[BostonBMW]

(01-22-2019 02:18 PM)Anchor Wrote:  

(01-21-2019 09:36 PM)BostonBMW Wrote:  

One area that is a concern for me involves letting these females into your condo, showing a high value lifestyle. Maybe I am being paranoid but is there a concern about any potential for extortion, Metoo type scenario or do you screen for that? I guess what I am trying to say is that the more you have, the greater possibility that one of these SA females could try to make a run for your assets. I have to admit this has made me wary of showing too much personal stuff.

You can mitigate this possibility:
- sexy time is never in your bed (first few times)
- you make sure they leave and never spend the night
- you don't let them get too drunk or stoned
- you can always record consent if you're really worried about it
- you follow up with her via text, talking about how much fun it was etc. and when she agrees you screenshot it and save it
They will get the message that this is a FB situation.

Good advice. I am going to have to tweak the formula to make it work for me. I don't get this concerned about a non-SA (maybe I should?) girl because the site is essentially based on financial support. I have no doubt that this puts the fake rape/con artist type in the mix.

[astro]

If you're paranoid, which isn't unreasonable, there are apps to record phone calls and to voice record dates and such. Also cameras (with sound recording) at home. I know in some states it's against the law, but I would bet a lot of money the district attorney wouldn't prosecute if it was evidence that cleared you.

[kinjutsu]

(01-23-2019 01:16 AM)astro Wrote:  

If you're paranoid, which isn't unreasonable, there are apps to record phone calls and to voice record dates and such. Also cameras (with sound recording) at home. I know in some states it's against the law, but I would bet a lot of money the district attorney wouldn't prosecute if it was evidence that cleared you.

You'd be surprised how they would do it just to make a point.

Check local laws because they differ by city/state.
Some places only require one person to know they are being recorded and some place require both people to know but sometimes you can get around that by posting a sign at your front door letting people know they are under video/audio surveillance.

Also to OP and anyone else thinking about recording interactions with women.
3x fucking check she is of age. Screen super hard for it if you are at all unsure of the age she gave you especially the 19-22yr olds. Plenty of girls on online dating sites that shouldn't be there.

Recording the hookup isnt a bad idea but it can get way worse if she isn't old enough AND you record it.

[jbkunt2]

Great post OP.

I make a high income and travel to nice places a lot. I think I could capitalize on this with SA.

There do seem to be a decent amount of hotties on there.

Question... do you ever give out your IG handle to them and if so when?

[DonnyGately]

(01-21-2019 11:41 PM)Max RNR Wrote:  

SA/Seeking is going downhill like all the rest of the dating apps. The 7-9s are moving elsewhere now or on ego trips and just stroking themselves with vibrators, liking their likes, with no connection.

Not remotely true and probably 99% of girls under 26 own vibrators these days. 7s are very easy to get off SA and 9s are hard anywhere but your odds are significantly greater on seek than any other dating app and I've got the explicit photos to prove it. If you're an older man who likes college girls you can't do better.

[BostonBMW]

(01-23-2019 01:16 AM)astro Wrote:  

If you're paranoid, which isn't unreasonable, there are apps to record phone calls and to voice record dates and such. Also cameras (with sound recording) at home. I know in some states it's against the law, but I would bet a lot of money the district attorney wouldn't prosecute if it was evidence that cleared you.

Good point. I'd rather take the hit for illegal recording instead of being classified as rapist. Ending up on the sex offender registry, etc.

I haven't purchased a membership yet, however have started browsing using a generic account. I definitely see some good potential.

I can see a high probably of extortion as well. Fellas, be careful out there, definitely watch your backs.

[treypound]

(01-23-2019 05:41 PM)jbkunt2 Wrote:  

Great post OP.

I make a high income and travel to nice places a lot. I think I could capitalize on this with SA.

There do seem to be a decent amount of hotties on there.

Question... do you ever give out your IG handle to them and if so when?

I haven't, I simply said due to the discretion of my profession, I am not on social media, and it hasn't been an issue. Funny thing is, two of the women I am still seeing shared their IG with me in conversation, and I have been keeping tabs on their adventures, matching it up with what they tell me. One has been completely lying about basically everything, but I keep things in proper perspective. The other seems to be the type who wants to get a bf/future hubby, and was on the site to find financial security.

[Savonarola]

Nice thread. I did SA for one month last May as an experiment. I'm 43.

Results:
15+ numbers
3 meetups
2 bangs

1 of the bangs became my sidegirl for the rest of the year. I mentioned her in some other post recently. She's 21 and doesn't want money. She just wants to be with a younger-looking older man. We both agreed that SA was the wrong place for both of us, though I don't regret meeting her there at all. We've had a really good time together.

Overall, though, I'm soured on the site. Weirdo chicks, obvious gold-diggers, and hookers. MY GOD SO MANY HOOKERS. I was told by the meetup who didn't bang that it was because BackPage had just been shut down and they were all migrating to SA.

Would I do it again? Not anytime soon. It serves its purpose, though. I'll probably go back in a few years. I'm really trying to focus on my career right now and don't need any more distractions.

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Anyone try this in Atlanta? I’m a 28 year old cat tryna holler at more dimes.