Reflections on UK women: Thirst deriving from restricted social access to women
02-18-2016, 06:37 PM
One salient characteristic of UK women that my own practice of game has recently given me occasion to reflect on is their wholly transactional mindset when interacting with men. In particular, I would like to draw attention to the phenomenon whereby British women will behave fundamentally differently towards different types of men - both of whom still strangers to her - depending solely upon his perceived SMV relative to her own. The situations I have in mind here are the very initial stages of any new male-female interaction, such as when a woman makes or fails to make eye contact with a man passing that woman on the street. Prior to learning game and improving myself in the process, I used to obtain no eye contact whatever from women in the UK in public. Furthermore, if I did cast a glance in the direction of even a vaguely attractive woman, she would reflexively flick her head either to the side or simply look down towards the pavement; either way, in my blue pill days I simply assumed that women don't make eye contact with men they don't know and that this principle held universally for all men in public. Well, how wrong I was on this one!
One of the most red pill discoveries that I've made of late is recognizing how this principle only applies to men that women don't automatically get the tingles for on first sight. Since applying game, that is, working out and more than anything else, working on my inner game, I've started to get a small, but regular percentage of even good-looking girls, some of whom 15 years younger, checking me out. Not only this, but when I look at them, they make sustained eye contact and even bite their lip on occasion, so I have reason to believe at least some of them like what they see. At first I refused to believe this was happening and chalked it up to either delusion on my part or simply coincidence, but it has kept on occurring ever since I made the aforesaid changes and so I'm forced to accept this as a real phenomenon.
Anyway, to return to the point about the transactional nature of women, it struck me after these changes occurred how women in the Anglosphere tightly control access to every aspect of their interactions with men and that the degree of access a man is afforded varies proportionately to how high she perceives him on the SMV scale, and, what for me is highly significant, that this principle regulates even the smallest details of the interaction, e.g. whether to even acknowledge a man's presence with a cursory glance in his direction or to engage in the briefest of small talk with him should he be stationary in her vicinity. This principle became clear to me, incidentally, after I did my first 100 daygame approaches in my local area. I quickly noticed that a woman's readiness to even enter into small talk with me seemed to be highly correlated with her level of initial sexual attraction and that women here are exceedingly judgemental in deciding very early on in an interaction with a man whether they are willing to give him the time of day, often times even before the man has had a chance to open his mouth, judging this on the basis of his appearance alone.
Now, I know what some of you guys on here will probably be thinking here: That all women are transactional, irrespective of the culture they grow up in, in the sense of being generally more open to interactions with men that they find sexually attractive than those they don't, in addition to whether they think the guys can provide the validation, social proofing, resources, et.c. that they desire. You might also object that the principle applies across the sexes and that we tend to associate with and befriend those whom we find useful to us in some way or other, even if only in terms of entertainment value. I would agree with all of that. But that's not what I mean in this context. My many interactions with women from outside of the Anglosphere have taught me that a woman won't make an automatic snap judgement about a guy simply based upon his appearance and that she will give the guy the time of day to at least get to know him before coming to any decision as to whether she wants to see him again or not. Put another way, a woman from say France or Germany, will at least treat a guy with a certain modicum of respect and acknowledge his presence and engage in some conversation with him if prompted without the hamster making a snap judgement about whether he is of higher SMV than her or not and then immediately calibrating her behaviour to either aversive/dismissive "yes"/"no" answers and a quick run for the exits or, if he gives her the tingles, to remain in his presence and signal modest interest for him to pursue the interaction further with her, as is the standard template for Anglo women. Put another way, a UK woman's decision to even enter into a conversation with a man is - in her's eyes - already a privilege that she confers on him as a reward for him giving her the gingles. It is in this sense that women from the Anglosphere are markedly different and much more conceitedly mercenary - or transactional, if you care for that term - than women from, say, continental Europe, who don't regard the initial stages of getting to know a man as any kind of payment or reward for a man expressing an initial interest in her. By way of an example, I once spoke with an American woman over Skype that I became aquainted with via an online dating site and one of the first things she said to me was, "I don't normally confer a Skype call on a guy that I've met over the internet, preferring that he meet me in person". Her choice of the word "confer" in this context, along with her generally self-absorbed and entitled manner, was telling in this regard and exemplifies the phenomenon under discussion.
Thus, an interaction between a man and a woman in the Anglosphere is always a binary proposition, unlike in other parts of the world, in that at all times the woman is highly self conscious of her actions and needs to decide at the earliest stages in any interaction with a man whether he is a "creep" or "hawt". Incidentally, the very concept of "creep" is simply a derogatory term that feminists have created to express revulsion at attention from men that are deemed to be of lower SMV than themselves, rather than an objection to the attention they receive as such; this can be observed by a man of comparatively higher SMV having the "right" to look and receive stares back by the women concerned - the very same women that react indignantly when a man they deem to be of lower SMV deigns to pull the same stunt. Given that I've been on different occasions both of the guys I've just described above, I feel I have a strong basis to comment here.
