The discussion held within this thread really does shed light on the situation in the UK in regards to the dating market and the unbalanced state it is in. Overall, women here have absolutely no desire or motivation to be in shape, healthy, thin, feminine, have domestic knowledge or anything like that because no matter what, there will always be guys willing to fuck them. This is nowhere more apparent than in small town England where the vast and I mean vast majority of the populations worldview doesn't extend beyond twenty miles in each direction. Having grown up in and around such towns it quite sad and unfortunate that I know quite a few women who have been banged by twenty to thirty guys, mainly from their social circle, from going out at night, and from apps like tinder. These women who I refer to are around the ages of nineteen or twenty. I personally know a few of the guys who have fucked them and know of many more who have.
Anyway gentlemen, I read an unfortunate article that showcases the depths some guys will sink to in the UK, it is quite symbolic of the overall dating market here.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/articl...wered.html
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grandmother-of-three who has dated more than a 100 toyboys in the last five years says she has no plans to settle down with a man her own age.
Twice-divorced Gaynor Evans, 56, from Enfield, north London, says she is having the time of her life with men half her age who make her feel 'sexy and empowered'.
Gaynor meets the men aged between 25 and 35 on wild nights out, through dating app Tinder and dating website toyboywarehouse.com
Gaynor says the benefits of younger men are obvious.
'It's fairly simple really - they're young, fit, and fun. Younger men have got stamina, drive, enthusiasm and are able to repeat perform,' she explained.
Gaynor previously revealed in the MailOnline how she lost two stone thanks to her active sex life with younger men, and she has also appeared on Channel 5 documentary 24 Hour Party Pensioners.
This has led to online trolls criticising her but she makes no apologies for her behaviour.
She said: 'I don't want to age gracefully, I'm quite happy to be a disgrace. It's not worth worrying about what other people think about you. You've got to do what makes you happy and young toyboys make me very happy.'
Gaynor enjoys going on nights out with her daughters but her eldest, Laura, 37, admits she didn't always approve of her mother's antics.
Laura said: 'I just wanted my mum to be normal. I thought why couldn't she just find a man that's a similar age and maybe wants to settle down.'
But Gaynor said is has no interest in men her own age.
She said: 'Younger men always look forward, they are telling you things they are going to do, where they are going.
'They are talking about today and tomorrow whereas older guys talk about today in a fairly negative way and go on about what they used to do in the past.'
She said she knows there may be no future in the relationship and her laid-back approach makes her more attractive to would-be suitors, meaning she is never short on offers for dates.
She explained: 'Older women are confident in our own skins, there's no dancing around. We know what we're going to do and how to do it.
'We're not pinning them down for dates, we're not chasing them on the phone or saying "what are you doing this weekend, where are you taking me?"'
She added: 'I always have a few on the go. I'm not saying you sleep with one, one night, another the next but over the course of a month you might see a couple of different people.'
Gaynor, a recruiter, said she feels she is making up for lost time after meeting her first husband as a teenager and marrying him when she was 18.
They had three children together before divorcing and Gaynor then fell into another relationship almost immediately with a man 18 years her junior, who became husband number two.
The marriage lasted nearly 20 years and the couple had a son together. But when that too ended in divorce Gaynor decided to rethink her outlook on life and overhaul her appearance.
She said: 'I thought: "I'm not going to let this get me down, I'm just going to have to turn this around so I reinvented myself - lost weight, went to the beauticians - and started going out with my daughters, who at that point were in their late 20s, early 30s, because my good friends were all settled with their husbands or partners.'
Young men would approach her and after initially rebuffing their advances, Gaynor decided to give them a chance.
She said: 'In the early days when I was newly single, I was a bit wild. I'd never had a one-night stand in my youth - I didn't know what they were - though obviously I do now.'
Family still 'come first' for the grandmother and while she often dates men the same age as her son, 24, who still lives home, she said his friends are out of bounds.
'When his friends are round I go into mother mode. I smother them and I don't even visualise them in any other way than I am the mum,' she said.
She's also careful not to flaunt her conquests when on a night out with her daughter, as Laura said: 'If I'm out with my mum she might have an encounter or a kiss but I don't like that in front of my face.'
Firstly it's stunning that she lives in North London, a city where women come from all over the world to visit and live from every corner of the earth yet she still has no shortage of young guys to bang and date. The fact that she can set her own age limits gives an insight into the workings of the dating market here in the UK.
Secondly the fact that she appears on a television documentary on one of Britain's leading television channels says it all. We all know that if a fifty six year old man was going out and banging women in their twenties and talking about maintaining a harem, he would be the subject of a vicious campaign against him. He would probably lose his job, undoubtedly be called a 'pervert' a 'loser' and someone who needs 'to grow up'. Yet when this women does it she gets an article written about her in a very positive tone, with a somewhat admirable feel to it as she lives her own life, despite negative comments and peoples disapproval.
Thirdly I think that this article gives a great insight into the female psyche and supports the men on this forum who preach that all women are sluts given the right conditions. Look at her early life. She got married at eighteen and had three children. When that marriage fell apart she got married within a short period for a second time, the second marriage lasting twenty years. Most men on this forum would praise her for getting married so young and reproducing. The fact that she quickly got married again and for twenty years would lead many to think that this was a women who valued commitment and stability, who rejected being a slut and if you believe her, never having a one night stand. This sounds like a role model for young girls and women, yet given the correct conditions.......here we are, a complete slut with many one night stands to her name.
I find it amusing when the hamster makes it's presence felt.
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" 'Older women are confident in our own skins, there's no dancing around. We know what we're going to do and how to do it."