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03-04-2016, 03:18 AM
Even if it's not too often, would you let your LTR or a wife hang out with her group of friends(some of them male friends) in places like pubs and bars?
Will you join her when she hangs out with group of people that you don't like only to show some appearance?
Would you mind if she goes to a gay party? In the past I thought it's ok, but it's still disgusting.
I think it's not feminine when women drink, even if it's only one beer, but it's even worse if the boyfriend is not around.
I meet too many women that think it's normal and conventional, it seems that they try to shame me because of my opinion in that matter.
I ended some relationships because of that, am I too harsh?
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03-04-2016, 03:48 AM
Doesn't matter what we think.
If you don't like it, next the bitches.
Abundance mentality.
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03-04-2016, 04:08 AM
You gonna end up like this thinking about how much guys cum up in her behind the bar's dumpster...
Tell them too much, they wouldn't understand; tell them what they know, they would yawn.
They have to move up by responding to challenges, not too easy not too hard, until they paused at what they always think is the end of the road for all time instead of a momentary break in an endless upward spiral
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03-04-2016, 06:11 AM
Quote: (03-04-2016 03:18 AM)nomadd Wrote:
Even if it's not too often, would you let your LTR or a wife hang out with her group of friends(some of them male friends) in places like pubs and bars?
Will you join her when she hangs out with group of people that you don't like only to show some appearance?
Would you mind if she goes to a gay party? In the past I thought it's ok, but it's still disgusting.
I think it's not feminine when women drink, even if it's only one beer, but it's even worse if the boyfriend is not around.
I meet too many women that think it's normal and conventional, it seems that they try to shame me because of my opinion in that matter.
I ended some relationships because of that, am I too harsh?
Could you please tell me why? In my experience, having sex while buzzed often beats having sex sober. Being totally wasted is worse tho.
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03-04-2016, 06:12 AM
You can't change who she is.
If you tell her not to do something, she'll do it anyway behind your back, eventually.
Exchange her for one who doesn't like to drink, problem solved.
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03-04-2016, 08:17 AM
After knowing what goes on and being involved in that? Obviously not dude.
Also blck needs to refrain from uploading anymore of whatever the fuck he's into.
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03-04-2016, 09:36 AM
Tell her she's not allowed, if there's any significant argument or "shaming" next her. Also none of you have seen It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia?
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03-05-2016, 05:22 AM
Most American women don't care about the perception of questionable actions. If they want to do something dubious, there is no winning with them.
Let me tell you about a cunt I use to bang:
1. Thought it was cool that a guy friend come over to her place alone at night.
2. Thought it was fine to text/talk to ex-boyfriend regularity and meet alone occasionally.
3. Thought it was cool to go to the bar with mixed-gender friends regularity.
4. Didn't cook and didn't feel that cooking for a man was important.
I basically called out this chick on all the aforementioned and then some and it resulted in a bunch of drama and waste of time. Lesson learned.
The point is: don't bother "letting" someone do something you deem dubious (assuming it is legit). Good chicks know what is proper and what isn't. Good chicks don't really exist in America in significant numbers so it can seem like you're the one maybe being unreasonable if you haven't experienced proper women.
You're not the unreasonable one. I promise you. You just live in the twilight zone of male-female relationships. Keep women who engage in dubious actions as FWBs only; never LTR them and if you do, drop immediately.
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03-05-2016, 01:25 PM
I can't speak from personal experience, but a lot of the seasoned and well-traveled vets on this forum always say Southeast Asia, Eastern Europe, and South America. You're best bet would probably be to look for women in more rural areas or at least smaller 2nd/3rd tier cities. Even in more "traditional" cultures I imagine major metropolitan areas will be somewhat progressive and Westernized.
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03-08-2016, 11:15 PM
If you're worried about your woman being at a pub, let's cut the bs and admit the real reason - you're insecure. Don't say it's "not feminine to drink" because that's absolutely ridiculous.
You're insecure, and you need to get over this. There's no other reason you have an issue with her drinking out with her friends. As stated above, have the abundance mentality, or else every one of your relationships is doomed from the start. It leads to toxic relationships, surrounded by a cloud of jealousy and insecurity.
Deal with your own issues first. I used to have the same problem as you, so I know where you're coming from.
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03-09-2016, 01:37 AM
I learned a long time ago that telling American women anything is likely to result in the undesired behavior.
Instead you have to train them and make them understand that you trust them and that should they not follow your lead in the relationship the moment they are off to the beach house of a GF for a weekend without you - you will be balls deep in your other female admirers.
Look at Bill Clinton - he can't yell at Hillary, He can't beat Hillary and he can't stop Hillary from being a Lesbie coont - but he sure as hell can get all the strange he wants when Hillary is off on her frequent road trips.
She is humiliated sexually by him constantly for being the bitch she is and she still sticks by him like glue...
If one of my LTRs goes out with the girls or away for the weekend or worse to Hawaii for a week with her bestie...
She will be tasting more than one other woman's funk that I will not shower off when she comes back for guilt BJs and sex.
Unless she is a total slut in which case I would not LTR her in the first place - sexual attitude correction combined with laying stiff pipe that keeps her walking bowlegged complaining of rope burn is about the best no-stray insurance a man can hope for.
Of course I explain to them the Italian rules once we become regular and they find out quick if I deem their behavior in or out of the bedroom to be disrespectful in any way.
Result no alimony and no child support but did have to next some decent lays and forego other lays that in retrospect would have been better LTRs.
If anything I have learned that Red Pill wisdom mandates you drop the NEXT hammer much sooner than later.
Now that I am at the point of wanting a few little legacies to raise properly I make sure to have a deal breakers discussion right up front with prospective baby mommas and they know that if they want to see me put a ring on it then the dealbreakers are in fact DEAL BREAKERS. Its all part of carefully house breaking and training the modern phuckable feral western female.
Of course if you do put a ring on it you have to game them for life with subtle dread game should they let any little feral phocking female GFs put any unacceptable ideas into their little heads. They dare step out of line as a mother and I am a ghost to Red Pill countries unknown (to her). This is why every man needs to keep a secret bug out fund preferably in an offshore corporate entity just in case that the LTRs have no knowledge of.
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03-09-2016, 03:55 AM
Quote: (03-08-2016 11:15 PM)WeekendCasanova Wrote:
If you're worried about your woman being at a pub, let's cut the bs and admit the real reason - you're insecure. Don't say it's "not feminine to drink" because that's absolutely ridiculous.
You're insecure, and you need to get over this. There's no other reason you have an issue with her drinking out with her friends. As stated above, have the abundance mentality, or else every one of your relationships is doomed from the start. It leads to toxic relationships, surrounded by a cloud of jealousy and insecurity.
Deal with your own issues first. I used to have the same problem as you, so I know where you're coming from.
Let's be clear about the above as well. Socialists (feminism is just socialism for women) will say you should accept any BS your woman does, otherwise you're insecure.
No.
What you should be secure about is that if you personally consider her actions BS, then you should be secure enough to next her and apply standard Game advice:
Go approach other girls.
Edit: By doing that, you'll get a better feel for what you can realistically expect from your local sexual market. You may find you don't like your local sexual market, in which case, you'll either have to compromise, or find a better sexual market.