Quote: (05-23-2018 05:04 PM)TheDuncan Wrote:
We were talking about something getting stolen and I said “yea you will deff get caught 100% for that”, then she says “not if your name is EX, he got away with this and that” I ignored it and moved on, whats up with that though? Harmless conversation?
I can understand if if pertained to something that makes sense by why say all that? Been with this chick going on two years, aint afraid to send her to hell and im not too suspicious of her but it does get me thinking sometimes..
This is the equivalent of a girl talking about a prior boyfriend and saying something like:
"So and so was a badass."
And you're there thinking like...
"Aren't I a badass?"
And she's like...
"Haha, no, you are not a badass."
If you want to avoid situations like this, date girls with zero or maybe 1 or 2 prior sexual partners. Even if you're a handsome, successful businessman, you're not going to compete in the "badass" department with some dude that's been in and out of the slammer.
You're just not. And you shouldn't want to, either. For a girl, dating a criminal can be great, she gets the rush of breaking the law, without actually breaking it herself, plus she gets access to the benefits/profits of the criminality with none or a small fraction of the actual risk.
It's not a bad game from the girl's aspect, but from the guy's aspect, it's a very high-risk, low reward game, statistically.
So it's best to completely avoid being in that situation. Look at Trump's son's wife, the one that recently divorced him. She dated that Latin dude, and no other guy's success/money will ever give her the tingles that guy did. If you believe the articles published, she basically helped him break the law in some cases.
But if Trump's son had been her first, it could have been a different story.
It also depends on the girl, some girls just have different wiring, but yeah, if you date girls that have been with guys before you, this can happen. Not always, sometimes she hasn't dated criminals so you actually will be the most alpha guy she's been with, but if she's dated criminals, unless you also make a living in the underworld, you're in a bad spot.
You want to be the best man your girl's ever had, and also, the best man your girl thinks she can ever get. She's gotta feel like the luckiest girl in the world and see her job as doing everything she can to make sure you don't leave her.