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02-11-2016, 05:13 AM
So, I was getting head for the first time not so long ago with a girl I'm good friends with,
She's a friend so I dont find her physically attractive to date, but her body naked of course turns me on.
The first time she was giving me head, I didnt seem to feel anything and she was sucking it so slow that it didn't even arouse me. The maid knocked on the door so we had to stop asap.
When she asked me later how was it? I told her it felt really good but I was worried about the maid coming straight in her room so thats why i didnt cum.
~This is not actually true as state above, It didnt feel great but i didnt tell her that..
Fastforward a few weeks later, She's eager to blow me again so we're in her bathroom, shes going at it and while the first 5 seconds feel good, it then becomes slow and monotonous and does not arouse me..
I told her to go quicker and she tried to, but when I really try to get her to go fast so it actually feels good, I then can start to feel her braces cut into my helmet..
After that i lost all arousal pretty much, still had a hard on, but would rather just walk away than have someone cut into my helmet! it was decently painful!
Anyone else can relate to this? or give me advice?
Is it strange that I can't seem to ejaculat when getting head for atleast 5 minutes? Also that the arousal doesnt usually last more than 10 seconds but after that becomes a monotomous thing..
It seems the longer she spends blowing me, the less horny i become..?
Or do girls with braces just give really bad blowjobs??
I think of it like when i masturbate, I go fast and the more intense you tug, the closer you are to ejaculating..
Feeling a bit confused and not sure whether im doubting my sex drive or something which is worrying since im only 19.
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Can't ejaculate when receiving head? is the girl bad or just me?
02-11-2016, 05:46 AM
It's not uncommon. Pounding pussy is just more sexually exciting than getting it sucked, even with an expert chick.
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02-11-2016, 06:00 AM
Sometimes it takes time to get a girl to blow you that way YOU like.
You need to teach and train her.
If she is hurting you then she needs to learn how to suck without scratching you with her teeth and/or braces.
Generally, she should start slow and soft, but as you get more and more excited she should be going deeper and faster. Hold her head with both hands and guide her movements until she gets it right. Show her on her finger how to suck something without using her teeth. Meaning suck her finger the way you want your dick sucked, so she gets it.
Also, she should be doing some variations. Sucking it, then taking it out, licking the outside of the shaft, then back in her mouth, moving her head in slow circles and so on. If she's just making the exact same movements at the same speed it will never be as good. Once she has learned to do it exactly the way you like you will be blowing your load pretty fast in her pretty mouth unless you have cum already that day.
Make sure she does this with you standing (or leaning against a wall) and her on her knees looking up at you. That is the correct dominant/submissive position.
Another thing...if you train her real well, you will become more fond of her cause YOU are the one that taught her to give the perfect blowjob.
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02-11-2016, 06:18 AM
Quote: (02-11-2016 06:00 AM)Mercenary Wrote:
Sometimes it takes time to get a girl to blow you that way YOU like.
You need to teach and train her.
If she is hurting you then she needs to learn how to suck without scratching you with her teeth and/or braces.
Generally, she should start slow and soft, but as you get more and more excited she should be going deeper and faster. Hold her head with both hands and guide her movements until she gets it right. Show her on her finger how to suck something without using her teeth. Meaning suck her finger the way you want your dick sucked, so she gets it.
Also, she should be doing some variations. Sucking, then taking it out, licking, then back in, moving her head in slow circles and so on. If she's just making the exact same movements at the same speed it will never be as good. Once she has learned to do it exactly the way you like you will be blowing your load pretty fast in her pretty mouth unless you have cum already that day.
Make sure she does this with you standing (or leaning against a wall) and her on her knees looking up at you. That is the correct dominant/submissive position.
Another thing...if you train her real well, you will become more fond of her cause YOU are the one that taught her to give the perfect blowjob.
Agreed.
One more important thing - don't be afraid to "hurt her feelings".
You don't have to be blunt, but tell her that she was not doing well, and here is what she should do in order to do it like you want her to.
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02-11-2016, 06:23 AM
Moaning loudly or breathing heavy on purpose in a clear way, and occasionally saying "that's good" or "good girl" when she does something you really enjoy will also help her to understand when she is getting it right.
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02-11-2016, 07:36 AM
So guys simply don't enjoy getting head.
Have you tried fucking her?
