[RagnarLothbrok]

How do you deal with your ads getting flagged for removal? Any tips how to avoid that?

[RogerThat]

I got what seems to be a genuine reply. She listed her age, body description, and a statement about exploring. She wants me to reply back to an email she provided in the reply (not the hidden CL relay). But she didn't include a pic, as I asked in the ad. Is this normal or would a real DTF person skip the personal email and supply a pic and then meet in public?

[Valentine]

Ask for the pic again. She could be a horny chubster.

[RogerThat]

(02-27-2016 01:31 AM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

After being frustrated with Tinder and especially OK Cupid, I put up a bdsm ad on Craigslist 3 nights ago. To my surprise, I woke up with 15 responses. 8 were scams, 3 were gays but the other 4 were quality cute, thin girls who want to play.

This afternoon I got new message from a woman who said she wanted to meetup tonight. She said she's more of dom but liked that I'm not Vanilla. We met at a bar, she was in her 30s but a solid 7.5 and Cuban. We talked for a bit then she suggested we come to my place. She was right into the sex when we got here. She was rushed and nervous because she was cheating on her boyfriend. Also she was controlling which doesn't work great for me so the sex was pretty poor. But nonetheless I got my Cuban flag and she is interested in a threesome with me and my girlfriend. Her body was amazing.

So, was the Cuban encounter actually BDSM or was that more of a filter just to get someone really DTF? Anything specific to put in the ad or just generic stuff like spanking, etc?

[RogerThat]

(05-12-2016 11:11 AM)Valentine Wrote:  

Ask for the pic again. She could be a horny chubster.

What is her reason for me replying to her personal email? That part was the strangest because I assume she (like I) wants anonymity in the beginning. I'm not using my main email address but I don't want to open a pic she sends with a virus that hacks into my files, etc. That's the main reason I'm concerned. Just curious if you or anyone knows how to deal with this.

[Naughty By Nature]

(08-30-2014 02:25 AM)TravellingSoldier Wrote:  

Rewrote Vincent's post, posted it in my area. Got a bunch of dudes asking to blow me and one guy offered me $100 to lick my butthole. The light did come though.

1+ tonight

got an email from a married couple looking for a third. The wife looked decent so I decided why not, it's a story to tell. I get there... she's smoking. Has had a boob job I presume because she has just perfect tits and a nice ass too. All around.. I'd be hard pressed to say a solid 8 or 9 even. Not the kind of threesome I planned for but it was pretty decent, busted in the wife's mouth, never crossed swords. Twas all good.

Adding to this I'm 18 and they are in their early thirties. Definitely the hottest girl I've had sex with so far and the oldest. Unbelievable body and face though, especially for that age.

You haven't lived until you've double teamed a guys wife!

Not sure if this guy is the bravest man in the world, the stupidest, or both.

Doing what this cat did will typically end up with your organs in a bathtub and your head in a stranger's freezer.

[John Michael Kane]

Craigslist in my area for personals are mostly homos, trannies, fatties and 30-something career women. I'm looking for a LTR quality woman, future wife material. The amount of time on CL spent has lead me to believe that the best quality girls are found via social circle, or online dating, but only outside of the USA. CL for quality women in the US is a joke. The best you can hope for is a ONS with a morbidly obese feminist. But I repeat myself. Why, why, why would you stoop this low?

[LeoneVolpe]

(01-09-2017 08:29 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Craigslist in my area for personals are mostly homos, trannies, fatties and 30-something career women. I'm looking for a LTR quality woman, future wife material. The amount of time on CL spent has lead me to believe that the best quality girls are found via social circle, or online dating, but only outside of the USA. CL for quality women in the US is a joke. The best you can hope for is a ONS with a morbidly obese feminist. But I repeat myself. Why, why, why would you stoop this low?

I concur.

[stugatz]

Oh - nevermind. Here I was thinking you meant dating people you met off of Craigslist that you were originally buying things from.

