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14 myths about day game
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14 myths about day game
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....there is simply nobody else doing it - zero competition!
Quote: (10-04-2016 12:19 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:
. A guy just randomly talking to another stranger on the street or in the grocery store is considered pretty damn socially unacceptable; most men seem uncomfortable interacting with people outside their social circle, much less women.
The most common result of a daygame approach is simply the woman being puzzled as to why you're talking with her and not really knowing what to do. I sometimes do a little better trying to engage women in coffee shops, etc. and while I get the sense that they're friendly and might even meet up for a date if I hit them up on Tinder first, they're clearly pretty uncomfortable with the "unscripted" nature of the interaction that's going down.
Several women I've dated around here tell me the same thing: "It's weird when guys randomly talk to me" "it's creepy when some guy in a store tries to start talking to me" "I don't really know how to talk to people I'm not friends with" etc.
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
There are social/societal constraints to day game
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
the rest of us have jobs
Quote: (10-08-2016 10:11 AM)Giovonny Wrote:
The article does NOT talk about day game!
It talks about perceptions of night game!
Clearly, the author is not immersed in day game. If he was, he would discuss day game in more detail..
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
There are social/societal constraints to day game
What are these "social/societal constraints" that you speak of?
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
the rest of us have jobs
Talk to one pretty girl on your way to work.
Talk to one pretty girl on your lunch break.
Talk to one pretty girl on your way home.
That is 3 approaches a day.
That is my advice to guys with busy jobs.
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Day game is not about going out to meet girls.
Day game is talking to girls as you are going about your normal business.
On the subway, buying coffee, in line at the market, getting lunch, walking down the street, waiting to cross the street, entering and exiting buildings, at the mall, elevators, escalators -- We do all of these things throughout our normal day -- We will see pretty girls along the way -- Can we strike up an engaging conversation with them?
That is the essence of day game.
Simply striking up a conversation with a pretty girl in a normal, day time situation.
Quote: (10-08-2016 02:31 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
There are social constraints to day game
Quote: (10-08-2016 10:11 AM)Giovonny Wrote:
What are these "social constraints" that you speak of?
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
work
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
It's one thing to suggest your course of action to newbies that live in Downtown Chicago, or college towns
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Exactly where are you running into attractive women on a regular basis during the daytime when you live and work in some office park in Atlanta?
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
How do you run into a new set of girls every day in Tucson?
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
avoid day game - until you've gotten decent with night game.
Quote: (10-04-2016 02:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
-When you do find the few chicks to talk to - now you've got a clock
running.
-She's on her way someplace, and unless your game is phenomenal, getting an instadate is very difficult.
-In the morning she's headed to work.
-Lunch time or errands, she's headed back to work.
Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
Quote: (10-08-2016 02:31 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
But if you're a working newb coming into the game - unless you live in Manhattan or a place with wall to wall girls that walk, take public transit, and are otherwise available - avoid day game - until you've gotten decent with night game.
Otherwise you're stuck basically trying to learn game at the mall or at the grocery store - when you can carve out the time.
WIA
Quote: (10-06-2016 09:00 PM)FeeltheBern Wrote:
Quote: (10-04-2016 12:19 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:
. A guy just randomly talking to another stranger on the street or in the grocery store is considered pretty damn socially unacceptable; most men seem uncomfortable interacting with people outside their social circle, much less women.
The most common result of a daygame approach is simply the woman being puzzled as to why you're talking with her and not really knowing what to do. I sometimes do a little better trying to engage women in coffee shops, etc. and while I get the sense that they're friendly and might even meet up for a date if I hit them up on Tinder first, they're clearly pretty uncomfortable with the "unscripted" nature of the interaction that's going down.
Several women I've dated around here tell me the same thing: "It's weird when guys randomly talk to me" "it's creepy when some guy in a store tries to start talking to me" "I don't really know how to talk to people I'm not friends with" etc.
I think we have a similar problem in the UK. The approach anxiety is not fabricated here - there are genuine social conventions you are breaking by going and talking to people you 'have no business' talking to. Its almost rude to do it.
Chicks in both places have their lives nicely compartmentalized such that they don't need to make the effort when they're out on the high street or at work. The more European style of dressing and looking nice all the time isn't really as prevalent here. I hate this country.
Quote: (10-09-2016 12:24 PM)Travesty Wrote:
I am on Gio's side 100%.
Quote: (10-09-2016 12:24 PM)Travesty Wrote:
I have instadated girl's especially after the school/work day around 5-6pm straight back to my apartment.
Quote: (10-09-2016 12:24 PM)Travesty Wrote:
alcohol
Quote: (10-09-2016 02:07 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
No need for me to refute the individual points.
Quote: (10-09-2016 02:07 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Just as certain as I am about my world view, the day game proponents are of theirs.
Quote: (10-09-2016 02:18 PM)Vaun Wrote:
Nightgame just adds pressure to people not familiar to that environment.
Quote: (10-09-2016 02:18 PM)Vaun Wrote:
I think men need to learn to be friendly, cool and charming, to EVERYONE, not just girls
Quote: (10-09-2016 03:20 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
2) you need lots of feedback from women to learn, and even more to get good. Just going about daily life will make your socialization skills better, but talking to an on duty parking attendant is very different than talking to a 22 year old girl who's attention span has atrophied because of the modern culture. The differences are STARK to me. And the learning curve is steep compared to just basic socialization.
Quote: (10-09-2016 01:00 PM)AboveAverageJoe Wrote:
Night game= lots of ONS with 7's and 8's that are really 5's and 6's.
Day game= lots of STR's with lots of 7's and 8's sometimes even 9's.
Day game is superior to night game in every quantifiable category except maybe ONS with chicks you probably shouldn't have banged.
Quote: (10-09-2016 05:12 PM)Vaun Wrote:
Quote: (10-09-2016 03:20 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
2) you need lots of feedback from women to learn, and even more to get good. Just going about daily life will make your socialization skills better, but talking to an on duty parking attendant is very different than talking to a 22 year old girl who's attention span has atrophied because of the modern culture. The differences are STARK to me. And the learning curve is steep compared to just basic socialization.
Just know from experience that its much easier to chat her up coming out of a department store, than in a bar with her friends on a Friday night surrounded by choades. I would guess that would be the same for anyone, at any stage of game.
Quote: (05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:
If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!
Quote:WestIndianArchie Wrote:
Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
Or
Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
Quote: (10-09-2016 11:01 PM)Apollo21 Wrote:
Day game and Night game require different skillsets...In Day Game there's much more hustle needed
whereas night game you typically have time to think about what you want to say and then approach.
Day game you're practically running after the girl and starting a spontaneous conversation.
Just like Giovonny mentioned above it's still a numbers game though, no matter how good you are,
so the only thing that really will determine your success is your ability to keep going and approach
as many girls as you can day or night.
It's interesting...Neil Strauss is retired from the game...he got married a couple of years ago...