Quote: (06-28-2016 04:24 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

The girl doesn't want to have sex with the guy because he's probably lost every ounce of masculinity that he has and there is no more sexual tension in their relationship. Which explains why he is on the internet seeking Dear Abby advice like a little bitch.

Quote: (06-28-2016 04:24 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

The girl doesn't want to have sex with the guy because he's probably lost every ounce of masculinity that he has and there is no more sexual tension in their relationship. Which explains why he is on the internet seeking Dear Abby advice like a little bitch.

In some ways, he is getting what he deserves. He claims to be deeply immersed in the Red Pill, yet went with an arranged marriage, probably because he lacks the game to snag a bitch on his own merits.

There's plenty of IRT's on TRP talking about the pitfalls of arranged marriages to indian ho's, and how they have tendencies to slut it up with white dudes and then cover up their past before submitting to a traditional arranged marriage. So he should have known better.

LINUX just RIP'ed this thread.

Nothing else needs to be said.

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Quote: (06-28-2016 01:22 PM)eatthishomie Wrote:  

Given all the science that is now saying that women with high partner counts have significantly diminished pair-bonding ability, I'd say he has reason to be concerned about his wife's past.

I can find you scientific evidence proving just about anything you want, as well as a contrasting study proving the opposite.

Some of the best women in my life have had multiple sexual partners and even some times kids and I've been with a lot of women in my life.

You can't categorize everyone. If he is unhappy in his marriage, then by all means, get a divorce but you would be lying if you didn't see that this guy is freaking out because he has jealousy issues.

Just another way of saying NAWALT. No offense, but I don't see how your experience of having been married several times equates to you having any particular expertise in picking LTR/marriage prospects. And, anecdotes != data.

I don't care about this particular situation, but it's bullshit to suggest that partner count doesn't matter in general, which is what it seems like you're doing. It doesn't take a scientific study to see that the more sexual partners your wife had before you, the more likely you are to end up divorced.

Quote: (06-28-2016 05:02 PM)weambulance Wrote:  

Just another way of saying NAWALT. No offense, but I don't see how your experience of having been married several times equates to you having any particular expertise in picking LTR/marriage prospects. And, anecdotes != data.

I don't care about this particular situation, but it's bullshit to suggest that partner count doesn't matter in general, which is what it seems like you're doing. It doesn't take a scientific study to see that the more sexual partners your wife had before you, the more likely you are to end up divorced.

My opinions on how a woman behaves and how committed they are, are not based off of the two women I married. I was answering a question.

My opinions are based on all the women that I have been with in my life, which is a hell of a lot. I know they vary differently from the broad spectrum of the forum, and that's ok.

And speaking about the "NAWALT" "Not all women are like that". If you're trying to say I'm an supporter of that crowd, you're probably right. I stopped throwing hissy-fits and saying "all women are the same" in third grade.

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Quote: (06-28-2016 01:22 PM)eatthishomie Wrote:  

Given all the science that is now saying that women with high partner counts have significantly diminished pair-bonding ability, I'd say he has reason to be concerned about his wife's past.

I can find you scientific evidence proving just about anything you want, as well as a contrasting study proving the opposite.

Some of the best women in my life have had multiple sexual partners and even some times kids and I've been with a lot of women in my life.

You can't categorize everyone. If he is unhappy in his marriage, then by all means, get a divorce but you would be lying if you didn't see that this guy is freaking out because he has jealousy issues.

Just another way of saying NAWALT. No offense, but I don't see how your experience of having been married several times equates to you having any particular expertise in picking LTR/marriage prospects. And, anecdotes != data.

I don't care about this particular situation, but it's bullshit to suggest that partner count doesn't matter in general, which is what it seems like you're doing. It doesn't take a scientific study to see that the more sexual partners your wife had before you, the more likely you are to end up divorced.

Totally agree with you.

There are many sluts who have kids and end up living with someone (actually most of sluts don't really end up being alone). Are they usually good wives? Fuck no. A woman will usually behave according to her past acts, once a whore, she will always be a whore. Remember that, internalize that and you will have less bullshit to deal with.

Quote: (06-28-2016 05:52 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

My opinions on how a woman behaves and how committed they are, are not based off of the two women I married. I was answering a question.

My opinions are based on all the women that I have been with in my life, which is a hell of a lot. I know they vary differently from the broad spectrum of the forum, and that's ok.

