Quote: (05-03-2016 05:58 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

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If I don't get the desired result out of my efforts with a girl and it's clear she doesn't reciprocate, why even have her as blip on my radar?

Nobody is saying keep her around.
I can't keep her around if she doesn't want to stay around. Hence "doesn't reciprocate".

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Are you guys seriously hoping these chicks text you months from now when they're bored only to do the same shit to you they did in the first place, waste your time?

No we aren't. Nobody said that.
By all means my friend, hit that chick who hits you up randomly 6 months down the line with "good" when she asks "how r u". Your personal experience may tell you to try and reel her in again because you've done it before. I haven't pulled from a cold lead like that, so I just don't see the value in it like you do.

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I don't want my phone filled with useless numbers from women who are not sexually available to me.

Nobody said you shouldn't delete her number
Then by all means, that's what I'm going to do.

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I don't want to be a "text buddy" and waste more time salvaging a broad who has proved to me a dead end.

It would appear you need to work on your reading comprehension.
Alright man.

We have different opinions on how we handle this, and that's perfectly fine.

TL;DR Fucked a girl really well, she came continuously and squirted like a fountain. After 5 or 6 nights over, during which we fucked like animals, just completely goes cold. Was gonna hit her up, thread made me change my mind. Good feels.

I knew this broad hb7 at work for a while, but my girl worked kinda nearby and I don't want drama at my work, so we flirted a lot but I never took it farther than that. Well my chick got another job somewhere so I eventually got her number and she enthusiastically agreed to come over for drinks like at 9:30 haha. So I felt good about it.

I'm also happy with my level of text game with her up until this point, I think I made some serious improvements and led the interaction well.

She came over looking really good honestly. Cute white brunette, 21, jet black hair, porcelain white skin. Blood red lipstick. Like a young, miniature Jackie Kennedy. She always did her make up like one of those old movie starlets and that shit drove me crazy. I escalated quickly and got 0 lmr whatsoever.

When I got her panties off and flipped her around, oh my god. Her ass wasn't just big and it wasn't just nice. It rivaled the girls I see in pornos like Remy Lacroix etc. Perfect little butthole. To date, it's the nicest-assed girl I've fucked with. I hit it really good several times that night, her pussy was incredibly wet and sloshy, and she came harder and more readily than any chick I've seen before. I hit it raw 4 times. She complimented the size of my cawk and performance several times.

I sent her home that night and got the confirmation text. She texted something like "you know the sex was great because my makeup is all smeared lol"

I continued to hit her up, and the subsequent times she came over I fucked her in the ass and she took it like a CHAMP. This chick loved getting it in the backdoor, I also felt this to be the perfect opportunity to get inducted into kamikaze's booty eating club. which we both enjoyed (I see the light brother kamikaze). For a while she was my little anal girl haha. I made her squirt continuously and this bitch would produce like an entire drinking glass worth of ladyjizz. Constantly changing my sheets and blankets became a serious problem. Shit would even soak my mattress.

I would wait about two weeks in between hitting her up so it wouldn't get too routine, and also to keep my girl off my back and not get too hooked on that ass. There have been a couple times she couldn't make it but she always was apologetic and showed effort in trying to reschedule along with lots of emojis. They were enthusiastic texts.

Well eventually it happened. I hit her up, I got a short four word response. Waited about a week and a half and hit her up for another invite, again she said she couldn't make it and again she offered no reschedule. Waited another week and a half or so and hit her up to check out some new artwork I did over drinks, she hit me back with some shit about going to a dinner that night and that she hasn't been available lately. Again no counter offer. (I didn't respond to any of these 3 flake texts btw)

I waited a day and typed this into my notes, to send her later that day

I can tell you're busy. If your situation changes in the future, the door is always open little bad girl unglasses emoji:

Fuck that was so lame haha. I'm so glad I didn't send it. Why would I close the book and cock block myself like that? For all I know the bitch could have locked down a serious beta, and is giving it a shot. Or maybe the bitch found Jesus, who knows? Not my problem to worry about it, and as good nature as I tried to make that text sound, there is latent butthurtedness that comes through. I guess I was just kinda bothered because I felt like I put it down so well. It was one of my better moments performance and competence wise in my (short and developing) game career.

I'm glad I read this thread and reflected for a day.

Quote: (05-03-2016 08:18 PM)HonantheBarbarian Wrote:  

I'm glad I read this thread and reflected for a day.

Well played.

If she wants you, she will contact you, no need to rule yourself further out, is there?

Yeah man, I was like there is literally no upside to sending this text

Do you guys give girls who appear out of the blue (after not accepting your advances) a chance if you forgot about them, but it's been a long time (half year or more)? Or do you have strict policies of "Nah girl, you had your chance and blew it" (thought to self not said to girl)?

