https://www.bustle.com/p/millennial-wome...ds-7873841
I guess having thousands of options will make them cheat.
I guess having thousands of options will make them cheat.
Quote: (07-27-2018 07:58 AM)Ferrari Wrote:
https://www.bustle.com/p/millennial-wome...ds-7873841
I guess having thousands of options will make them cheat.
Quote: (07-27-2018 11:11 AM)kosko Wrote:
In the end, there will have to be a dam that breaks. These 100+ cock girls will age to be strange, single, and barren. I believe (and hope) this will scare the new crop of younger girls who don't want to end up like their generational older sisters. I hope that these causes are breakdown where LTRs and monogomy come back into fashion. There will eventually have to be a burnout from this digital app/hookup culture. Women are not built for it. They will eventually grow cold over it.
Quote: (07-27-2018 12:58 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:
If you want to know what sex is getting the most action and being exposed to STDs just take a look at the sexual health clinics. Last time I went I saw a shitload of young women in the 18-23 range.
Quote: (07-27-2018 02:19 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:
Man, if I didn't know better I'd think a lot of you guys were puritans. Women like sex and want to cheat on their men? Nothing new. I know this study says more women cheat than men, but if the men had the same options and awareness of their options we would cheat more than women, of that I have no doubt.
This is history's greatest opportunity for an unending flow of available strange for any man willing to work on himself. We should be celebrating this as a blessing, not a curse. Now, I can imagine how this reality might suck for someone looking for a companion and monogamy, but a man adapts to the times and enjoys the reality of his situation to the highest while not lamenting upon that which he cannot change.
Wrap it up gentleman. Don't get married. As a man you can live a life of meaning and purpose no matter what prevailing trends are with women.
Quote: (07-27-2018 12:43 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
People's behavior is contingent on what they can get away with. We might hate the office jerk, for example, but we don't punch him in the face because we can't get away with it. We'd get fired and arrested.
When it comes to women and cheating, they do it because they can. There is little downside.
In divorce settlements, women will often get awarded the house and kids even if they're the ones that cheated. They simply claim "abuse" and the chivalrous male judges (or man-hating feminist ones) go along with it.
(Spousal abuse claims, by the way, are the white women's variation on inner city killers pleas of "insanity" so they can get light sentences. Almost all lawyers get their clients to claim this as a matter of course.)
Then there's the social shaming. There is very little of that for women. New agey, Oprah-inspired concepts like "Your Best Self" allow women to justify virtually anything under the concept of "self-improvement." Even religious groups indulge in this sort of thinking, as the Dalrock blog has shown.
Women: "I had to sleep with all your best friends because I had to prove to myself I was attractive to men!"
The Greek Chorus of the American Media: "You go, girl!"
The only downside might be when the guy who gets cheated on complains. But then the women can call on The Costume Crowd.
What is The Costume Crowd? They're the people in society that think they have authority over us because they wear costumes. There is the cop costume (complete with badge!), the judge and priest's robe costume, the doctor's white coat costume, the sexy nurse costume etc. For whatever reason, humans instinctively bow down when they see costumes.
Anyway, The Costume Crowd has morphed from being helpful parts of society to being a support system for the bad behavior of women. All of these people would have called out women cheating back in the 1950s. Now they use their credentials to justify it all in the legal, religious, or psychological realms.
I'll end it there. I don't know if I can be more cynical or bitter than that.
Quote: (07-27-2018 03:48 PM)RoastBeefCurtains4Me Wrote:
Quote: (07-27-2018 12:43 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
People's behavior is contingent on what they can get away with. We might hate the office jerk, for example, but we don't punch him in the face because we can't get away with it. We'd get fired and arrested.
When it comes to women and cheating, they do it because they can. There is little downside.
In divorce settlements, women will often get awarded the house and kids even if they're the ones that cheated. They simply claim "abuse" and the chivalrous male judges (or man-hating feminist ones) go along with it.
(Spousal abuse claims, by the way, are the white women's variation on inner city killers pleas of "insanity" so they can get light sentences. Almost all lawyers get their clients to claim this as a matter of course.)
Then there's the social shaming. There is very little of that for women. New agey, Oprah-inspired concepts like "Your Best Self" allow women to justify virtually anything under the concept of "self-improvement." Even religious groups indulge in this sort of thinking, as the Dalrock blog has shown.
Women: "I had to sleep with all your best friends because I had to prove to myself I was attractive to men!"
The Greek Chorus of the American Media: "You go, girl!"
The only downside might be when the guy who gets cheated on complains. But then the women can call on The Costume Crowd.
What is The Costume Crowd? They're the people in society that think they have authority over us because they wear costumes. There is the cop costume (complete with badge!), the judge and priest's robe costume, the doctor's white coat costume, the sexy nurse costume etc. For whatever reason, humans instinctively bow down when they see costumes.
Anyway, The Costume Crowd has morphed from being helpful parts of society to being a support system for the bad behavior of women. All of these people would have called out women cheating back in the 1950s. Now they use their credentials to justify it all in the legal, religious, or psychological realms.
I'll end it there. I don't know if I can be more cynical or bitter than that.
If anything, you're laying it out gently. The situation is badly fucked, and somehow all the institutions, authority figures, moral leaders, and the majority of the general population have gone all in on having it this way.
They say the sins of the parents are visited upon the children to the third generation. We're in for a lot of shit.
Quote: (07-27-2018 03:13 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
So, to answer your post on this thread. Yes, it IS something new. And no, we're not Puritans, just men trying to figure out what happened to cause this change (a lot of which I tried to explain in an earlier post).
Quote: (07-27-2018 03:29 PM)placer Wrote:
It took me two clicks to get to the actual study:
https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-mo...in-america — http://archive.is/rybk6
It's the 18-29 demographic where married girls are slightly more likely to cheat on their husbands (11%) than the other way around (10%); as men get older and their wives hit the wall, they become more likely to cheat on their spouse.
Quote: (07-27-2018 12:43 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:
People's behavior is contingent on what they can get away with. We might hate the office jerk, for example, but we don't punch him in the face because we can't get away with it. We'd get fired and arrested.
When it comes to women and cheating, they do it because they can. There is little downside.
In divorce settlements, women will often get awarded the house and kids even if they're the ones that cheated. They simply claim "abuse" and the chivalrous male judges (or man-hating feminist ones) go along with it.
(Spousal abuse claims, by the way, are the white women's variation on inner city killers pleas of "insanity" so they can get light sentences. Almost all lawyers get their clients to claim this as a matter of course.)
Then there's the social shaming. There is very little of that for women. New agey, Oprah-inspired concepts like "Your Best Self" allow women to justify virtually anything under the concept of "self-improvement." Even religious groups indulge in this sort of thinking, as the Dalrock blog has shown.
Women: "I had to sleep with all your best friends because I had to prove to myself I was attractive to men!"
The Greek Chorus of the American Media: "You go, girl!"
The only downside might be when the guy who gets cheated on complains. But then the women can call on The Costume Crowd.
What is The Costume Crowd? They're the people in society that think they have authority over us because they wear costumes. There is the cop costume (complete with badge!), the judge and priest's robe costume, the doctor's white coat costume, the sexy nurse costume etc. For whatever reason, humans instinctively bow down when they see costumes.
Anyway, The Costume Crowd has morphed from being helpful parts of society to being a support system for the bad behavior of women. All of these people would have called out women cheating back in the 1950s. Now they use their credentials to justify it all in the legal, religious, or psychological realms.
I'll end it there. I don't know if I can be more cynical or bitter than that.