I met a FOB Asian girl at an art exhibit this weekend. We seemed to hit it off well. I took her to a few places around the city over the evening. I did some physical escalation such as holding hands and putting my arms around her at appropriate times. Even went in for the kiss at once point but she turned it down.
I then took her back to my apartment. We had a drink and watched a scary TV show, during which we were in full body contact on the couch. She was holding onto me tightly during the scary parts.
When the show was over, we started making out. She began grinding herself against me while I ran my hands over her skin under her clothes. I then carried her onto the bed. This was all over a period of about 5 minutes. Then she asked me to hold her. Thinking that she wanted a bit of comfort, I obliged, while taking the opportunity to unclasp her bra.
Suddenly, she seemed to have second thoughts. She said she couldn't do this and apologized. We got back onto the couch, where I attempted some more escalation, but I was kind of taken aback and not sure what was going on. I offered to let her stay the night but she said she had to go home. She asked me to walk her to the subway station. Seeing that this was late at night and she was in an unfamiliar neighborhood, I took her to the station.
This was my first time moving so quickly from a cold approach. I would like some input on how I could have done differently. I do wonder if I had lost too much frame near the end:
- Should I have disregarded her on the bed and kept escalating?
- Should I have ignored her when she asked to be held?
- Was it a bad idea to walk her to the station?
I then took her back to my apartment. We had a drink and watched a scary TV show, during which we were in full body contact on the couch. She was holding onto me tightly during the scary parts.
When the show was over, we started making out. She began grinding herself against me while I ran my hands over her skin under her clothes. I then carried her onto the bed. This was all over a period of about 5 minutes. Then she asked me to hold her. Thinking that she wanted a bit of comfort, I obliged, while taking the opportunity to unclasp her bra.
Suddenly, she seemed to have second thoughts. She said she couldn't do this and apologized. We got back onto the couch, where I attempted some more escalation, but I was kind of taken aback and not sure what was going on. I offered to let her stay the night but she said she had to go home. She asked me to walk her to the subway station. Seeing that this was late at night and she was in an unfamiliar neighborhood, I took her to the station.
This was my first time moving so quickly from a cold approach. I would like some input on how I could have done differently. I do wonder if I had lost too much frame near the end:
- Should I have disregarded her on the bed and kept escalating?
- Should I have ignored her when she asked to be held?
- Was it a bad idea to walk her to the station?