Quote: (02-12-2016 01:34 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:
I'm surprised to see most in the same boat as OP.
For me, nothing really tops a good blowjob, and I'll nut quickly from that if done right. On the other hand, I can pound away for hours and lose interest before I get off.
Besides sensitivity and physical things, I think it has a lot to do with what a guy digs, as Kaotic said.
There's something deliciously dominate about having your cock in a girls mouth. Historically it was far more taboo than having intercourse in most cultures.
Same here.
I think it hasn't been mentioned so far, but could circumcision and the resulting desensitization have something to do with it? Cause honestly, the fact that some guys don't enjoy or cum from getting blowjobs just blows my mind.
Maybe I'm biased, I tend to be a serial monogamist and train my girls to do exactly what I like. So the blowjobs I get are always awesome.
If a girl is clueless but willing to please and learn, no problem.
Practice makes perfect.
Otherwise I throw her back into the water.
There's really no reason to compromise on my sexual pleasure.
OP, I also agree with Mercenary.
It seems you are just not that into her.
An important part of the experience is pyschological.
The more beautiful and desirable you think a girl is, the more you will enjoy seeing her submit to you. It brings a deep sense of gratification.
Don't punch below your weight just because it's convenient and easy.
Go for what you truly want. It will be worth it, trust me.
I know you are still young and probably just happy to get some, but ask yourself if a girl that you don't find attractive, who gives bad head and doesn't make you cum, who is also conservative and lacks the curiosity and eagerness (which a teen girl like that should have if she finds you desirable) to let you fuck her, is really worth your time and attention.
I mean the fact that she wants to stay a virgin is really adorable and cute, and there's nothing wrong with respecting that, but why would you invest your time into her if there are so many horny and eager alternatives out there who crave the dick? And that you will also be much more into?
Realistically speaking, this girl most likely won't stay a virgin until marriage, but what's important, given her age and morals, she might very likely stay a virgin while with you. Wrong time, wrong girl. I'd say move on.
Quote: (02-11-2016 07:26 AM)Mercenary Wrote:
Quote: (02-11-2016 05:13 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:
So, I was getting head for the first time not so long ago with a girl I'm good friends with,
She's a friend so I dont find her physically attractive to date
Look at what you wrote there. Think about it.
Your issue might be purely mental.
It seems to me that your dick is refusing to cooperate because you don't find her attractive enough or cant objectify her properly like you would a really hot girl.
Your dick always knows better than you if this is a girl worth blasting into.
Find a girl that turns you on more and probably won't have this problem.