@Nefarias I've had "back n forth" debates with dudes on similar mindset as you and as I will always say LOSER MENTALITY...
1st I don't use term pickup IRL, I have fun socializing. If you have 0 clue what you offer then you have tons of self-discovery to do. By your logic it is better to work hard making $$$ and do P4P because by your definition the only thing you want is pussy.
It's rather funny because if pussy didn't exist most men would have 0 dealings with women. Hence people act like unattractive women are subhumans...
I know 100% beyond sex, tons of value brought by me being in a woman's life or anyone guy or girl...
Cold approach is merely a TOOL and your street logic sounds like my EX...
Yes you can be foolish hoping your fame gives you connections to the right circle or be born into a favorable situation...I myself connected into a realm OFF COLD APPROACH. While someone may say "lame" that is fine let them stay in their limited bubble as I am unbounded socially.
To paint a picture, in 2016 went to prague and in less than 2 days you'd thought I lived there for months. People inviting me to house parties, private boat party, wanting to have their personal driver show me around...If I was single at that time I would've overdosed on sex.
I'm not some beggar PUA hoping some chick can offer me pussy...
It is SAD you have a shit outlook on your own personal power but again culturally people don't see the value in personal growth.
I'll just leave below what my life was like prior to monogashit, I didn't then nor now have to worry/think about getting laid. Im not your typical guy nor some dude who can fuck lots of chicks because he has favorable connections/money/looks that it has always been like that.
I have the personal power to transcend my social/sex life into whatever I envision...
I'm not typical PUA, I never talk about girls in real life (doesn't stop men from being men trying to tell me about girls)
I don't hangout with PUAs or mentally masturbate about theory...I LIVE, prior to ex-gf hung out with tons of women and very select few dudes who were either connected, knew women, gay/bi/tranny or cool dude who would appeal to female friends I hungout with.
It is HILARIOUS at how unattainable certain things seem to people not realizing pop culture & entertainment is an illusion. I am BROKE, only thing redeeming about myself is my consciousness.
Below at summer jam after party from many years back, bunch of celebs there. Again, I'm not some dude who needs to take pics & snapchat himself to feel cool...I know what I am about.
Managers of clubs have thanked me for coming to their venues because I genuinely go out and have fun
(I'm at 0:39, note al celebs as if that means shit to me)
Again...Some random chick I don't know rejects me on street, club or wherever...
LIFE DOES NOT END, how I process/view/interact with the world doesn't end
(I'm at 1:32)
I'm no one special other than I just grew so much within social/sexual realms.
Despite stress & mental issues due to being in monogashit. One thing that can't be stripped from me is the understanding, knowledge & truths I've gained over time.
Until death, I am the opportunity, I'm a weird dude I crave fun & play. I will never have social or sexual issues for life. It is a tall order for a man to say both...However I explored extensively...
Every person who have come and went even ex-gf doesnt play any impact on the future. It makes me chuckle when some dudes have certain perspective or think something like sex is a huge deal.
10 years from now there will be millions of hot 18-24 year olds...If i survive I will be 40 partying dancing & overdosing on pussy...All in sake of fun & play...
You think id dwell on some chick who ignores me hahaha...Soft humans have no reason being in the social playground if they take it so seriously
P.S...In span of 2011-2013 I had more opps for sex than a person can ever physically have. Have gone as deep as realizing I know how to get private orgies going...I haven't thought about sex or picking up chicks in ages maybe 2009/2010. I haven't been on a so called date since 2011. However, I have had shit ton of social memories that I will day happy knowing I had a great run, even if I did right now. Sadly, I can't die now as I had utter shit experience in monogamy and feel robbed of 4 years of my life