Quote: (12-08-2015 07:58 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:
All, If you bang 8-9s you are more than free to give us insight - don't wait until you're banging dimes! Even MJ learned a new trick every offseason.
I've banged/dated 3 hard 8's in my day.
1.) Easy-as-fuck hookup from OKC a couple months ago. Recently single, looking to fool around, moved her to text real easy and she invited me over to hang in her hottub and have drinks. She was tipsy and touchy-feely right from the onset and zero resistance. Thinking she was just a real loose easy chick who happened to be hot. We hung out and banged semi-regularly for a little over a month before she faded away on me. She most definitely was/still is banging other dudes.
2.) Social circle years ago who was also recently single and was on the rebound and was told to hit me up from mutual friends of ours who thought we'd get along. She cold messaged me on FB and we dated for a while. I think she was a quiet 8 (not quite aware she was as attractive as she was). We dated for about 6 months or so before she went cold on me (I acted pretty beta back then and definitely pedestalized her).
3.) Also social circle. Was a stripper I met through mutual friends who wanted to hook us up. First date with her was a double date and social proof ruled all. She was a stripper so slutty and easy once the initial wall was broken down which was done for me by social-circle. We were together for about a year before I caught her cheating and ditched her.
From my somewhat limited experience 8's aren't much different than anything else; I have had much harder time gaming 6's and 7's than these 3 girls but again - social circle trumps all. I will say they require more game to keep around because they are in higher demand. Dudes will try to pick them up and they will get more attention/have more options. It's easier to be with a girl long-term who is kind of invisible. This can be avoided if you yourself are an obvious catch that a girl feels the need to lock down and will actually pride herself on the fact that she is with you and getting offers from lower-value dudes will be of no consequence.
All of these girls were lost to me by their lifestyle/other dudes. They had other options - me not being the perceived best of them at the time. They had lots of people knocking on their door and they decided to answer or keep the door open. Didn't want to settle down with one dude because of all the other possibilities they could pursue etc.
I'm an alright looking guy. White, 6'2", thin/fit build, fairly rugged features, in my late 20's, some grey hair and no balding/thinning. I could do to improve my appearance. I could get bigger/more muscular and dress better than I do - but there's always room for improvement.
I don't consider myself any sort of heavy knowledgebase for gaming 8's in the wild or anything but if anyone wants to pick my brain on anything I'm more than happy to answer.