I bought a bed from some girl when I moved to my current city. We talked for like three hours and I almost banged her on it...

[LeoneVolpe]

(01-09-2017 08:37 PM)stugatz Wrote:  

Oh - nevermind. Here I was thinking you meant dating people you met off of Craigslist that you were originally buying things from.

I bought a bed from some girl when I moved to my current city. We talked for like three hours and I almost banged her on it...

That is a much better way of trying to pick up girls off Craigslist. I'd never swoop the personals section on that site. Ever.

[John Michael Kane]

Actually sold a flat screen TV to two beautiful college girls who just moved into the area. Texted them later, but they didn't respond. Nonetheless, CL is best for selling your crap you don't need, and if a quality woman happens to show up when you sell the goods, move on from there. Using it as a resource to actually meet women as a primary goal? Um, no.

[stugatz]

(01-09-2017 08:41 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  

That is a much better way of trying to pick up girls off Craigslist. I'd never swoop the personals section on that site. Ever.

"Nah, I think I'm just imagining things, she wouldn't be about it. She's leaving town in a week and just wants to sell me the bed."

Goddamn it. I'll make up for it later this year.

[bradz]

Sadly I still use CL. I'm married so really haven't found a better way to troll for young pussy. Don't want to post [even fake] pics on POF/Tinder etc. Not sure why. Catfish maybe? Any advice? I day game a little. In fact my current fwb (10+ yrs younger - hot little Latina) was from gaming at a work function. Not ideal. But she needs to be discreet too. I had a fwb for a while I met on CL - she was mid 20's, cute, nice little body, she only knew my first name - NOTHING else. I would just text her and I'd go to her apartment and we'd fuck and I'd leave. It was perfect. Need to find another something like that. CL has so much BS on it - VERY high noise to signal ratio. I get about 10 meetups a year I guess maybe as mansy as 12-14 and probably 4 to 6 convert to bangs. No fat chicks. Typically under 35. Have met a few in the 19-22 yr old range - no lays that young tho - Been close - I screwed up. Would love to have a better method to discreetly troll younger women.

[zphyer7]

Like others have said Craigslist in the USA is a wasteland in terms of women, even in major cities. I've banged a few girls off there and they are among the bangs I'm most ashamed of. Two were fat and one had an average body but was a raging feminist. Nose ring piercing, stupid tattoos, blue hair, and was even majoring in women's studies. After fucking her she immediately got on her laptop and started ranting about one of Donald Trumps tweets. I couldn't run out of there fast enough.

[Naughty By Nature]

(12-19-2014 04:48 PM)bradz Wrote:  

Because I'm married I have to rely on CL for most hookups. Ironically it's a place you can be honest about what you want.

I have ads for a few different things - different nets so to speak. Married 4 Married, FWB, and Looking for Younger -
I post the Looking for Younger ones mostly right before going to bed (11PM ish) and FWB/Married one during the day and between 8-9PM.
I get a fair amount of BS. But I have had some good successes.
Right now I have a cute 27 yr old blonde I fuck once a week. Also have a 33 yr old cum slut with a SUPER tight body. I've done everything from blonde MILF who did ATM to 22 yr old single moms to mostly early/mid 30's marrieds. Met a couple 19 - 21 yr olds but no bangs yet. Ended up fucking a gorgeous married women for about 8 months - twice a week - car bj's to multi-hour fuck fests- best sex I've ever had.

But yeah there is a lot of BS to deal with . BS bot and scammer replies. Flakes. There's good stuff there but it's not easy. I'd have better numbers going out to bars but I can't do that....

Why are you having sex with other girls if you're married? What a coward. Either stay faithful to your wife or divorce and have sex with all the women you want. Half measures are pathetic.

[Swell]

(01-13-2017 06:29 AM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  

Why are you having sex with other girls if you're married? What a coward. Either stay faithful to your wife or divorce and have sex with all the women you want.

Naughty By Nature. This is best joke on the fourm in a long time.