And speaking about the "NAWALT" "Not all women are like that".

Obviously NAWALT is a true statement. However, it's also a completely pointless thing to say because women are skilled chameleons, and it's very difficult--especially for inexperienced guys--to pick out the few good outliers from the swarms of women who are "like that".

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If you're trying to say I'm an supporter of that crowd, you're probably right. I stopped throwing hissy-fits and saying "all women are the same" in third grade.

Paying attention to general principles that are nearly universally applicable to the female population is not throwing a hissy fit. It's basic risk management and it's the way virtually all risky ventures are judged. People with shitty credit reports don't get loans easily, or sometimes at all. Do banks stop to investigate if the applicant with a 550 credit score might happen to be a special case who got fucked by the system, and he's actually a good credit risk? No. They reject and move on.

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I said I understood why she wasn't willing to try something new because she was probably burntout from all the bar pick ups and coffee meetups she had.

Based on years of observation, I've noticed people generally find the dreadful relationships they deserve.

Quote: (06-28-2016 05:52 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

I stopped throwing hissy-fits and saying "all women are the same" in third grade.

I have 30 years of banging women under my belt - enough that I'd never publicly voice the count on here because I'd just called a liar - and 45 years of being friends with women and observing their social interactions.

AWALT.

Noticing the predictability of their "I wouldn't normally do this" patterns, this is how I formed my four predictive rules of female behaviour:

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Rule #1: Everything I want, I believe I deserve.

Rule #2: What's the least amount of effort I can expend to get what I believe I deserve as quickly as possible?

Rule #3: If the quickest and laziest route to achieving what I believe I deserve would require serious moral or social transgressions, then those rules don't apply to me, because of how righteously-deserving I am.

Rule #4: If I am stigmatised for any moral or social transgressions in the righteous pursuit of what I believe I deserve, then what is the least amount of effort I can expend to defuse criticism, deflect blame or escape punishment?

This is why I'm not remotely-surprised that the potential first Female President of the United States should already be in Prison for crimes she thinks 'don't apply to her'.



I found a picture the other day of the Slootiest Sloot I ever knew - astronomical notch count - around her 29th birthday - bragging about getting engaged to her new boyfriend.

I guarantee experienced Players know what is coming.

Looking at the pic of the pair of them, I remember at the time thinking how wrong he was for her. The guy was a overweight Beta Schlub - a far cry from all the muscled-up Grunt Dick she was used to riding.

However, he was a Lawyer. She was the first case of Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks I experienced through direct observation, but not the last, as I've seen many other reformed Sloots marry up Doctors, Lawyers and High Ranking Public Service Men since. In retrospect, it also explained a lot about the second marriages of the women of my mother's generation.

Interestingly, the wedding pictures - him leaning in to kiss her, her leaning away - were the first and last time I ever saw any pictures of him. Her online world for the last 16 years has completely-revolved around pictures of her and the daughter he gave her. I mean, she's still wearing the expensive wedding ring but, it's like the guy doesn't exist in her world at all.

I remember laughing about how at least he'll enjoy her blowjob skills and she said "Oh, I don't do that with him. I love him too much.. He thinks I've only been with my ex-husband."

Bluntly: this is a girl who once bragged to me she could deep throat a guy's cock and lick his balls at the the same time. I mocked her and said "You just need a bigger challenge." Now, I'm very-happy with what God gave me, but damned is she didn't take me into the toilets and show me that she wasn't lying. I didn't think that was anatomically-possible, and I'd already been around by then.

A girl only learns to be that much of a skilled whore by years of committed, regularly dick-sucking, where if you laid them out end to end you'd have a couple of miles of dickroad that she's gobbled up like Pacman.

Incidentally, she was back in Australia around Easter, and apparently had contacted my sister, multiple friends, my old workplace and even turned up on my stepfather's doorstep trying to track me down, because she 'just wanted to catch up.'

I wonder what she wanted?

The thing about Reformed Sloots and their Beta Money and Baby Dispensers... the wedding ring on their fingers has never once given them pause for trying to get fucked again by me. Worse still, the physical presence of their boyfriends hasn't stopped them openly-flirting with me or trying to flamboyantly catch my attention whilst they stand there, clueless, extinguishing any slight flame of suspicion with the Gilded Snuffer of 'She's Not Like That'.

