Quote: (10-20-2016 08:06 AM)Hazaer Wrote:
Good points. But if the sexual intent is not made clear at the beginning, wont she just classify him in the friendzone?
Also, as someone who has lived in apartments before, there are guys out there, who are really not such great friends with their neighbours though they do engage in the occasional chit chat.
What can they do to show social proof and how important is social proof actually if the guy seems normal and confident around people around him?
You sound really inexperienced with women and socially awkward, which is okay and can be learned to improve.
First, the harsh reality is there is no such thing as the friendzone. She either views you as an attractive man or an unattractive and ugly man. Just think about it, there are pretty girls you want to date, and ugly girls you want to avoid and put in the friendzone.
Now, there are ways to get out of the friendzone - meaning make yourself look more attractive, act more attractive, and be more attractive. There are ways to turn an ugly guy into an attractive man.
It starts with (1) physical appearance - clothes, hair, glasses. Next, (2) communication skills - be friendly and socialable to everyone, say Hello to everyone, make small talk, get a lot of friends, this establishes social proof and validates your status. (3) Lifestyle and hobbies that are attractive to women and provide a good reason to talk to women and share activities with women. Talk to a lot of women, if a girl sees you talking to a lot of women she will get jealous and feel attraction to you. If a girl does not like you, move onto other women.