Don't worry guys I am still here. I am just working a ton these days, traveling a little and working on my own version of a Tinder datasheet.
Quote: (04-29-2017 05:45 PM)Bateman Wrote:
One should also not underestimate the language barrier. I´ve lived in Germany for almost a year recently, and my impression is that 7/10 girls are not comfortable speaking English with strangers, even though their language skills is acceptable. I often experienced that girls lost interest after they realized that they would need to have a conversation in English.
When that is being said, one should not generalize too much on a country with 82 million people.
What Bateman said is somewhat correct I don't know about 7/10 that seems about high but 50/50. As I said in my sheet its going to depend on her age and education. Younger girls will be much better than older girls.. I dont think anyone here is checking for girls 30 or older but soon as you start to get around that age English starts to drop off.
Any young German girl (18 to 26 who cant speak English is generally uneducated/ghetto or is what I call a Super German)
Super Germans are people who think Germany is the world. They strictly follow German trends, styles, traditions, music and think everything Germany is right. They cant speak English because they don't think its relevant to them and disregard it.. Germany is life!
Quote: (04-30-2017 12:02 AM)CaptainChardonnay Wrote:
Quote: (01-08-2012 03:54 PM)americanInEurope Wrote:
Asian guys usually have no chance with German girls. I'm sorry to say. I've heard more racist shit coming from German girls that I thought were cool than I'd like to admit. It's ugly and when I hear it I tell them to stop. I'm talking about educated German chicks with money and smarts. I have run into German girls with a thing for Asian guys, and one of my good friends in a Vietnamese guy who is pulling ass in Munich. But, dude works HARD, and a lot of times he settles for the chubby cute chick. These girls are very few and far between. I'd say it's as rare as finding a bunch if white chicks on the streets of DC with the hots for black guys. They're out there, but it's rare to find.
Any ideas on why this is? I have noticed that I don't do well with German girls.
There is not a large representation of Asian men here AT ALL.. I have spoken with girls about Asian men and they generally (i love that word) buy into the stereotype that you guys are not masculine, have no game, etc etc etc.. Since there aren't enough of you guys around all they have to rely on is TV and bullshit like that. I don't remember the last time I seen an Asian dude with a German girl. Your best bet is to keep an extremely solid masculine frame and go forward.
Quote: (04-30-2017 04:20 AM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:
I'm from the UK but have been living in Leipzig for around 10 months now. I can understand how many guys on here are put off/puzzled by German women in equal measure. Compared to women from the Anglosphere, they are definitely more interesting to interact with and noticeably less cunty in their attitudes, although they are not without their quirks, either. One thing which has struck me forcibly with German girls on their home turf - as opposed to when they travelling outside of their home town/city - is how they are not used to being approached by random guys on the street. Not only this, but German guys - especially younger ones - don't even seem to have the balls to look directly at attractive women, let alone approach them.
German women, however, are still very cagey about engaging in interactions with strangers, especially with men and so I feel that this is a huge headwind that I'm going to have to find some way of overcoming if I'm to have any success with daygame here. Maybe it's just a question of developing much tighter game - it's still too early to tell for me. I don't want to be pessimistic here, but I can understand why many German men look overseas for women, since gaming the local talent isn't particularly easy for the reasons that I've discussed. The last point I would make regarding gaming German women in Germany is that social circle game seems to be king here, which can be especially difficult to break into if you're not ethnically German.
What you are doing is very interesting because NO ONE is doing that. Day game is on my list of game things to try and see how it works.
German girls are not used to being approached by random strangers at all. Especially during the day while they are shopping or in the super market or anything like that. If you are a day game guru it could be an opportunity here but I have ZERO data on Day Game here wont act like I know.
German girls abroad as opposed to ones in country are night and day. Do not confuse these two girls. I have close friend here (who is a girl) and she tells me ALL of the shit she does. In Germany she dates strictly white German man. Her currently boyfriend is 6 foot plus CEO type of guy... but when she was on vacation she fucked 3 guys in 3 weeks. Spanish guy, Black guy.. When she told me this my mouth dropped.
So fellas dont be put off by German girls when you meet them outside of Germany. In country they are in "German mode" and just want to fit in and not be judged by their peers. This is why I had such great success with them in NYC as opposed to here.
If i met a hot German girl on vacation anywhere I would still try to smash her.
Headwinds with German girls:
-Could be difficult if you dont speak German
-If you are anything but White
-If you gaming them in country
-Are shorter than 1.80 or 5,10 (the taller you are the better)
I would only honestly really recommend this place for tall white men. Anything else and be prepared for some type of headwind. Not to say that you can't get through any of these but just be prepared for the wind to push/hold you back.
Curves:
German girls are also mostly not curvy. Hard pressed to find any curves on girls out here. A slim big breasted German girl is like a fucking unicorn.
If they do tend to have ANY curves they skew more toward bigger butts and legs rather than breasts so its actually a bad place for boob men like me haha.
Hot German girls:
I am not sure I agree with lots of hot German girl being in relationships. I know many hot single girls but they are just stuck the the fuck up. I think sometimes here women have unreasonable expectations of the men here. I know hot girls who have been single forever and im not surprised because of the my shit don't stink attitude.
I guess to close... Just read my sheet! All the data you could possibly need is in there.