Sometimes I want to grab them, shake them and say "Be a fucking man!" but, like the guy in this original stories, they're just too far gone.

I once saw a girl start making out with another girl in front of her boyfriend, trying to prove that marriage hadn't made her 'sexually-boring' when I accused her of 'slowing down'. The other guys in the group were all whooping and hollering, and you could see her husband getting that glimmer of hope that maybe his sex life was about to get a lot more interesting, the naive fool.

She stopped, and looked directly at me, rather than her husband, waiting for comment, thinking all men are led by their dicks and that her little show was going to turn me into a horny, slavering dog.

I remained unimpressed. "If you keep up that kind of behaviour, you'll be wearing dungarees and sporting a mullet by 40."

I wasn't born cynical to female bullshit. I became that way through years of experience with them. Note that I don't hate them for their bullshit - It's just what I expect girls to do.

Why? AWALT.

Quote: (06-28-2016 07:11 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

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I said I understood why she wasn't willing to try something new because she was probably burntout from all the bar pick ups and coffee meetups she had.

Based on years of observation, I've noticed people generally find the dreadful relationships they deserve.

Can you elaborate on this?

It doesn't cease to amaze me at the lack of regard parents have for the well-being of their sons anymore. Daughters are encouraged to do whatever they want, and men are being pressured into situations that simply aren't good for their well-being in the name of "duty". How's a man not to feel betrayed? As if it wasn't enough that society writ large is becoming increasingly hostile towards them, even their parents these days are throwing them into the grinder. I explained to my dad that the reason I don't want to be married is that I don't think I owe someone half my shit if we split. His response? Well if she agrees to marry you, then she deserves to get half your stuff. What the fuck is that?

Can we see the Go Pro files?

On a related note, the biggest thing holding back these suckers who are OK with their girlfriends/wives behaving in this way is their own egos. Thinking "she's not like that" or that he has some mystifying effect on her that causes her to change her ways is what's getting in the way of their own self-enlightenment.

Quote: (06-28-2016 05:45 AM)seniol Wrote:  

At first, she accused me of snooping and digging into her private life.

Rule 4 in action. There are many manipulation techniques used in Rule 4, but a common favourite is Flipping Victim Status.

They commit a transgressive act, but any discovery of it only becomes how they are the wronged party and you are the immoral one.

For the less experienced guys, Rule 4 most commonly involves a barrage of potential excuses and emotional acting. You'll rarely get just one explanation - you'll get a whole slew to pick from. Maybe she'll get angry, maybe she'll try tears, maybe it'll be how you don't 'love her enough'.

What the girl is doing is A/B testing. She's is testing to see which excuse causes a greater emotional reaction in you over another, and once she sees weakness, then she'll reframe the whole fight around what she knows will work on you to deflect her trangression.

This is how her her being a lying slut now becomes all about your 'trust issues'.

All you have to do is stay on target and don't react. This includes to tears. A favourite tactic of mine is to simply walk out and leave when they start this.

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My wife tried a few times, saying she will "try and remember" how to give blow jobs and do butt stuff

If the guy didn't suck in bed and wasn't a simp in general he wouldn't have to worry about this. As far as the woman being a ho before marriage goes, that's a different story, but of course there's a reason she was a 'ho' for every other guy but him.

The fact that the guy thinks he needs to "ask" for a blowjob pretty much says it all. He has no game and instead thinks that he should be 'entitled' to a blowjob because he does the dishes and changes diapers. Honestly can't understand why so many betas can't understand why attraction doesn't work that way - you never see a Bond film where Bond turns a woman on by "doing the dishes for her" or "buying a new computer".

How guys today can be totally oblivious to stuff that once was probably just common sense is beyond me.

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Before anyone says anything, I need to say this. I am not going to divorce my wife. She didn't cheat on me, she didn't do anything to purposefully hurt me, so there is nothing too extreme to warrant a divorce.
I am a firm believer in the saying "if something is broken, you fix it", and I don't want an "upgrade" for my wife. This is a human being we are talking about, not a car I can trade in.
Maybe I just need time to get over this... and a lot of alcohol.

He posted this about an hour ago on the original r/relationships thread. If he actually has been reading TRP he hasn't really paid attention to it.

Quote: (06-28-2016 08:53 PM)greekgod Wrote:  

Can we see the Go Pro files?

