So I've been having sex regularly with this one late 20s "6"-"6.5" (I guess?) I met from online dating. She lives some distance from me and the sex is great, when it happens. She doesn't have a car and likes me to come to her place in the city. That's fine with me - she makes me food and gives me drinks as well.
However, she's still pretty much a flake otherwise and our texting interactions could pretty much be summarized like this:
Me: "I'm going to come over on Saturday."
Her: "I hope! but I don't know there's a lot going on I don't know what the hell I'm doing"
Me: "..."
Her: (at 11 AM on Saturday) "Hey! I'm definitely free tonight so why don't you grab a DVD you like and come over ; )" (she's a bit old-fashioned and doesn't do the Netflix thing I guess)
So it's pretty much been "I don't know what's going on I don't know what I'm doing come over. I don't know what's going on I don't know what I'm doing come over."
Any suggestions for perhaps making her more agreeable to meet on _my_ schedule, and not me waiting around for her? Because it's already happened once where I have a date scheduled with another girl, and then she texts me at the last minute wanting to hook up at the same time. And then we're in a pickle.
Or is this just an unavoidable result of the new dating reality?
However, she's still pretty much a flake otherwise and our texting interactions could pretty much be summarized like this:
Me: "I'm going to come over on Saturday."
Her: "I hope! but I don't know there's a lot going on I don't know what the hell I'm doing"
Me: "..."
Her: (at 11 AM on Saturday) "Hey! I'm definitely free tonight so why don't you grab a DVD you like and come over ; )" (she's a bit old-fashioned and doesn't do the Netflix thing I guess)
So it's pretty much been "I don't know what's going on I don't know what I'm doing come over. I don't know what's going on I don't know what I'm doing come over."
Any suggestions for perhaps making her more agreeable to meet on _my_ schedule, and not me waiting around for her? Because it's already happened once where I have a date scheduled with another girl, and then she texts me at the last minute wanting to hook up at the same time. And then we're in a pickle.
Or is this just an unavoidable result of the new dating reality?