HAHAHAHA!

Thank you.

[Naughty By Nature]

(01-05-2015 06:29 PM)bradz Wrote:  

Hmmm I wouldn't like that. I have a yahoo address I use purely for CL. And Text Plus if the girl wants to text. NOTHING that can link me to the real me. I also have a burner phone I have used once or twice for this - of course the number didn't match the text number - I may have used *67 so no number came up and when they asked why said "not sure" or I was in sales ...I don't recall.

I have tons of ads - and I have duplicates for all - I rotate through them as they come up for renewal. I get flagged sometimes - annoying but what can you do. I can tell it's often been auto flagged - which is extra annoying.

Gotta keep posting, try new tweaks to your ad, never respond to messages saying text me or email at blah blah blah. Numbers game.

Why wouldn't you just use your normal number? You're not doing anything illegal, lol.

[Naughty By Nature]

(02-27-2016 02:59 PM)Iso Wrote:  

I don't get why a lot of you are meeting up with these girls in person first before fucking her? I thought the whole point of Craigslist was to go directly to her place or your place. Adding an in person meetup complicates that.

Keep in mind I've never done online game so I'm no expert but I'd imagine these dudes meet in person in a public setting in case the woman is a catfish or serial killer. That way, they won't have to worry about some loon being in their apartment stealing their cereal.

[bradz]

(01-13-2017 06:29 AM)Naughty By Nature Wrote:  

(12-19-2014 04:48 PM)bradz Wrote:  

Because I'm married I have to rely on CL for most hookups. Ironically it's a place you can be honest about what you want.

I have ads for a few different things - different nets so to speak. Married 4 Married, FWB, and Looking for Younger -
I post the Looking for Younger ones mostly right before going to bed (11PM ish) and FWB/Married one during the day and between 8-9PM.
I get a fair amount of BS. But I have had some good successes.
Right now I have a cute 27 yr old blonde I fuck once a week. Also have a 33 yr old cum slut with a SUPER tight body. I've done everything from blonde MILF who did ATM to 22 yr old single moms to mostly early/mid 30's marrieds. Met a couple 19 - 21 yr olds but no bangs yet. Ended up fucking a gorgeous married women for about 8 months - twice a week - car bj's to multi-hour fuck fests- best sex I've ever had.

But yeah there is a lot of BS to deal with . BS bot and scammer replies. Flakes. There's good stuff there but it's not easy. I'd have better numbers going out to bars but I can't do that....

Why are you having sex with other girls if you're married? What a coward. Either stay faithful to your wife or divorce and have sex with all the women you want. Half measures are pathetic.

until you walk in some one else's shoes you don't know the story. So fuck off.

[Enigma]

(01-12-2017 08:43 PM)zphyer7 Wrote:  

Like others have said Craigslist in the USA is a wasteland in terms of women, even in major cities. I've banged a few girls off there and they are among the bangs I'm most ashamed of. Two were fat and one had an average body but was a raging feminist. Nose ring piercing, stupid tattoos, blue hair, and was even majoring in women's studies. After fucking her she immediately got on her laptop and started ranting about one of Donald Trumps tweets. I couldn't run out of there fast enough.

When I first posted this thread, there were over half a dozen pics up of women I had met through CL. All college aged, thin, attractive.

This may come as a surprise to some of you, but attractive women aren't responding to every ad on CL. Your ad has to actually be good.

[Enigma]

(02-28-2016 05:14 AM)RagnarLothbrok Wrote:  

How do you deal with your ads getting flagged for removal? Any tips how to avoid that?

In my experience, only certain ads get flagged, and they get flagged almost immediately. Meaning that there's something in the ad CL doesn't like, but I don't know what it is.

Try changing or rewriting the ad and see what happens.

[MrXY]

I didn't use CL much in 2016; posted ads in a few bursts and banged one girl. She responded to an ad offering spankings and loved to be tied up and spanked then fucked. Gave great submissive head. Had to let her go when, after several meetings, she started pushing for a dating relationship. She did leave me with some nice videos of her fucking one of those big suction cup dildos, though.

