[ManAbout]

I was speaking to a 25 year old girl the other day about the types of guy she dates, and her first words were "I like Daddies" and she proceeded to tell me that she had a serious dady complex. Now, I would give this girl about a 7, I don't think most guys here would turn her down. The oldest guy she dated was in his 50s.

I bring this up because often I see posts from guys in their late 20s and 30s who want to get into game with the same question, "Is it too late for me to get into game?"

The answer is a resounding "No". As long as you take of your appearance, keep to a healthy weight and not act like a boring old fuddy duddy, it's NEVER TOO LATE TO GET INTO GAME.

[OGNorCal707]

A lot of girls/women with the "daddy complex" were molested by their father or another close older male relative. Often times these women are seriously fucked up psychologically and emotionally, not that I wouldn't necessarily bang a girl like this, but I think it should be considered a pretty decent red flag.

[Cr33pin]

Ive found girls with daddy issues to be amongst the sluttiest i have been with. They have no boundries

[Nex]

(12-11-2011 04:04 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

A lot of girls/women with the "daddy complex" were molested by their father or another close older male relative. Often times these women are seriously fucked up psychologically and emotionally, not that I wouldn't necessarily bang a girl like this, but I think it should be considered a pretty decent red flag.

This. Girls need strong male figures in their lives as much as boys.

[OGNorCal707]

(12-11-2011 04:10 PM)Cr33pin Wrote:  

Ive found girls with daddy issues to be amongst the sluttiest i have been with. They have no boundries

Yeah I will co-sign on this, I think there also might be a correlation between girls with serious daddy issues and borderline personality disorder (see other thread).

I think there is some theory in psychology that most women are attracted to men that remind them of their fathers, but I think women with the "daddy complex" take this to a much higher level.

My ex-GF, who I'm quite certain is borderline, and most likely histrionic, and narcissist as well, was calling me "daddy" from the fist time we had sex. I clearly remember her having this crazy looking in her eyes, and saying "ohhh dadddy" in this crazy slutty voice, the moment I started to slide my dick into her.

I only had like 6 or 7 notches before hooking up with her, and none called me daddy, so at first I thought it was odd, and I was a little weirded out by her calling me daddy during sex all the time. But then later I on I have to admit, that it turned me on and sometimes I'd even play a long with it.

What really got me though was when I was looking through her internet search history late in our relationship, and I saw that she was looking at some porn site called oldyoungtube or something like that, and had been looking at porn with really old men having sex with teenage girls.

[ManAbout]

(12-11-2011 04:04 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

A lot of girls/women with the "daddy complex" were molested by their father or another close older male relative.

Really? Are there studies that support this theory or is just your hypothesis?

I think the more likely reason is single parent families where the dad is not in the picture leading to the lack of a strong male role model.

[OGNorCal707]

(12-11-2011 05:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  

(12-11-2011 04:04 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

A lot of girls/women with the "daddy complex" were molested by their father or another close older male relative.

Really? Are there studies that support this theory or is just your hypothesis?

I think the more likely reason is single parent families where the dad is not in the picture leading to the lack of a strong male role model.

Yeah that is just a theory that I have, I probably should have mentioned that, I haven't read any studies that support it.

[misterstir]

(12-11-2011 05:51 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  

(12-11-2011 04:04 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

A lot of girls/women with the "daddy complex" were molested by their father or another close older male relative.

Really? Are there studies that support this theory or is just your hypothesis?

I think the more likely reason is single parent families where the dad is not in the picture leading to the lack of a strong male role model.

Psychology says that if you are a girl with bad father relations your more likely to seek male validation from bfs = slutty behaviour.

Which makes sense because a girl with good father relations would have him hunt you down and cut your balls off for fucking her. Most slutty girls that psychologist encountered do not come from a traditional upbringing.

I've never heard about the molestation angle but I heard a similar angle from neglect. Ie. I dated a girl whose parents where drug addicts (and she was a speed head) and clearly seeked male validation. Good fucker though, I dont think anyone fucked me so good in my life. I knew from when I got her on the dance floor and she was humping my leg until it went numb should could fuck good. I should have put my wallet in the other pocket

[Samseau]

I believe I can offer some insight here.

Girls from single mothers almost always turn out to be sluts.

Girls with an abusive father almost always turn out to be irritable sluts with a predilection for older guys (aka daddy issues).


But there's also girls who were close to their father, and end up preferring older guys as well.

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

(12-11-2011 03:28 PM)ManAbout Wrote:  

I bring this up because often I see posts from guys in their late 20s and 30s who want to get into game with the same question, "Is it too late for me to get into game?"

You sound young. The guys on this forum that pull the MOST ass are in their late 20's and 30's. At that point you should have some money AND you still have your looks, its a deadly combo. I'm 28 and have pulled more ass this year alone than I have my whole life.

I plan to be still bringing it well into my 40's and even 50's if father time is good to me.

[Deluge]

My ex's description of her perfect guy sounds exactly the same as her dad (tall, skinny and nerdy with glasses and facial hair). She said she really digs men in their 40's (more than twice her age, but same age as her dad is now) and likes the lonely Professor look (her dad has a doctorate). She used to deny her taste was similar to her dads, but when I joke up it now, she just laughs cause she knows now from my bagging her about it that its true. Hell back in the day when I would bring up bands and books her dad likes that I like too, her eyes would light up.

To paint a further picture of this umm, case study. She has expressed more interest in being dominated then anyone other girl I've met. She has rape fantasies and would masturbate to hentai where the sex is usually pseudo-rape (the victim ends up enjoying it). Being dominated is all she can get off on sexually, that and giving blow jobs (giving head is a submissive act in a lot of ways). This stands in contrast to her dad who is an inept beta male who got divorced by his now ex-wife after years of a a sexless marriage. The ex is also depressed like her sister and her mum who has a milder form of bipolar. She is probably borderline too and cuts. This is all from her mum being fucked up, her dad was the good influence, so I think that's how she developed her daddy fetish.

@Samseau, Like I just said above, it can develop the opposite way too.

[Cr33pin]

(12-12-2011 05:19 AM)TheAntiWhiteKnight138 Wrote:  

I plan to be still bringing it well into my 40's and even 50's if father time is good to me.

Couldnt have said it better myself