Quote: (05-04-2016 03:39 PM)HonantheBarbarian Wrote:  

Yeah man, I was like there is literally no upside to sending this text

I am at a similar point with one chick where I thought I had a girl on lock for easy sex for awhile. Now girl gave me a short text saying the last few days have been rough. I tell her that sucks let's go out and have some fun.

Nothing.

I was thinking about double texting like an idiot even with my countless text exchanges with different girls.

I can send a feeler text maybe in a week or two as a last chance after that done.

Anytime a chick pulls this you have to tell yourself no matter how good the chemistry or sex is that: "Great now I have time to chase other hot chicks, spend time with friends, make money, hobbies" etc...

Be glad your calendar is free.

Regarding nexting, I don't delete their numbers or take any overt blocking action. I wouldn't have added them on facebook anyway so that's not an issue.

I simply put a mark next to her name in my phone indicating a girl's status, positive or negative. I'm not going to define my system specifically, but I'd rather know it's some chick who's a flake that's talking to me than some random ass number I'm not going to recognize or remember, especially since I tend to forget girls' names after a month or two.

Then sometime when I'm bored I can hit them up later. You never know. I've gotten girls a year after they blew me off the first time because circumstances changed.

Of course some girls get hard nexted if they were serious cunts, or seemed unstable and possibly dangerous to get involved with. I have a symbol for that too. Note, none of my symbols are obvious, because I don't want a girl who gets a look at my phone to see what's up. I can make up some bullshit about random symbols, but something like + / - / X, or a star rating, or whatever is pretty dumb.

Having less information available is rarely better.

Soft next is definitely my go to with flakey chicks or even if there are too many girls on my plate.

Occasionally I will employ non-sequitur game to throw out some hamster bait in my contact list. The good old "Ok see you then" gets a lot of bites.

In fact I threw this out to a chick I basically ditched mid date cos I hooked another hottie back in December. Was a dick move and she could have easily told me to go fuck myself but she is still a warm lead now which could easily end in a bang with minimal effort.

Quote: (05-05-2016 12:51 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Do you guys give girls who appear out of the blue (after not accepting your advances) a chance if you forgot about them, but it's been a long time (half year or more)? Or do you have strict policies of "Nah girl, you had your chance and blew it" (thought to self not said to girl)?

Yeah why not? No need to hold a grudge.

Girls are fickle and have all sorts of drama and/or other guys in her life at various stages.

Quote: (05-05-2016 10:43 PM)Valentine Wrote:  

Quote: (05-05-2016 12:51 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Do you guys give girls who appear out of the blue (after not accepting your advances) a chance if you forgot about them, but it's been a long time (half year or more)? Or do you have strict policies of "Nah girl, you had your chance and blew it" (thought to self not said to girl)?

Yeah why not? No need to hold a grudge.

Girls are fickle and have all sorts of drama and/or other guys in her life at various stages.

Everytime I get a thought like this I just think back to this thread by Jariel.

Unless she was Madamcuntworthy may as well take her head on and give it a go.

No need for butthurt, rarely a need for butthurt.

I've been using soft nexts a lot lately. First I try to meet up with the girl ASAP because I assume she doesn't have much of an attention span. If it doesn't happen I reduce the attention considerably and talk with her about once a week with an attitude similar to what HankMoody describes. If she flakes or I still can't get her out I remove her number from my phone and save it in a file on my computer. I check that file periodically (when I'm removing several numbers from my phone) and follow up with girls that I haven't spoken to in 1 to 3 months.

I get a lot of texts from girls that I stopped texting just like HankMoody said he does.

Most of the girls I text after a few months are still hard to meet up with but in some cases their behavior changes drastically. They probably had something else in their life or another guy that they had been focused on. Or their interest grows because I'm not chasing them like most guys do.

This has worked for me a few times. The important thing is to realize these girls already have a history of flaky behavior so don't put much time into them. Most girls won't change but some will. My theory is that this method gives you twice the results with half the effort versus constantly following up with flaky girls.

One of the hottest girls I've banged since getting into game was a girl I soft nexted multiple times for a month or more at a time. We were going to meet up when she was at a bar near my house one night but at the last minute she said she wanted me to meet her and her friends. I don't put much effort into these girls so I ignored her when she brought up her friends. A week later she texts me out of the blue with "what are you doing tonight" and a later that night I finally got the bang.

I agree completely. I act very similarly to what Hank mentioned above and don't usually next.

My issue is I have tons of contacts in my phone some years and years old. I never text these super old leads because I'm either acquiring new ones, in a relationship, or straight up get lazy. I've thought about just firing off texts to them as a challenge to myself, anyone have success with super old contacts?