The most annoying thing about CL isn't wading through the spammers, fatties and gays-they can be eliminated quickly. It's the real women who are bangable and will replay to your emails for days and send pics but then suddenly go silent. Obviously, they get cold feet when the reality of a meeting looms. It's either just a fantasy to them or they chose another guy. This type tends to be nice looking and married.

To me, the best aspect of CL and what keeps me coming back isn't the sex- it's the thrill. To meet a woman for a drink and then within 45 minutes to be fucking this complete stranger in a hotel room is an experience you will never forget. No expectations, no pretenses, just a couple of hours of animalistic sex. Teachers, housewives, office workers, government drones, nurses do this. If you are still somewhat naive, it will give you a view of the side of women they prefer to keep hidden.

[duedue]

(01-14-2017 04:41 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I didn't use CL much in 2016; posted ads in a few bursts and banged one girl. She responded to an ad offering spankings and loved to be tied up and spanked then fucked. Gave great submissive head. Had to let her go when, after several meetings, she started pushing for a dating relationship. She did leave me with some nice videos of her fucking one of those big suction cup dildos, though.

The most annoying thing about CL isn't wading through the spammers, fatties and gays-they can be eliminated quickly. It's the real women who are bangable and will replay to your emails for days and send pics but then suddenly go silent. Obviously, they get cold feet when the reality of a meeting looms. It's either just a fantasy to them or they chose another guy. This type tends to be nice looking and married.

To me, the best aspect of CL and what keeps me coming back isn't the sex- it's the thrill. To meet a woman for a drink and then within 45 minutes to be fucking this complete stranger in a hotel room is an experience you will never forget. No expectations, no pretenses, just a couple of hours of animalistic sex. Teachers, housewives, office workers, government drones, nurses do this. If you are still somewhat naive, it will give you a view of the side of women they prefer to keep hidden.

Yeah, I find that very annoying too. I had a correspondence with a girl who responded to an ad of mine which was for an unusual type of fetish. It went on for about a week; she asked a lot of questions "to be prepared" but when I suggested she come over, she stopped responding.
For one thing I didn't send her a pic (was waiting for her to ask) and for another I told her to come directly to my home the same day. Do you always meet them for a drink first?
Also have not figured out how in advance is best to set the meeting. Too far ahead and she may loose interest or fuck another guy; too early (say the same day) and it can give a needy vibe.

[Mentavious]

(01-09-2017 08:29 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Craigslist in my area for personals are mostly homos, trannies, fatties and 30-something career women. I'm looking for a LTR quality woman, future wife material. The amount of time on CL spent has lead me to believe that the best quality girls are found via social circle, or online dating, but only outside of the USA. CL for quality women in the US is a joke. The best you can hope for is a ONS with a morbidly obese feminist. But I repeat myself. Why, why, why would you stoop this low?

If it took searching on CL to find that out then that's a problem

I've banged some good looking girls of CL. No stunners but girls who are cute and decent bodies

[Mayo]

(07-28-2013 03:32 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Here's the ad I have up.

Sounds good! A question to all:

Can you talk to a woman like this IRL all day, or does it make real, conscious effort to come up with a short, written text like the one above? As one poster previously pointed out, it's essentially the main difference between male and female communication (logic vs. feelings and subtle hints).

If you can talk to a women like this IRL all day, it must have a learning curve, maybe even a steep one. What are good works to help master this style of communication? Maybe we already have a separate topic for it (haven't found a link in this thread). Still, even if you learned to communicate this way, doesn't she expect you to communicate to her like a "normal" man, that is, with logic? I know, it's boring to her.

Edited to add: this all sounds good when you both speak the same native language. What if you are on your travels, and at least one of you is not so fluent in your common language? Then you may not be able to come up with such clever, subtle hints.