[UrbanNerd]

I have to admit, I agree with theIVth to a certain extent.

Now if I am in the process of trying to get her panties down and she keeps accessing her phone, then I might have a problem but once I busted that nut, I could care less HOW many times she picks up that phone. Hopefully, a call or text comes on her phone that forces her to leave because at that time, I really have no use for her.

I understand what one feels is "disrespectful" is relative to the individual. I for one, never really looked at when women are "shit testing" (is that what ya'll call it?). I think with this thread (and others) you will always have debate between individuals who care about the "exact protocol and results" and those of us who just care about the bottom-line results.

As long as she is not on that phone while I am busting that nut (or in the process of), I don't care.

[texaschili]

Stuff I have tried:

I take my hand and put over the phone screen and see if they get the message. Also, if they wretch their texting hand away so they can continue to see the screen that is a big red flag.

I have also said to the girl "I'm giving you 100% of my attention I expect the same in return; can you handle that?"

Stuff I haven't tried but may work:

If they keep screwing with the phone snatch it away and just tell 'em they can get it back when they leave/date is over.

Or hell, give them an ultimatum. Tell 'em they text in your presence again your dumping them.

[Prowl]

If a girl who's number you already have starts checking her phone while she's talking to you, use an SMS bomber on her from your Android phone (if you have one).

Not necessarily the coolest thing ever, but fun.