hi,
hope you're all doing well, first of all, spare me any lectures on morality, if i pursue a taken girl, it's because she has given me clear signals.
So today I approached a big booty Romanian girl at pret a manger today (its like starbucks but more sandwiches and lunch products), I went in very direct and asked her out for a drink straight away , she smirked and said 'sure'. Then i made an assumption she was italian, cut a long story short, she started making it hard to meet, we bantered back and forth i teased her about being cold like a typical eastern European, she laughed, she said listen i am married with 2 kids, what do you want from me? i said i want you out for a drink, she said " ok so what!"..why", I said because 'i like what i see'. she said 'how do you think a very jealous man with 2 kids would feel if i went out with you?' i replied some bullshit i cant remember. I said whats your name? she said it doesn't matter, by the way, while this is happening we are almost touching each other constantly and she didn't mind pushing her big tits into me during conversation, our faces were very close, I did feel like their was a lot of sexual tension but shes conflicted. she said 'are you married? let me see your fingers', I made a joke, she said "listen i have done this before, guys take my number but i never reply back to them, so there's no point. what will i benefit from if i have a drink with you?". I did not know what to reply here, her frame was so strong, but i'm happy i was so damn persistent. We probably spent 20 minutes standing there in front of her colleagues, going back and forth me trying to convince this chick to come out. when i went for the number (like 3 times!) i said is it because you feel uncomfortable to give it out at work, she replied "not at all, I dont give a shit about anyone". Anyway, the fact she took 20 minutes to play with the idea of meeting up is a good sign, other girls that are not interested will be cut-throat and would have ended the conversation in less than a minute. I think most guys would have quit ages ago, so im happy so far but not enough, anyway her question is a good one, from her perspective there's nothing to gain... what would you say and how would you turn this around? I really felt like she would be down to fuck potentially but obviously a conflict of interest. lastly she said "not today, i dont mind you coming here (pret a manger) every now and then to see me..if you wanna buy something or whatever etc"
This felt like a big cue, like maybe she needs more time..anyway i will go back to see her probably tomorrow but i don't know what my strategy would be, what would be the reason for her coming out? trust me i feel like she was very attracted and physically interested, i just dont know how i should behave when i see her tomorrow ? ditch the number and just try to meet after her shift ends? i tried that, she said no. help would be much appreciated, I feel like in game, sometimes some girls want to be hustled over a longer period of time, but the bang is on their mind, this feels like one of those...what to do? and what would be a good excuse for her to come out or make sense of it in her mind?
P.S.
I have omitted a lot of things said because it would take forever but that was the gist of what happened between us
cheers!
hope you're all doing well, first of all, spare me any lectures on morality, if i pursue a taken girl, it's because she has given me clear signals.
So today I approached a big booty Romanian girl at pret a manger today (its like starbucks but more sandwiches and lunch products), I went in very direct and asked her out for a drink straight away , she smirked and said 'sure'. Then i made an assumption she was italian, cut a long story short, she started making it hard to meet, we bantered back and forth i teased her about being cold like a typical eastern European, she laughed, she said listen i am married with 2 kids, what do you want from me? i said i want you out for a drink, she said " ok so what!"..why", I said because 'i like what i see'. she said 'how do you think a very jealous man with 2 kids would feel if i went out with you?' i replied some bullshit i cant remember. I said whats your name? she said it doesn't matter, by the way, while this is happening we are almost touching each other constantly and she didn't mind pushing her big tits into me during conversation, our faces were very close, I did feel like their was a lot of sexual tension but shes conflicted. she said 'are you married? let me see your fingers', I made a joke, she said "listen i have done this before, guys take my number but i never reply back to them, so there's no point. what will i benefit from if i have a drink with you?". I did not know what to reply here, her frame was so strong, but i'm happy i was so damn persistent. We probably spent 20 minutes standing there in front of her colleagues, going back and forth me trying to convince this chick to come out. when i went for the number (like 3 times!) i said is it because you feel uncomfortable to give it out at work, she replied "not at all, I dont give a shit about anyone". Anyway, the fact she took 20 minutes to play with the idea of meeting up is a good sign, other girls that are not interested will be cut-throat and would have ended the conversation in less than a minute. I think most guys would have quit ages ago, so im happy so far but not enough, anyway her question is a good one, from her perspective there's nothing to gain... what would you say and how would you turn this around? I really felt like she would be down to fuck potentially but obviously a conflict of interest. lastly she said "not today, i dont mind you coming here (pret a manger) every now and then to see me..if you wanna buy something or whatever etc"
This felt like a big cue, like maybe she needs more time..anyway i will go back to see her probably tomorrow but i don't know what my strategy would be, what would be the reason for her coming out? trust me i feel like she was very attracted and physically interested, i just dont know how i should behave when i see her tomorrow ? ditch the number and just try to meet after her shift ends? i tried that, she said no. help would be much appreciated, I feel like in game, sometimes some girls want to be hustled over a longer period of time, but the bang is on their mind, this feels like one of those...what to do? and what would be a good excuse for her to come out or make sense of it in her mind?
P.S.
I have omitted a lot of things said because it would take forever but that was the gist of what happened between us
cheers!