Hey guys,
I've been seeing this girl before she lost interest in me over text (there's no way we can meet now, since we are living in 2 different countries and both busy. I am just curious what causes this flaking stuff). Edit: I was planning to go see her in April, since it's no big deal for me to move, and it's close, but rather go somewhere else now.
When we met there was a lot of interest, in January over text as well, a lot of video, photo shares etc... But in February it seems she doesn't want to talk anymore. She still replies out of niceness, but just very very short like ''how good'' and she sends me messages with ''have a nice day'' if I decide to ignore her for a while. Not sure what's her deal.
Got very bored talking to this girl, but want to know what happened (for improving texting skills). I replied the following (in Spanish):
''Hey, I want to know what changed between our text messages of January and February. Could you just tell me honestly. Because like this I don't want to talk to you anymore. With people I recently met I have more interesting text conversations. It's a real shame, but it is what it is. At least I might learn something out of it''.
Don't really care to much about this anymore, since it's very unlikely she'll change frame after this text. I'll guess the contrary.
Anyway, I guess I just want an explanation. My question is ''do you ask for explanations (to learn from and improve) to girls that flake or lose interest after a long time of interest?
I've been seeing this girl before she lost interest in me over text (there's no way we can meet now, since we are living in 2 different countries and both busy. I am just curious what causes this flaking stuff). Edit: I was planning to go see her in April, since it's no big deal for me to move, and it's close, but rather go somewhere else now.
When we met there was a lot of interest, in January over text as well, a lot of video, photo shares etc... But in February it seems she doesn't want to talk anymore. She still replies out of niceness, but just very very short like ''how good'' and she sends me messages with ''have a nice day'' if I decide to ignore her for a while. Not sure what's her deal.
Got very bored talking to this girl, but want to know what happened (for improving texting skills). I replied the following (in Spanish):
''Hey, I want to know what changed between our text messages of January and February. Could you just tell me honestly. Because like this I don't want to talk to you anymore. With people I recently met I have more interesting text conversations. It's a real shame, but it is what it is. At least I might learn something out of it''.
Don't really care to much about this anymore, since it's very unlikely she'll change frame after this text. I'll guess the contrary.
Anyway, I guess I just want an explanation. My question is ''do you ask for explanations (to learn from and improve) to girls that flake or lose interest after a long time of interest?