Betas standing around the only hot girl at the club like:
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Quote: (05-01-2017 09:55 AM)loremipsum Wrote:
Apparently there is one particular subreddit about a boy being obsessed about a girl...
https://www.reddit.com/r/CouldYouPleaseStay/
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That's only half right. I am desperate for love, but I won't have a relationship with any woman. I could set up a dating profile right now, or perhaps I can just ask out my classmates, I am an awkward werido but I think they'd be proud to have a tall and masculine guy to be their boyfriend. Right, I am tall, I am masculine. I should be dating women. I really should.
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I have been watching gay stuff again. I had to do it. I was very very depressed and I nearly wanted to cry again. I watched and I started feeling better, I can't let myself be unhappy again. I should just start doing my homework. Work can distract me from thinking, but I have no idea how to start writing the 2000 word essay
I am sorry I have no idea what I am rambling on about. I wanted to write a post to ask how to distract myself from depressing thoughts. But people will call me drama whore again so I used my own ways to deal with it. What I did made me a little happier but it doesn't last. I will try doing my homework to distract myself.
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Will she be with me? Will she even say anything to me? She has her own life, she is not my therapist. Could I pay her to ask her to talk to me for a while? So ridiculous right? But I cannot do this by myself. I can't even do my homework. I am just so broken. If she was willing to say something to me, maybe I'd get better. But she wouldn't talk to me. She is a person that I can only meet in my dreams.
Quote: (05-01-2017 10:06 AM)sterling_archer Wrote:
Some of his comments, guy is pure train wreck.[/b]
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That's only half right. I am desperate for love, but I won't have a relationship with any woman. I could set up a dating profile right now, or perhaps I can just ask out my classmates, I am an awkward werido but I think they'd be proud to have a tall and masculine guy to be their boyfriend. Right, I am tall, I am masculine. I should be dating women. I really should.
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I have been watching gay stuff again. I had to do it. I was very very depressed and I nearly wanted to cry again. I watched and I started feeling better, I can't let myself be unhappy again. I should just start doing my homework. Work can distract me from thinking, but I have no idea how to start writing the 2000 word essay
I am sorry I have no idea what I am rambling on about. I wanted to write a post to ask how to distract myself from depressing thoughts. But people will call me drama whore again so I used my own ways to deal with it. What I did made me a little happier but it doesn't last. I will try doing my homework to distract myself.
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Will she be with me? Will she even say anything to me? She has her own life, she is not my therapist. Could I pay her to ask her to talk to me for a while? So ridiculous right? But I cannot do this by myself. I can't even do my homework. I am just so broken. If she was willing to say something to me, maybe I'd get better. But she wouldn't talk to me. She is a person that I can only meet in my dreams.
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Quote: (04-20-2017 12:56 AM)Transsimian Wrote:
I've been making good progress, I think? I want to share it with you.
I was at a coffee shop the other day, and the girl next to me is reading Jacques Ranciere. He's a philosopher who's affiliated with other philosophers I like, but I don't know enough about him that I would be able to uphold a decent conversation about him. And she is busy. I mean, really busy. She is underlining and highlighting the bejeezus out of this book. Her eyes are moving line to line like she was prepared for a snake to jump out at her. Homegirl is on a mission. No doubt she's very smart, and very committed to learning about Ranciere has to say. She's most likely in college or grad school I imagine.
So what do I do? What am I proud of?
I decide not to talk to her. Why? Because she's busy. That was a really hard thing for me to do, because I have a long history of attempting to get a girl's attention based on mutual interests, and hoping that it somehow turns into an opportunity for sex or dating. I've been doing this uncomfortable charade since middle school, where I was lonely and desperate to be seen with people that I grasped at straws in conversations with people, and the result were predictable. The conversations were never good, and they never wanted me around because I wasn't even relevant to what they wanted or needed in life. Homegirl was busy analyzing the crap out of this thinker. I figured she wouldn't want a lukewarm conversation about other thinkers, or have a lukewarm conversation about how she looked like she was having fun analyzing the crap out of this thinker. Just let her be.
I don't know, did I do good?
Found on Reddit
https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comment...i_want_to/
Highlighting mine.
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Woman here - I simply like that you respected her enough to think about what her feelings would be. Empathy is really attractive
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Sounds like you did the right thing. And if you see this girl in the coffee shop again, maybe in line, you can talk to her and mention how you saw her reading before... could be the best of both worlds!
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You did good. If you'd struck up a conversation she'd have been distracted the whole time she was studying.
No one, male or female, wants to be interrupted when they're in the zone.
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fistbump you did good. Somebody that focussed doesnt need interruptions from anybody, regardless of gender dynamics. Also, A+ introspection sir!
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Wanna chime in that you did the right thing, for the right reasons (i would had ripped you to shreds in her place)
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lol, honestly I think so. One, it's a big maturation of a social model that makes sure to put women's respect at the top.
Two, it eventually gets rid of a lot of noise in your head. Some day it'll be a similar situation but there will be a damn good reason to talk to her and you'll actually recognize that and understand it and react emotionally to the situation and context.
Three, the conversation may have been very good, and that's okay. Reclaiming the power to pass up chances is important. It's about doing the right thing, not hypothetical outcomes.
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You did good. If only others were like you
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You did. To me, the key thing is that you consciously decided what the best course of action would be, and you took it. That's some great self-awareness.
