Hello. I thought I wasn't a noob, but I guess I am because I fell for a trap tonight. I went on two dates with this girl from my uni, never spent money on her, followed all I know about game to a tee. I got a blowjob the first time I hungout with her, and fucked her the second time we hung out. I did not message her ALL winter break to not seem needy because I told her to let me know when she was back in town. Then when our third date loomed over the horizon trouble happened...
She let me know when she was back in town like I told her to and I immediately tried to make plans with her. We made plans on Sunday for Wednesday evening. Then Tuesday she texts me and brings up this convo about "this guy" that she had mentioned very briefly the night before we had sex...
This is where I should tell you before winter break she literally only talked about this guy for 45-60seconds one time and it was clear to me he was a beta orbiter so I told her I didn't care really what she does when she isn't with me and to focus on us when we are together.
I asked her so, why are you bringing this guy up? I don't understand why you feel the need to bring him up? and she says that he wants her to be in a relationship with him, but she feels "that would be irresponsible with me" and then she told me "don't worry I haven't had sex with him" as if I cared. I told her that I wasn't convinced yet that I wanted a relationship with her, especially after her trying to pit he and I against each other to fight over her, which I explicitly told her then I would NOT do. I also told her that I could see that being a possibility way down the road once we get to know each other better, but definitly not now.
Then she says we should get together and talk then and she wanted to keep our date for Wednesday. Then she messages me Wednesday morning and wants to push back our date from 6 to 7:30 because her mom was in town and she was going somewhere with her or something (our date was just me going over to her house...) Obviously, this is a shit test, but I actually wanted to go later too because the school thing I had before 6 was canceled because of snow. I told her "that is fine, but it wouldn't be rescheduling, only shortening our time together because I have stuff to do after I see you." and she said "ok, but we aren't fucking tonight" and I replied "why test fate? see you tonight" and she replied "ok" and then I show up at 7:40 and text her I am here but she literally ghosts the fuck out of me. I wait outside for about 3 or 4 minutes, call her, no answer. I then get in my car and leave to hangout with a non-sexual friend I called up.
I am just really pissed because I feel like I got got. Like the player had been played. Like I want revenge, but I don't know how. I did think about sending some of her dirty messages and unsolicited dirty pictures she sent me to her family on facebook because I know her mom is super helicopter mom. Can someone tell me if I should try and get revenge? Also can someone please help me see where I went wrong that I don't see.
She let me know when she was back in town like I told her to and I immediately tried to make plans with her. We made plans on Sunday for Wednesday evening. Then Tuesday she texts me and brings up this convo about "this guy" that she had mentioned very briefly the night before we had sex...
This is where I should tell you before winter break she literally only talked about this guy for 45-60seconds one time and it was clear to me he was a beta orbiter so I told her I didn't care really what she does when she isn't with me and to focus on us when we are together.
I asked her so, why are you bringing this guy up? I don't understand why you feel the need to bring him up? and she says that he wants her to be in a relationship with him, but she feels "that would be irresponsible with me" and then she told me "don't worry I haven't had sex with him" as if I cared. I told her that I wasn't convinced yet that I wanted a relationship with her, especially after her trying to pit he and I against each other to fight over her, which I explicitly told her then I would NOT do. I also told her that I could see that being a possibility way down the road once we get to know each other better, but definitly not now.
Then she says we should get together and talk then and she wanted to keep our date for Wednesday. Then she messages me Wednesday morning and wants to push back our date from 6 to 7:30 because her mom was in town and she was going somewhere with her or something (our date was just me going over to her house...) Obviously, this is a shit test, but I actually wanted to go later too because the school thing I had before 6 was canceled because of snow. I told her "that is fine, but it wouldn't be rescheduling, only shortening our time together because I have stuff to do after I see you." and she said "ok, but we aren't fucking tonight" and I replied "why test fate? see you tonight" and she replied "ok" and then I show up at 7:40 and text her I am here but she literally ghosts the fuck out of me. I wait outside for about 3 or 4 minutes, call her, no answer. I then get in my car and leave to hangout with a non-sexual friend I called up.
I am just really pissed because I feel like I got got. Like the player had been played. Like I want revenge, but I don't know how. I did think about sending some of her dirty messages and unsolicited dirty pictures she sent me to her family on facebook because I know her mom is super helicopter mom. Can someone tell me if I should try and get revenge? Also can someone please help me see where I went wrong that I don't see.