Now I’ll move on to the venues.
Lebowski Bar-This is a bar with two levels as well as a small dance floor in the back where mainly 70's and 80's music is playing. It's a great place to make conversation with people and along with Icelanders, there is a decent amount of tourists here. Both weekend nights I was here I met some amicable girls visiting from other countries. It is best to go here starting at 11 or a little later and then go somewhere else if nothing sticks.
Prikid-Hipster/alternative and hip-hop/rap bar that is a good spot on Thursday and not too bad on the weekends. There are two levels and an outdoor smoking area that's obviously good for meeting and chatting with people. This was also another spot I met a few good folks.
B5-Typical club with a big dance floor and bottle service (although tables aren't really a big deal in the Icelandic clubbing culture apparently). There are some attractive girls but good luck talking to them with all the noise and pushing (Did I mention that Icelanders just love to push people when they're drunk?) going on in the place. The best spot to try talking to girls was near the coat check in the basement, but it's quite the effort to keep the attention of these girls before they either go off to join their friends or just stop engaging in the conversation.
Austur-As one of the other major clubs in Reykjavik, this spot had slightly more attractive and better-dressed girls than B5. The dance floor is not as big and there's a bit more room at the bar for talking. This club also has an outdoor smoking area.
Some other places were mentioned in other topics but I didn't go to them so I can't speak for those places. I did go into Bar 11 once but did not stay there long enough to write anything of substance about it.
The best time to approach Icelanders is when the bars let out. The methods required to succeed have been well documented on this forum and elsewhere but it's not as easy as it used to be and rejections are not uncommon. It's possible to build some rapport with Icelanders and then leave a venue but it's much harder with the two clubs B5 and Austur since they have long lines starting around 1:00 and getting into them before the 4:30 closing is basically impossible. In contrast, one can go into a place like Prikid before the closing time and get in without trouble.
Foreign tourists are much more willing to switch venues and I found them to be more compliant. Don’t be afraid to pull them back to your place early since they don’t usually want to stay out all that long anyway.
With all that said, I’ll now detail my three days in Iceland.
Thursday
I get into Reykjavik in the early morning and the sky is dark, the tarmac is covered with snow, the temperature is slightly chilly at about -5 Celsius, and the smell of sulfur is almost ubiquitous. Unfortunately my apartment has a 15:00 check-in and so I'm stuck for approximately the next 7 hours in the airport. I decide to leave the airport earlier than planned once I realize that I’ll need an adapter for my chargeable electronics since the electrical outlets in Iceland are different than those in the United States.
I go to the ticket stand for the Gray Line bus and have a nice chat with the attendant there. She’s not great looking and has short hair but can hold a conversation, smile, and has some sense of humor, which makes the experience of talking to her leagues better than my interactions with most American girls. This would be a common occurrence throughout the trip with a few exceptions.
The bus ride is uneventful, aside from some obnoxious British tourists who go bonkers at the driver once they realize one of their bags is missing. It was then that I realized why so many forum members and Icelanders cringe at the existence of the average British tourist.
After picking up the adapter from the hardware store I mentioned earlier, I relax at a coffee shop until checking-in to my wonderful apartment shortly after 15:00. The next few hours are spent resting and checking out the city a bit.
I decide to head out at 23:00 and first go to Lebowski Bar, which hardly has anybody. After making the decision to leave, I see that Prikid has some activity so I go in there. There’s some kind of performer and a decent amount of people, so I stick around to give the place a shot. After chatting for a bit with some American dudes who are visiting Iceland, I notice this platinum blonde Icelandic girl with a big tattoo on her chest and boobs who could be considered an 8 by any reasonable standards and perhaps even a 9. We chat for a bit about the tattoo and it turns out she was an au pair in a part of the US I’m familiar with and has visited 10 states. In typical Icelandic fashion, she interrupts the conversation and dips when one of her friends is in the vicinity. I do run into her again later but I realize it won’t go anywhere after learning that she has a boyfriend, works a stressful medical job in a remote part of Iceland on alternating weeks, and likes cocaine. She’s a big tease and simply just crazy. My other approaches don’t amount to anything and when Prikid closes at 1 the streets are empty so I just call it quits for the night and fall asleep around 2.
Friday
I go to pick up my rental car and drive out on some of the Golden Circle route. The scenery is amazing and it’s unfortunate that I didn’t have time to explore other parts of the island. Along the way, I make a stop at a thermal pool called Secret Lagoon, which has a website at
this link. Admission is 2800 ISK and if you bring a towel, you won’t have to pay anything else since there is free use of lockers at the facility. Blue Lagoon was not on my agenda and I was quite satisfied with Secret Lagoon since it wasn’t crowded and not very expensive.
