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4. Closing paragraph: This should include a call to action. "Message me if you like what you hear", etc. I also like to add that they should write "I want your cock" or whatever in the subject of their e-mail. This not only helps with weeding out spam it also increases their arousal and gets them used to following your direction. I also include that I'm D&D free (drug and disease free; "drugs" doesn't usually include things like weed, in case you're wondering), looking for NSA (no strings attached), and can host (aka we can fuck at my house). Stating you "can host OR TRAVEL" could help your results but I haven't tried it myself. I've experimented with posting something like "It's [today's date] and it rained heavily yesterday/there's construction on I-99" because it's something I've seen in other ads to confirm that you're not spam but I haven't noticed much difference either way.
Let's use an analogy here.
You put an ad out to sell something, and a person calls you wanting to buy. What do you do?
Do you get to know them? Do you ask questions to see if they're sure about buying?
No. You close the fucking sale.
"Great! Will you be paying with cash or credit? Okay, let's start with the full name on the front of the card."
If a girl messages you wanting to get fucked, what do you do? You close.
"Cute pics. What's your number?"
To her phone:
"I live [x]. Are you near?"
"Ok how long will it take you to get here?"
"Cool, see you soon"
If someone wants to buy (especially if that person is a woman), you make it easy for them. You take control and guide them through the entire process.
Every extra decision they make, every extra minute it takes is an opportunity for them to change their mind. They'll back out of the sale or go to the other store down the street.