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How to make marriage good for guys again
11-23-2011, 01:02 PM
I don't want to hijack the thread or anything, but speaking of marriage, I'm not sure that, even in its classic sense, it's all that great.
I mean, do you really want to be banging just one pussy for the rest of your life anyway? No matter how hot she is now at 25, the odds aren't good for 10 years down the road. Not only will she be very high-maintenance in an effort to keep herself looking great (you need money for the clothes, the spa treatments, the makeup, etc.), but she'll also have to have genetics on her side for her to be over 35 and still get you hard. I don't think I see more than 0.1% of women who are 35 or above that actually excite me all that much (though I'd be willing enough for what, 2%?) Imagine that 35-yr-old being one that you've been plowing for 10 years +. And you better marry that 25-yr-old when you're 40 or more because even when you're 50, 10 years down the road, you'll still be able to pull younger and better than your wife will be then if you keep in good shape and dress with style. Multiply by 10 if you have loads of money.
And what, honestly, does marriage get you, even with a 'good' girl that stays at home?
A mother? Don't know about you guys, but I'm not all that bent on having kids. For me, kids is a compromise that I am (was?) willing to make for the woman of my dreams. I don't particularly want them, but knowing that 99.99% of women do, I accepted the fact that I'd have to have them one day if I found a woman that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.
Alright, I don't need a nanny cuz I don't need kids.
Now what do we have left? A maid.
For the most part, I manage to keep my place pretty clean. If I had loads of cash, I'd hire a maid. $100 a week.
Now we've taken care of the nanny and maid part of wifedom. What's left? Sex. Hmmm... You can get that by dating, rinse, repeat.
Seriously, what do you want from marriage? If it's hot sex, you can get better by dating - either serial monogamy or polygamy, your choice. You can hire a maid for $400/month. You can pay the dry cleaners for your clothes. That's much cheaper than the upkeep on a woman.
Unless you really, really want kids, I just don't see the point.
Unless.... you're like 55 or 60 and just can't pull anything decent anymore. Then, get married so that you have someone to wipe your ass for you 10 years later or change your Depends.
And here's some advice some of you are going to scoff at... If you want kids and the picket fence and all that, marry a chick who's average at best. Even a little on the ugly side wouldn't hurt. A nice girl. She won't get a new offer for dick every 10 minutes and won't act like it. She'll appreciate the little things you do for her a lot more than some entitled bitch who knows she can find a reasonable replacement in a heartbeat. Talk about 'game' all you want, but you're gonna get sick of pulling that shit on your quickly-depreciating-but-used-to-be-hot wife eventually. You WILL turn into a regular guy because you'll think you don't have to try so much anymore. And even if your game stays tight, even then there's the fact that different in and of itself is enticing so even a guy who is inferior to you can seem much more attractive if only because she's gotten used to you.
If you've ever dated a really hot girl, you'll know what I mean. At first, you're pretty excited that this goddess is even paying attention to you. She seems hot as balls and gets you hard in a flash. Six months later, you see the cellulite, the uneven tits, the flab under her arms, the wrinkles that no one else sees cuz she only gets this close to you. You know her pussy could be tighter and that she could lose another 5lbs to be perfect. But then you see another girl at the bookstore. You aren't close enough to her to see all the little flaws so you get turned on and you think she's hotter than what you got now. She's not necessarily, but the 'blurred' vision makes it seem so. The one your with still looks like an 8 to other guys, but to you she's become a 6.5. You think this doesn't happen with women too? Sure it does. Because when you look at someone else, not only are you not able to see the flaws immediately, but you imagine everything to be perfect. You imagine her naked, not with lopsided tits, but with perfectly symmetrical tits. A tight pussy. Armpits that never get stinky. You imagine the perfect blowjob, not a girl who can't seem to get her teeth out of the way.
So eventually, no matter how good your game is to attract, your game will almost never been good enough 20 years down the road with the same girl.
Get a girl you don't need to game. A girl who knows you're above her and that she's lucky to have you. Because in the end, you are not getting married for the pussy. You're getting married for someone to wash your clothes, clean your house, cook for you and raise your kids. And there is nothing better than a girl who is below you to make all the effort in the world at those things in order to keep you around.
If you marry, marry a little lower than yourself.