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02-11-2016, 10:07 AM
If you ask some girls, like my ex, they can basically cum just through kegels. This is because orgasms occur through powerful muscle contractions. While guys won't cum alone through kegels, I recommend you do them while getting head. Try and contract other muscles in your body as well.
As for the mental aspect, throw in some fantasizing about another girl or fetish (not ideal, but it works) and you should be good to go.
Edit: If you two are kinky, she can try sticking her pinky finger somewhere... that may help haha.
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02-11-2016, 10:26 AM
Try fucking her mouth (get her to lay down on her side so you can pump away), instead of her sucking your dick.
Trust me, this will work.
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02-11-2016, 10:38 AM
It's natural for it to take a bit more time, but no, you shouldn't be unable to cum. That's usually the symptom of desensitization of your dick from too much porn and masturbation. At that's how it's been in my experience.
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02-11-2016, 12:23 PM
For the longest time I couldn't get a nut from a girl giving me head.
It was mostly mental but a bit physical. I used let girls just get my dick wet and get me hard, then I'd start banging. I hate waiting forever for a girl to slob on my dick and try to get me off.
I stopped jacking off , stopped watching porn, and focused on banging girls.
You become more sensitive and aroused when you stop doing that.
If a girl is doing a shit job, like Merc said, you've gotta guide her, give her tips, command her what to do.
Not so slow, slobber, lick here, use that tongue, flick it, stroke it, etc.
Women want to turn you on, they'll listen.
The first time a girl made me nut from head was about 3 years ago, blew my mind. I literally couldn't have sex afterwards.
Getting off from a girl sucking my dick is one of the best things ever, it's also a different nut than fucking pussy.
I should also note, some dudes just don't dig getting head as much as they fuck pussy.
Thing is, this chick is 17 and wants to stay a virgin. She has braces (the first girl that gave me head had braces). I'm betting she's using more jaw/teeth than tongue/throat.
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02-11-2016, 04:16 PM
When you have your first proper session with a woman that knows what she is doing, you won't have a problem.....
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02-11-2016, 05:00 PM
I've been blown hundreds of times and have never been able to bust.
In all honesty, I think it's because my jackoff technique is just too good to find head arousing
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02-11-2016, 09:41 PM
Quote: (02-11-2016 05:13 AM)Ruivinho Wrote:
So, I was getting head for the first time not so long ago with a girl I'm good friends with,
She's a friend so I dont find her physically attractive to date, but her body naked of course turns me on.
The first time she was giving me head, I didnt seem to feel anything and she was sucking it so slow that it didn't even arouse me. The maid knocked on the door so we had to stop asap.
When she asked me later how was it? I told her it felt really good but I was worried about the maid coming straight in her room so thats why i didnt cum.
~This is not actually true as state above, It didnt feel great but i didnt tell her that..
Fastforward a few weeks later, She's eager to blow me again so we're in her bathroom, shes going at it and while the first 5 seconds feel good, it then becomes slow and monotonous and does not arouse me..
I told her to go quicker and she tried to, but when I really try to get her to go fast so it actually feels good, I then can start to feel her braces cut into my helmet..
After that i lost all arousal pretty much, still had a hard on, but would rather just walk away than have someone cut into my helmet! it was decently painful!
Anyone else can relate to this? or give me advice?
Is it strange that I can't seem to ejaculat when getting head for atleast 5 minutes? Also that the arousal doesnt usually last more than 10 seconds but after that becomes a monotomous thing..
It seems the longer she spends blowing me, the less horny i become..?
Or do girls with braces just give really bad blowjobs??
I think of it like when i masturbate, I go fast and the more intense you tug, the closer you are to ejaculating..
Feeling a bit confused and not sure whether im doubting my sex drive or something which is worrying since im only 19.
Find yourself a Dominican or Brazillian girl ( preferably Mulatto ). Damn....
After a few minutes, you'll have to pull their heads away before you blow so you can actually bang em.
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02-11-2016, 11:35 PM
I can probably count the amount of times I've busted from head on one hand. It's just part of transitioning to the bang to me. Never been particularly into getting head itself. I'm not gonna lie, I've had the paranoid thought while getting head that
"This bitch could literally chomp down and I'd be disfigured for life!"
I guess I'm just a "worse case scenario" thinker.
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