I'm having a second date with a girl I met online, she was pretty flirty when we met up for coffee but we haven't kissed yet. Texting she seems aloof, doesn't respond for a day at a time but when she does she's engaging me, so I'm not getting strong signals from her either way. If I didn't read Roosh's texting guide, I probably would have gone nuts by now.
We're meeting up tomorrow night at 8:30, ostensibly for drinks. The only nice areas I know are a suburban downtown area maybe ten minutes from her house and twenty from mine, and another maybe thirty minutes from her house and fifteen from mine, so she'd be passing my house on her way home. Since I live in the suburbs, there's nothing really nice and intimate near me where we can grab a drink, unless we just drink at a restaurant and forego the food. I believe she has to work on the weekend so I have no idea how late she will actually stay out.
I've only had two women over my place in the recent past. I asked them both over for dinner for a third date. One girl I didn't even kiss before the third date and the other girl we made out at the end of the second date and I guess it was implied that we'd fool around when I asked her over for date 3. So I have several different options here...
Go to a lounge in Area A near her and ask her to come over my place after, which is a 40 minute round trip out of her way (She probably wouldn't get to my place until 11)
Go to a lounge in Area B far from her and ask her to come over my place after, which won't be out of her way on the way back (Probably get to my place around 10:30)
Stay in my area for drinks at a restaurant that isn't going to be as nice, and ask her over my place after (Get to my place by 10)
Ask her to have dinner at my place or suggest to meet up at my place and we'll go out somewhere from there (My place at 8:30)
Or forgo asking her over my place until date 3 (playing it safe)
We're meeting up tomorrow night at 8:30, ostensibly for drinks. The only nice areas I know are a suburban downtown area maybe ten minutes from her house and twenty from mine, and another maybe thirty minutes from her house and fifteen from mine, so she'd be passing my house on her way home. Since I live in the suburbs, there's nothing really nice and intimate near me where we can grab a drink, unless we just drink at a restaurant and forego the food. I believe she has to work on the weekend so I have no idea how late she will actually stay out.
I've only had two women over my place in the recent past. I asked them both over for dinner for a third date. One girl I didn't even kiss before the third date and the other girl we made out at the end of the second date and I guess it was implied that we'd fool around when I asked her over for date 3. So I have several different options here...
Go to a lounge in Area A near her and ask her to come over my place after, which is a 40 minute round trip out of her way (She probably wouldn't get to my place until 11)
Go to a lounge in Area B far from her and ask her to come over my place after, which won't be out of her way on the way back (Probably get to my place around 10:30)
Stay in my area for drinks at a restaurant that isn't going to be as nice, and ask her over my place after (Get to my place by 10)
Ask her to have dinner at my place or suggest to meet up at my place and we'll go out somewhere from there (My place at 8:30)
Or forgo asking her over my place until date 3 (playing it safe)