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talks about how he should platonically tell her he knows a lot about what shes reading
The important part for you is to walk away with no expectations. You are literally, 100% just being friendly and helpful. That's it. Nothing else.
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Or... you could learn from all the women here agreeing with OP that he did the right thing.
Honestly, the way you described your intrusion, I'd be livid.
Maybe you don't understand how often this happens. Guys I know, assume that I need their help with my work. I have more experience with my studies, then they do. Most of these blokes are 'self taught'. They once read an abridged version and therefore their grasp is much better than mine. A full time student with access to actual experts and teachers.
It boils my blood. I think your behaviour is intrusive, demeaning and patronising. And I'm trying to tell you something. Are you listening?
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Depends on the woman but I'd personally prefer it to him talking to me. He can leave his number and I cam easily just chunk it if I want.
Quote: (05-01-2017 03:11 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:
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The sad thing is that people are so socially autistic that they no longer know how to talk to strangers. Sad!
Quote: (03-10-2017 12:16 PM)SirTimothy Wrote:
Doesn't get much worse than this!
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...astor.html
Woman stars in over 100 porn films
Has three bastard children
Gets wifed up by a pastor 7 years younger than her
She becomes a "co-pastor" as well
Here's a pic of the couple:
Quote: (02-15-2017 01:38 PM)davyjose Wrote:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...l-facebook
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Hello from the other side! Boyfriends of Instagram page shares photos of men 'forced' to shoot the PERFECT social media snap of their girlfriends
-'Boyfriends of Instagram' shares hilarious photos of men going the extra mile
-Partners are snapped taking social media pictures for their other halves
-Men are pictured going to extra mile to get the perfect Instagram picture
It takes a lot of work to nail the perfect Instagram photo.
But these men know it better than some, going the extra mile to get the money shot for their other halves.
The 'Boyfriends of Instagram' page shares hilarious images of partners crouching, climbing and even laying on the ground in a bid to bag the perfect snap.
Sickening level of simping here. I don't really have much words for this bullshit, but it seems there isn't any depth the modern chump isn't prepared to plumb in order to keep feeding the beast that is the attention whoring capacity of the Average Western Female.
The 4th one down (also above) is pathetic beyond words - instead of being in the hot tub Dan Bilzarian style he's teetering on the edge like some $15 dollar an hour gobshite hired hand.
Quote: (09-02-2017 10:17 AM)blck Wrote:
It's as sad as this: https://www.instagram.com/miserable_men/
IG full of miserable guys idling while their wife goes on shopping spree...
Quote: (09-02-2017 09:53 AM)Latinopan Wrote:He should strip naked and jump in or just get in and then take off his clothes.
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Quote: (02-15-2017 01:38 PM)davyjose Wrote:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-...l-facebook
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Hello from the other side! Boyfriends of Instagram page shares photos of men 'forced' to shoot the PERFECT social media snap of their girlfriends
-'Boyfriends of Instagram' shares hilarious photos of men going the extra mile
-Partners are snapped taking social media pictures for their other halves
-Men are pictured going to extra mile to get the perfect Instagram picture
It takes a lot of work to nail the perfect Instagram photo.
But these men know it better than some, going the extra mile to get the money shot for their other halves.
The 'Boyfriends of Instagram' page shares hilarious images of partners crouching, climbing and even laying on the ground in a bid to bag the perfect snap.
Sickening level of simping here. I don't really have much words for this bullshit, but it seems there isn't any depth the modern chump isn't prepared to plumb in order to keep feeding the beast that is the attention whoring capacity of the Average Western Female.
The 4th one down (also above) is pathetic beyond words - instead of being in the hot tub Dan Bilzarian style he's teetering on the edge like some $15 dollar an hour gobshite hired hand.
Is this some sort of new thing from simps? or a new trend among some men? I have notice when looking at pictures of some celebrities this same thing.
Guys taking their wives and girlfriends to some party, all the girls are in the pool or Jacuzzi while the guys just sit around and watch.
Maybe those guys have some sort of fetish by watching their girlfriend in the pool with other girls, fantasizing about some sort of lesbian orgy.
Just a different version of cuckold guys that like to watch their girlfriends and wives flirting with other men.
Some guys are ok with their girls doing whatever as long is with just women, is like some swingers parties where married men take their wives and let them have lesbian orgies while the men watch.
I have see some of this at some level, guys that like to watch their girlfriends and wives dancing in the club with other women.
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A DAD is being applauded online for his twist on the traditional “rules for raising my daughter” fatherly thing.
J. Warren Welch, who says he “ain’t raisin’ no princesses”, posted his rules on social media, reports the NZ Herald.
“You’ll have to ask them what their rules are,” he says.
“I’m not raising my little girls to be the kind of women who need their daddy to act like a creepy possessive badass in order for them to be treated with respect.
“You will respect them, and if you don’t, I promise they won’t need my help
putting you back in your place. Good luck pumpkin.”
Welch, who is raising five daughters with his wife Natasha, told Today he understands “the urge to protect your daughters”.
“I get that. But the kind of posturing by fathers of daughters I was specifically responding to had nothing to do with that ‘protective instinct’ and everything to do with asserting their dominance over women and reinforcing a belief that women need men to take care of them.”
Welch and his wife Samantha are raising their girls together, and all daughters are from their respective previous relationships.