rd date nothing happened so far
09-16-2015, 01:11 AM
Quote: (09-15-2015 06:05 PM)captndonk Wrote:
The first conversation was not via text. We were lying on my bed and "talked".
Ok good. But then the rest still stands.
Secondly I dont undersdtand why youre asking her "What's up?, what's the problem?tell me". It sounds like she went dark on you and went chasing her. Is that correct?
If I'm reading this correctly ...It should have been the other way around.
Attacking a girl directly in this situation only makes her MORE defensive, more resistant. Instead of sounding like a petulant child that isn't getting what he wants and saying stuff "I think you need psychotherapy" in a text you should have said, in person, something along the lines of
"No I'm not addicted to sex any more than you are addicted to air, water and food. I'm a normal grown man interested in having a normal healthy relationship with a woman, and that involves sex...that's all". Then go dark on her and have her calling you.
I am cognizant of two things:
1. Your English is excellent but it's not your first language. That's not a criticism but rather an acknowledgement there is probably a lot of nuance lost in your telling... and in this case the devil is in the details (nuance) so there's likely a lot we/ I'm missing.
2. You're there and we're here. It's all well and good and very easy for me or anyone to criticize your game but the truth is no one else knows the EXACT details of your interaction with this girl but...
BUT... is she a one in a million freak of nature that will never have sex? ...I doubt it. Do you?
She's going to fuck someone. Immutable. Fact
From the time they are 10-11 yo every girl starts thinking about "their first" kiss, sex, and eventually wedding.
Every single one It's their "princess journey". Immutable. Fact.
I bet this girl has probably given you clues as to what her "Princess/ Cinderella" fantasy looks like. She probably has indicated what her imaginary "Prince Charming / Mr Tingles That Will Deserve My Magic Pussy" looks like. You just aren't seeing it.
The truth is I think you're closer than you realize to cracking her
but your frustrations are getting the better of you...and that's killing your game.
At this point ...if it were me I'd PURPOSELY have her come over when another girl was there. Open the door, let her see the other girl, and say "Im sorry but you have to go..there's been a scheduling mistake" or some shit along those lines. When she leaves just tell the girl you are with "Sorry...its just a girl I went out with that won't leave me alone"...Trust me this will work to your advantage with BOTH girls.
Yes its going to piss Virgin Girl off. Yes its going to make her cry. Will she never call you again? Maybe...but then what have you lost? Pussy? Obviously not because you aren't getting it anyway.
What will most likely happen is you will get an angry text from her later that night or within a day or two with something along the lines of "I can believe what a shitty person you are, you did that, you asshole...wha wha wha"
but DO NOT CONTACT HER FIRST. What that means is she now knows she fucked up and you are going to get pussy elsewhere if not from her...THIS IS WHEN YOU HAVE HER. Just respond with "I like you a lot but I'm a grown man. If you want to be part of my life you have to act like a grown woman. If so then come over on x date to talk about it"...she will know what that means.
Here's a post where a guy did this by accident. Look at the girls reaction...
thread-38367...pid1112047
Be warned: This is sort of a
nuclear move. It will likely push her over the edge one way or the other. She will like you even more (and bang you if you play it right) or she will be gone for good
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Does She Have The "Happy Gene" ?
-Inversion Therapy
-Let's lead by example
"Leap, and the net will appear".
John Burroughs
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The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure."
Joseph Campbell