No. Probably a work of fiction.

Quote: (06-29-2016 11:49 PM)eatthishomie Wrote:  

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Before anyone says anything, I need to say this. I am not going to divorce my wife. She didn't cheat on me, she didn't do anything to purposefully hurt me, so there is nothing too extreme to warrant a divorce.
I am a firm believer in the saying "if something is broken, you fix it", and I don't want an "upgrade" for my wife. This is a human being we are talking about, not a car I can trade in.
Maybe I just need time to get over this... and a lot of alcohol.

He posted this about an hour ago on the original r/relationships thread. If he actually has been reading TRP he hasn't really paid attention to it.

Guys wife thinks he sucks in bed, and the first thing he thinks of doing to fix the problem is drink testosterone-lowering alcohol.

SMH

Quote: (06-28-2016 08:31 PM)nek Wrote:  

Quote: (06-28-2016 07:11 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

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I said I understood why she wasn't willing to try something new because she was probably burntout from all the bar pick ups and coffee meetups she had.

Based on years of observation, I've noticed people generally find the dreadful relationships they deserve.

Can you elaborate on this?

I'm going to rudely jump in here.

Humans are advanced learning computers. What separates us from the animals is our extraordinary ability to drink in information about the world around us and use that information to get the best outcome for ourselves that we can possibly get.

The tragedy is that most people use this capacity to an extremely limited degree. Most don't even bother to ask the simple question "am I actually happy?"

"If not, WHY not?"

People often choose to live like animals, taking the path of least resistance from one minute to the next, never bothering to drink in information and process it to get a better outcome down the line.

So, people that end up in shitty relationships that defy any sort of logical defence have by definition made their own bed, and deserve no sympathy for lying in it.

Nobody simply wakes up one day flat broke, chained to a landwhale and five screaming brats.

Quote: (06-28-2016 08:24 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

I remember laughing about how at least he'll enjoy her blowjob skills and she said "Oh, I don't do that with him. I love him too much.. He thinks I've only been with my ex-husband."

Bluntly: this is a girl who once bragged to me she could deep throat a guy's cock and lick his balls at the the same time. I mocked her and said "You just need a bigger challenge." Now, I'm very-happy with what God gave me, but damned is she didn't take me into the toilets and show me that she wasn't lying. I didn't think that was anatomically-possible, and I'd already been around by then.

A girl only learns to be that much of a skilled whore by years of committed, regularly dick-sucking, where if you laid them out end to end you'd have a couple of miles of dickroad that she's gobbled up like Pacman.

Quote: (06-28-2016 08:24 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

I wasn't born cynical to female bullshit. I became that way through years of experience with them. Note that I don't hate them for their bullshit - It's just what I expect girls to do.

Why? AWALT.

When you say all women are like this, could you clarify the nationalities involved?

Quote: (06-29-2016 11:49 PM)eatthishomie Wrote:  

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Before anyone says anything, I need to say this. I am not going to divorce my wife. She didn't cheat on me, she didn't do anything to purposefully hurt me, so there is nothing too extreme to warrant a divorce.
I am a firm believer in the saying "if something is broken, you fix it", and I don't want an "upgrade" for my wife. This is a human being we are talking about, not a car I can trade in.
Maybe I just need time to get over this... and a lot of alcohol.

He posted this about an hour ago on the original r/relationships thread. If he actually has been reading TRP he hasn't really paid attention to it.

1. She lied. She lied her ass off.
2. She is not that much into you.
3...and probably most important. She still has the videos? For what? Does she still add a new notch to her collection on occasion? Is there a datetime stamp in the meta data of the videos stating when they originated? I would check all of them. I would also check other folders.

"She didnt cheat on me" is very much saying "I didnt catch her cheating on me" but he has no idea if she is or not. She could be in as much pressure to marry a South Asian by her family.

^^^

"Which nationalities?"

All of them.

The only question is how much will society let them get away with it.

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The truth is, I think it's hard to be both totally comfortable with your relationship situation, and also be "red pill." If it were possible to be really comfortable all the time everyone would be doing it, and they don't...even given all the advantages.

It absolutely is. Thats the difference between the game being in you and being on you....between playing a persona and that being your true self.


If you ARE the real do you will find yourself using a lot of "game" style social interaction with women without consciously choosing to.