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Girl said she won't date me anymore if I were to date others after 2.5 months of dating. I reluctantly agreed because I liked her and thought something more serious could happen so I decided to see what would happen...
Now new info came up.
TLDR Version of the following: She lied about not fucking other guys while we were dating (we were not "exclusive" though). Lied multiple times and put my health at risk.
Longer version:
So I met this girl on Tinder 2.5 months ago and we had sex the first night. Didn't think it was serious but we kept meeting up and dating once a week (not just fucking, but actual dating stuff).
During the first few weeks of dating, she told me that she only went on a few Tinder dates prior to me and nothing happened. She talked about the last time she had sex which was "a long time ago" and since she was tested etc so I believed her. Over the next little while, each time we had sex, I would ask her before I would perform oral on her: "Hey, I don't care if you have slept with any guys, but let me know if you have right now so I won't go down on you." Every single time, she would say "No, I haven't slept with anyone else."
Last week when she asked for more commitment to not date anyone else, she revealed to me that she went on one other Tinder date while dating me but "nothing happened." I was shocked because I thought she wasn't dating anyone else but I said "well, we weren't exclusive so I don't really care. And you said nothing happened."
Last night, she tells me that about a month ago, she went on a tinder date and slept with a guy.
This poses multiple issues for me:
- The main one was the fact that she put my health at risk by lying multiple times.
- The fact that she lied so easily and so convincingly.
- The fact that 1 month ago, even though we weren't exclusive and I didn't give her the impression that we were, we were pretty intimate and it wasn't just a fuck. The fact that she could also fuck another guy while we were getting closer sickens me.
- Maybe I can't be mad that she fucked another guy because we weren't exclusive but viscerally I feel repulsed. Also feel "betrayed" because from above, she gave me the impression that she wasn't fucking someone else.
She cried etc and said she made a huge mistake. I said not "singular" because she lied multiple times. She said it's not who she is and she was afraid to be vulnerable and thought that she could not be the "nice girl" anymore so she could go out and sleep with dudes. She said she didn't know what my intentions were. I said even so, that doesn't give her the right to lie to me and put my health at risk.
She said she didn't know what she wanted but now she knows it isn't to sleep around and that she really likes me. She said she wants more time to show that that isn't who she is and to prove to me that she can make it work.
This shook me pretty hard because she lied so easily and convincingly. I also thought she was getting more emotionally attached but yet she still got fucked by some guy.
I probably already know the correct answer but any point in giving her a chance? Or is it NEXT.
Girl said she won't date me anymore if I were to date others after 2.5 months of dating. I reluctantly agreed because I liked her and thought something more serious could happen so I decided to see what would happen...
Now new info came up.
TLDR Version of the following: She lied about not fucking other guys while we were dating (we were not "exclusive" though). Lied multiple times and put my health at risk.
Longer version:
So I met this girl on Tinder 2.5 months ago and we had sex the first night. Didn't think it was serious but we kept meeting up and dating once a week (not just fucking, but actual dating stuff).
During the first few weeks of dating, she told me that she only went on a few Tinder dates prior to me and nothing happened. She talked about the last time she had sex which was "a long time ago" and since she was tested etc so I believed her. Over the next little while, each time we had sex, I would ask her before I would perform oral on her: "Hey, I don't care if you have slept with any guys, but let me know if you have right now so I won't go down on you." Every single time, she would say "No, I haven't slept with anyone else."
Last week when she asked for more commitment to not date anyone else, she revealed to me that she went on one other Tinder date while dating me but "nothing happened." I was shocked because I thought she wasn't dating anyone else but I said "well, we weren't exclusive so I don't really care. And you said nothing happened."
Last night, she tells me that about a month ago, she went on a tinder date and slept with a guy.
This poses multiple issues for me:
- The main one was the fact that she put my health at risk by lying multiple times.
- The fact that she lied so easily and so convincingly.
- The fact that 1 month ago, even though we weren't exclusive and I didn't give her the impression that we were, we were pretty intimate and it wasn't just a fuck. The fact that she could also fuck another guy while we were getting closer sickens me.
- Maybe I can't be mad that she fucked another guy because we weren't exclusive but viscerally I feel repulsed. Also feel "betrayed" because from above, she gave me the impression that she wasn't fucking someone else.
She cried etc and said she made a huge mistake. I said not "singular" because she lied multiple times. She said it's not who she is and she was afraid to be vulnerable and thought that she could not be the "nice girl" anymore so she could go out and sleep with dudes. She said she didn't know what my intentions were. I said even so, that doesn't give her the right to lie to me and put my health at risk.
She said she didn't know what she wanted but now she knows it isn't to sleep around and that she really likes me. She said she wants more time to show that that isn't who she is and to prove to me that she can make it work.
This shook me pretty hard because she lied so easily and convincingly. I also thought she was getting more emotionally attached but yet she still got fucked by some guy.
I probably already know the correct answer but any point in giving her a chance? Or is it NEXT.