Quote: (04-16-2015 01:27 PM)Atlantic Wrote:
I don't screen heavy at all. In fact I think going sexual over messaging pushes them away. I lost a LOT of bangs in February doing just that. I can't screenshot at the moment on my phone but my chats are fast and direct. 'Nice pics'..''Do you speak English'...'What are you doing today'...'Come hang out'...'Whats your whatsapp'. That is it and the rest is sorting out logistics.
As Scotian told me... 'Clear basic sentences with no jokes or complicated words'. Leave all that for when you meet them. Be normal and basic over text. No fancy text game PUA stuff.
I push for early in the day meetups and meet them in the lobby and say lets go relax in my room. If they say they aren't comfortable then I will drink/relax in the hotel bar but this hasn't happened yet - they have all come straight up to my room. I ask if they want a drink (2 have, 1 hasn't, 1 was in the morning) and just lay down on the bed beside them and just chat.
I have used what I am going to call 'boiling a frog' escalation. Turn it up fast but with no sudden jumps ahead that spook them.
Hug and kiss on the cheek when you meet them.
Stroke their back and legs when they rest on the bed.
Kiss their neck when you get up to grab some water.
Kiss their forehead when you sit back down.
Squeeze their ribs playfully when they say something funny.
Push them back when you are making fun of them.
Kiss them properly after a few minutes.
Then kiss their neck and stomach.
Start getting into heavier kissing and towards sex. I usually give them a good massage too before and go down on them also. This gets me more hornier than letting a girl go down on me before sex.
This is all mixed in with playful banter and jokes. I go fast but I am not pushing hard. If a girl wants to leave or stop I will pull back immediately. Usually I will do a lot of this with a girl on top giving the freedom to stop easier which makes her even more comfortable. I stop every so often to change a song or show her something online.
I learned a lot in February about how these girls think and what they like. It might take guys a week or two to dial it in but once your understand the difference it is possible to get very fast lays. I have had a few quick lays elsewhere (Northern America/Europe) before but they have been very consistent down here. Plus I am not a huge guy (although I am in okay shape) and I have a fun vibe so maybe that disarms girls a bit.
This week has been a lot of online, because they don't drink in these parts till closer to the weekend, but this style of game is also working on day game girls and numbers from bars back in Bogota. Last nights girl was from a bar number a few weeks ago. I don't like relying on online game 100% but early in the week here there is not too many other options. I could go to the mall and run game but honestly I am enjoying a lazy week.
I thinks there are certain vital components, that Linux has mentioned, about being succesful with running that kind of game in Colombia.
1. Optimally, be in the 27 to 34 yr old age range.
2. Be decent looking, buff or in shape.
3. Have European features.
4. Seem to have your shit together. i.e nice pad or hotel.
5. Be confident and act like you have nothing to lose if she leaves.
6. Focus on the 23 to 30 age bracket,
I am just finishing a 6 week stint in Cali, where I banged 14 chicks, mostly 18 to 21. It wasnt so easy for me hehe. I dont have components 1, 3 or 6, so consequently my tinder matches are relatively few and girls who I invite to my place super fast, usually put up good girl bullshit resistance.
Yes, Peru and SE Asia are way easier for the average white guy. Though the lesson in this thread is that complete confidence in Colombia pays off, more than Eastern Europe, for example.
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