Here at Real Talk Sessions, a concerted effort is made to provide more than just "water is wet" game-related commentary, so if you've managed to find your way here, then that says something about the level at which your perspective as it pertains to this subject has reached.
This latest, powerful edition of the series was borne as the result of an ongoing private conversation between yours truly and another one of the most respected members of this community.
The original topic of discussion from that conversation will be given its own personal dissection in a future edition, but since this one is more than tangentially-related, and I felt a sense of urgency to discuss it first.
The Official Announcement of "Fuckboy" To The American Lexicon
The term fuckboy went mainstream earlier this year. The predictable, young, dumb, and full of cum sites, such as Jezebel, Huffington Post, and Slate all covered it in detail at various points of the year. While we can get into the various definitions of the term that have floated around for a minute, when you add them up and put them all together, they equal a low-quality male, one who American women are going out of their way to excoriate and embarrass at every turn.
The Fuckboy Congregation
A quick trip to social media pages such as the Fuckboy Files and The Fuckboy Bible provides some level of clarity is to why the "fuckboys" are feeling the wrath of the females they choose to pursue and in many cases end up getting with.
The female who is running "The Fuckboy Bible" on Twitter seems to have nothing better to do than spend her days going in on low-quality men. When you notice that from her posts she's a single mother with two children, likely from two different men, you start to understand why -- if she were married to the father of her children, she wouldn't give two fucks about the lowlifes who women who aren't her are dealing with.
I'm more than willing to concede that there are low-quality men out there playing the game in droves, but it's quite apparent to me that is what is lost
in this conversation is a dose of logic.
Men tend to go after women who they believe they can get, and the only options women have in men are the ones who present themselves to them.
Low-quality men aren't doing anything other than going after women whom they also perceive to be low-quality, and thus obtainable for them -- as far as they are concerned.
The vitriol exhibited towards these men is nothing more than a form of worship. It's an admission of their own realities. They hate "fuckboys" because they have to deal with "fuckboys". They've decided to make each other feel better about that reality with an ongoing campaign to publicly humiliate them, but it's nothing more than a fake form of empowerment, because at the end of the day, they might have left one behind, but they'll find themselves in short order in the arms of another, why?
You Ain't Got The Juice Like That
In a fairly popular meme that women pass around on social media, a woman is pining for a man who has a job, his own car, and his own place. The woman who has to openly call for such things does so because she's not used to having a man who already has them.
Higher-quality women who are used to dealing with high-quality men understand what's part of the game before the ball even goes up. It's a foregone conclusion that a higher-quality man who has shit together would have things that we would expect all grown-ass people to have.
However, it's these low-quality females who are used to dealing with bottom of the barrel men who have to pray to find a man who has his own car, doesn't live with his parents, and doesn't have to ask her for money, if she has any to begin with, and, as we know, most don't, especially if we're talking about ethnic women.
Low-quality women don't get the "fantasy men", they don't get the men who have their shit together, because they don't have the juice to get them. Instead, they get the men who are on their level. They may not like that fact, hell, I'm sure they abhor it, but it's not my job to tell them or anybody else what they want to hear just because they need to lie to themselves and need others to lie to them about their shitty realities and impending fates.
En Resumen
Low-quality women will remain low-quality women, and as a consequence, will continue to deal with "fuckboys" because they rather spend their time trying to put those men on blast, instead of investing in making themselves higher-quality women. Thus, the problem isn't the men, the problem is that these men are the only men who the members of The Fuckboy Congregation can get and keep around. Inevitably, they'll go from one to the next, and at best they can hope they don't end up having one of these men's children so that at least their lives remain redeemable, otherwise, they're as lost as the Sixers, taking L's for the greater good, only finding that the lottery balls will never bounce their way, their savior to never appear in the flesh.
Amen.