in LA + NYC, they make up a minuscule fraction of all the pairings I come across.

I've heard that things are better in the non-coastal cities from a number of my ethnic friends. I've never been to the midwest or the south so this may well be true, I have no idea. Hence why I prefaced my comment with "my observation", and it was just that.

One thing I'll add: I see more open-mindedness among younger women (< 25) which is a good sign. Most of the ethnic bros I've seen dating out have been in the younger age brackets.

Before the parents and family get involved for serious relationships ... I assume that’s part of the reason for the younger people being more open minded.

TDK

Quote: (09-04-2018 02:02 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:  

Before the parents and family get involved for serious relationships ... I assume that’s part of the reason for the younger people being more open minded.

TDK

TDK you hit the nail on the head. It's a combination of that plus more cultures being surrounded by each other & going to school with each other than in the past.

But usually for the situations in which it works out (especially for older serious relationships), the two parties are likely of a similar socioeconomic & educational background. Might have overlap with social circles & certainly with interests and hobbies too.

You know one thing I'm seeing now quite a bit more that I never used to see much of is Black women with White guys. Black guys with White girls was something I'd see often enough but not the opposite. Any thoughts on why this is or if any of you have even seen this as well?

Because most white guys can't get laid anymore in the same way as they used to. Nobody can be as selective as before only women, chads and guys with game have that possibility.

It's not like before when you would get a life mate after high school or college. Social circle and arranged family marriages aren't that popular in these days.

Quote: (09-04-2018 05:39 PM)doc holliday Wrote:  

You know one thing I'm seeing now quite a bit more that I never used to see much of is Black women with White guys. Black guys with White girls was something I'd see often enough but not the opposite. Any thoughts on why this is or if any of you have even seen this as well?

There has been a lot of media brainwashing to get black women to date outside of their race. This is on a deeper level that I don't want to get into on this forum.

White guys are tired of white women, who feel they can have everything they want. A non white woman will always be happy to date a white man and not give him too much headache.

Most white men prefer "their" women and generally only date outside their race when they cannot get the women they desire.

I am seeing more white women curious or looking to date black men.

I always liked the original non-politically correct version

Quote: (09-04-2018 01:26 AM)jordypip23 Wrote:  

Quote: (09-04-2018 12:55 AM)thedarkknight Wrote:  

Typical A-rab behaviour.

TDK

LOL yeah. At least a lotta the Ay-rabs in the titty bars I used to hit up were generally just older guys that kept to themselves. Been staying away from the thot spots this year. But yeah the young'ns tend to cockblock by nature when they have their women with them.

Shout-outs to all the cool Persians, Chaldeans, Assyrians, Arabs, etc. tho I'm not trying to ignite race wars.

Yeah dawg Manhattan is big so it depends on what hood you’re staying in.

To pull... my favorite spot is Gold Bar.

For NYC party scene check out PHD

For yuppie white social circle check any lower east side brunch on a Saturday afternoon.

For sistas hit 125th and Malcolm X (Red Rooster or Corner Social) and up down 5 blocks or over an Ave in either direction

Quote: (09-05-2018 05:19 AM)Black Caesar Wrote:  

Yeah dawg Manhattan is big so it depends on what hood you’re staying in.

To pull... my favorite spot is Gold Bar.

For NYC party scene check out PHD

For yuppie white social circle check any lower east side brunch on a Saturday afternoon.

For sistas hit 125th and Malcolm X (Red Rooster or Corner Social) and up down 5 blocks or over an Ave in either direction

I'm staying right by Central Park, have a buddy that lives there.
Thanks Ill check them out.