One of the things that has crossed my mind is how this phenomenon of transactionality of Anglowomen may be responsible in no small part for the record levels of thirst in the Anglosphere. By refusing to even allow an average guy from making contact with a woman - through her virtual burka of aversive glances and other tactics involving not seldom the deployment of her iPhone as a deflection shield to signal disinterest at the earliest stages of any possible encounter - men immediately judged to be of lower SMV-status are not given the chance to demonstrate any worth to the woman in other ways and immediately disregarded. This may then be leading to men disproportionately approaching women online rather than offline, thus fuelling the creation of bottleneck thirst traps such as online dating websites and the explosion in female attention whoring platforms otherwise known as social media, where women collect beta orbiter adulation like monarchs soaking up the sycophantic adulation from those seeking their favour.
One of the most red pill discoveries that I've made of late is recognizing how this principle only applies to men that women don't automatically get the tingles for on first sight. Since applying game, that is, working out and more than anything else, working on my inner game, I've started to get a small, but regular percentage of even good-looking girls, some of whom 15 years younger, checking me out. Not only this, but when I look at them, they make sustained eye contact and even bite their lip on occasion, so I have reason to believe at least some of them like what they see. At first I refused to believe this was happening and chalked it up to either delusion on my part or simply coincidence, but it has kept on occurring ever since I made the aforesaid changes and so I'm forced to accept this as a real phenomenon.
Anyway, to return to the point about the transactional nature of women, it struck me after these changes occurred how women in the Anglosphere tightly control access to every aspect of their interactions with men and that the degree of access a man is afforded varies proportionately to how high she perceives him on the SMV scale, and, what for me is highly significant, that this principle regulates even the smallest details of the interaction, e.g. whether to even acknowledge a man's presence with a cursory glance in his direction or to engage in the briefest of small talk with him should he be stationary in her vicinity. This principle became clear to me, incidentally, after I did my first 100 daygame approaches in my local area. I quickly noticed that a woman's readiness to even enter into small talk with me seemed to be highly correlated with her level of initial sexual attraction and that women here are exceedingly judgemental in deciding very early on in an interaction with a man whether they are willing to give him the time of day, often times even before the man has had a chance to open his mouth, judging this on the basis of his appearance alone.
Now, I know what some of you guys on here will probably be thinking here: That all women are transactional, irrespective of the culture they grow up in, in the sense of being generally more open to interactions with men that they find sexually attractive than those they don't, in addition to whether they think the guys can provide the validation, social proofing, resources, et.c. that they desire. You might also object that the principle applies across the sexes and that we tend to associate with and befriend those whom we find useful to us in some way or other, even if only in terms of entertainment value. I would agree with all of that. But that's not what I mean in this context. My many interactions with women from outside of the Anglosphere have taught me that a woman won't make an automatic snap judgement about a guy simply based upon his appearance and that she will give the guy the time of day to at least get to know him before coming to any decision as to whether she wants to see him again or not. Put another way, a woman from say France or Germany, will at least treat a guy with a certain modicum of respect and acknowledge his presence and engage in some conversation with him if prompted without the hamster making a snap judgement about whether he is of higher SMV than her or not and then immediately calibrating her behaviour to either aversive/dismissive "yes"/"no" answers and a quick run for the exits or, if he gives her the tingles, to remain in his presence and signal modest interest for him to pursue the interaction further with her, as is the standard template for Anglo women. Put another way, a UK woman's decision to even enter into a conversation with a man is - in her's eyes - already a privilege that she confers on him as a reward for him giving her the gingles. It is in this sense that women from the Anglosphere are markedly different and much more conceitedly mercenary - or transactional, if you care for that term - than women from, say, continental Europe, who don't regard the initial stages of getting to know a man as any kind of payment or reward for a man expressing an initial interest in her. By way of an example, I once spoke with an American woman over Skype that I became aquainted with via an online dating site and one of the first things she said to me was, "I don't normally confer a Skype call on a guy that I've met over the internet, preferring that he meet me in person". Her choice of the word "confer" in this context, along with her generally self-absorbed and entitled manner, was telling in this regard and exemplifies the phenomenon under discussion.
Thus, an interaction between a man and a woman in the Anglosphere is always a binary proposition, unlike in other parts of the world, in that at all times the woman is highly self conscious of her actions and needs to decide at the earliest stages in any interaction with a man whether he is a "creep" or "hawt". Incidentally, the very concept of "creep" is simply a derogatory term that feminists have created to express revulsion at attention from men that are deemed to be of lower SMV than themselves, rather than an objection to the attention they receive as such; this can be observed by a man of comparatively higher SMV having the "right" to look and receive stares back by the women concerned - the very same women that react indignantly when a man they deem to be of lower SMV deigns to pull the same stunt. Given that I've been on different occasions both of the guys I've just described above, I feel I have a strong basis to comment here.
One of the things that has crossed my mind is how this phenomenon of transactionality of Anglowomen may be responsible in no small part for the record levels of thirst in the Anglosphere. By refusing to even allow an average guy from making contact with a woman - through her virtual burka of aversive glances and other tactics involving not seldom the deployment of her iPhone as a deflection shield to signal disinterest at the earliest stages of any possible encounter - men immediately judged to be of lower SMV-status are not given the chance to demonstrate any worth to the woman in other ways and immediately disregarded. This may then be leading to men disproportionately approaching women online rather than offline, thus fuelling the creation of bottleneck thirst traps such as online dating websites and the explosion in female attention whoring platforms otherwise known as social media, where women collect beta orbiter adulation like monarchs soaking up the sycophantic adulation from those seeking their favour.