After spending some time at the lagoon, I drive back to Reykjavik and just chill for a bit before heading out at 23:30. This time I intend to go to Bar 11, but on the way I see these two girls in front of me who are clearly drunk, so I approach them. They’re both British girls from London no more than a 6 on the looks scale. We check out Bar 11 and find it empty so we go to Lebowski Bar instead. Unlike the previous night it has a good turnout of people, so we hang out there but it’s evident they’re not into me and would rather dance among themselves. I extract myself from their presence and chat up various other girls in the venue and eventually run into two other British girls from the northern part of England. One is an overweight girl and the other is a thin 6. They’re both pleasant to talk to and we hang out for a while before I suggest going to B5, which turned out to be a mistake in retrospect.
They’re not into the club scene and quickly get tired of being around the pushy Icelanders in B5. We then head to another small bar near Austur not worth mentioning and the 6 girl just doesn’t feel well (not physically but emotionally) and she wants to go back to her distant spot. The other girl then becomes a babysitter and they depart. I would’ve gotten their contact if I had thought about it at the time but I figure I can focus on Icelandic girls at the end of the night anyway. It’s about 3 AM at this point.
I head to Austur and stay until closing. As usual, the Icelandic girls I talk to are polite but are more interested in their friends and acquaintances. After Austur closes at 4:30 I stick around to try some last call game on the streets but there is hardly anyone around. The few people I even make an effort to talk to basically ignore me or smirk without saying a word. About 5:30 I call it quits and go to sleep, hoping Saturday will be better.
Saturday
I sleep away most of the morning afternoon on Saturday, cook some dinner, and then take a short nap before going out. There is some walking around the city in some periods when I’m awake, but the city of Reykjavik gets old very fast. Midnight is when I decide to head out, and Lebowski Bar in the first place I go to. Shortly after arriving I run into these two Canadian girls who are visiting the city. I hook with them and we sit together upstairs at the bar. One has a boyfriend but the more attractive girl does not. As it turns out, I matched with this girl on Tinder and she actually asked me if I was the same person but I had unmatched her so I played dumb. Meanwhile, some Swedish guys sit down near the two girls and one of them tries to run some game but despite being very nicely dressed, isn't very good at it. I simply suggest to the two girls that we check out somewhere else and we leave those dudes and their beers at Lebowski Bar.
We go to another bar on Austur not worth naming and hang out there for a bit before I suggest we go to my place which is a stone’s throw away. They comply but I can’t really do anything in the apartment with the two girls being together, and admittedly I didn’t establish enough sexual tension with the one attractive girl. We take shots of some dodgy Icelandic vodka and then they decide to depart as they’re in a place that’s a 30-minute walk (a common theme with these tourist girls to stay in distant places). It’s 3 AM when they leave.
I head out again and this time I go to B5, which is more packed with people than it was on the previous night. In fact, the streets definitely had more traffic on this Saturday night than it did at any point on Friday night. That being said, B5 was just an awful place to run game since everyone is either dancing or pushing someone. There aren’t really any spots to chat up girls and the few that I do talk to are behaving in standard Icelandic fashion. I spend about at hour there and it’s shortly before closing, so I check out Prikid. I meet two American girls there who are with an Icelandic guy. We hang out at Prikid until closing and then head to a back room in Bar 11 to drink with some Icelanders. We’re eventually kicked out so we decide to take a 10-minute walk to where the girls are staying. I figure I have a chance but after some time at the apartment, I learn that the girl not with the Icelandic guy has a boyfriend. By that point it’s too late to even try going back into the streets, so I just hang out with them and we talk for hours about various aspects of Icelandic culture. It’s 8:00 when I take a jog back to my apartment and get ready to leave the country. Oh well.
Verdict
Iceland is definitely a country worth visiting if you haven’t been there. The natural beauty is astounding and unlike many other places in the world. However, don’t come strictly for the women or expect to be welcomed with open arms. Icelandic people are polite but many can be cold and the country can become lonely and unwelcoming quickly. If I were to do Iceland again, I would only spend a Saturday there to see some of the nature outside of Reykjavik and then do a single blowout night of game. The country is quite expensive and offers a limited windows for pulling girls, which are some major downsides. The quality of girls also really varies, which is also another important thing to consider.
Tourists are definitely a niche worth exploring since so many of them visit the country and stay in the city. The summer apparently gets even more tourists, but there seemed to be enough to chat up when I was there. I did notice that there are a good amount of girls who traveled there in pairs (or were students from nearby countries), but often had apartments a little far away from the center. Getting a good pad near all the nightlife can make things a lot easier and many of the tourists I interacted with were rather easy to talk to and didn't mind meeting another tourist like myself. Hopefully some other members can benefit from my framework and take advantage of the tourist stream in Reykjavik.