0 days on Seeking - my observations
01-21-2019, 06:40 AM
I know there's a somewhat dated thread in the Newbie section on the website Seeking a.k.a SA, but I wanted to share some observations from signing up for a 1 month membership. Let me share some details that lead up to this:
1. I recently experienced a loss in my family which provided an unexpected windfall via life insurance as well as the sale of two properties left to me
2. I was considering relocating prior to that loss, but ultimately last Fall I posted on here about it, and decided to settle down in Houston, TX, where I purchased a hi rise condo downtown and closed on it after Christmas.
3. During the month of December, I signed up for a month subscription to Seeking, as I had heard and read about the site, but wanted to see for myself what I could pipeline in my new city, with no intention of entering any type of provider/SD relationship.
I am a mid 30s (36 next month) fit black guy, with a track record of pulling women from all races. Downtown Houston from my visits had a growing population of hot 7s-9s and a solid economy, decent nightlife, and pro sports teams.
The results/observations are below:
- I posted 4 photos, 2 showing off my body indirectly (1 playing basketball a buddy took for me with my phone, the other a female friend took for me in the gym), 1 photo at a dinner wearing a nice blazer/shirt, and 1 of me in the lounge of an airport indirectly showing off wealth (Rolex)
- The text was short and to the point. I shared (summarizing) that I was new to the city but not to the game. I was not looking to financially support a woman, however was interested in meeting beautiful women who had the desire for more, or who were seeking to experience an incredible 2019. I noticed by just mentioning that you could share in what I was already doing was hooking solid 8s and a few 9s (3).
- Any woman who in their profile lists I rather not say under children has at least 2. I had 14 women over 30 days message me with that in their profile, and when I asked directly, that was the reply. I followed up with 1 as a potential plate
- I had more incoming messages from white women than any other, which was surprising. Black women were curious, but I could tell some were skeptical of my profile. White women and Latinas were open to communicating, and after 3 to 4 messages, agreed to set up a meet. Meetings were agreed upon were happy hours for drinks during the middle of the week (Tues-Thurs). Never a Fri-Sun. I always set the stage that I usually had a 2 hour window we could meet.
- 17 meetings/dates were set, 10 were kept, 4 were closed. Of the 6 that weren't closed, 3 were expecting some pay per meet or money upfront even after I told them in our prior communication that wasn't going down. 1 of the 6 flakes wanted a guy she could move in with (literally), as she had just relocated from San Francisco, and was staying with a friend. When that topic surfaced, and I told her that wasn't an option, she made up some b.s and I never heard from her.
- Of the 4 that closed, the average bill for drinks with them was $59.00. That was drinks for 1-2 hours for both of us. The very first 1 we ended up staying and eating at the bar of a hotel restaurant, so that went up over $100 (rookie mistake). The others were all limited to 2-3 drinks max.
- Logistics was huge. I set up the meetings within 1 mile of my new place, and usually 24 hours ahead of our date/meeting, I dropped the hint that I had just moved in to the sexiest new condo in the city, followed by a pic of the view from my living room. With each of the 4 that closed (and the 1 who wanted to move in), they all asked IOI on the place, in which after we left - I suggested to the 4 to stop by to take a look at what I had done to decorate the place*
Overall, I spent about 1 hour a day replying to messages or sending messages to women. There are a LOT of scams/flakes on that site, and you have to screen well. There are also a lot of hookers looking for clients, and 1 almost tricked me into a meet.
The $90 invested I broke down to $3/day to quickly filter and msg 7-9's who I was interested in connecting. As I type this there are still some who I sent messages 2 weeks ago that have just hit me back, as they are returning to the city for college for the Spring Semester.
Interested in the groups thoughts, and will answer anything I can. I am nowhere near a master at game, but if you guys move to a new city (especially one with over 1M population), I recommend trying this out if you aren't a newbie to game.
1. I recently experienced a loss in my family which provided an unexpected windfall via life insurance as well as the sale of two properties left to me
2. I was considering relocating prior to that loss, but ultimately last Fall I posted on here about it, and decided to settle down in Houston, TX, where I purchased a hi rise condo downtown and closed on it after Christmas.
3. During the month of December, I signed up for a month subscription to Seeking, as I had heard and read about the site, but wanted to see for myself what I could pipeline in my new city, with no intention of entering any type of provider/SD relationship.
I am a mid 30s (36 next month) fit black guy, with a track record of pulling women from all races. Downtown Houston from my visits had a growing population of hot 7s-9s and a solid economy, decent nightlife, and pro sports teams.
The results/observations are below:
- I posted 4 photos, 2 showing off my body indirectly (1 playing basketball a buddy took for me with my phone, the other a female friend took for me in the gym), 1 photo at a dinner wearing a nice blazer/shirt, and 1 of me in the lounge of an airport indirectly showing off wealth (Rolex)
- The text was short and to the point. I shared (summarizing) that I was new to the city but not to the game. I was not looking to financially support a woman, however was interested in meeting beautiful women who had the desire for more, or who were seeking to experience an incredible 2019. I noticed by just mentioning that you could share in what I was already doing was hooking solid 8s and a few 9s (3).
- Any woman who in their profile lists I rather not say under children has at least 2. I had 14 women over 30 days message me with that in their profile, and when I asked directly, that was the reply. I followed up with 1 as a potential plate
- I had more incoming messages from white women than any other, which was surprising. Black women were curious, but I could tell some were skeptical of my profile. White women and Latinas were open to communicating, and after 3 to 4 messages, agreed to set up a meet. Meetings were agreed upon were happy hours for drinks during the middle of the week (Tues-Thurs). Never a Fri-Sun. I always set the stage that I usually had a 2 hour window we could meet.
- 17 meetings/dates were set, 10 were kept, 4 were closed. Of the 6 that weren't closed, 3 were expecting some pay per meet or money upfront even after I told them in our prior communication that wasn't going down. 1 of the 6 flakes wanted a guy she could move in with (literally), as she had just relocated from San Francisco, and was staying with a friend. When that topic surfaced, and I told her that wasn't an option, she made up some b.s and I never heard from her.
- Of the 4 that closed, the average bill for drinks with them was $59.00. That was drinks for 1-2 hours for both of us. The very first 1 we ended up staying and eating at the bar of a hotel restaurant, so that went up over $100 (rookie mistake). The others were all limited to 2-3 drinks max.
- Logistics was huge. I set up the meetings within 1 mile of my new place, and usually 24 hours ahead of our date/meeting, I dropped the hint that I had just moved in to the sexiest new condo in the city, followed by a pic of the view from my living room. With each of the 4 that closed (and the 1 who wanted to move in), they all asked IOI on the place, in which after we left - I suggested to the 4 to stop by to take a look at what I had done to decorate the place*
Overall, I spent about 1 hour a day replying to messages or sending messages to women. There are a LOT of scams/flakes on that site, and you have to screen well. There are also a lot of hookers looking for clients, and 1 almost tricked me into a meet.
The $90 invested I broke down to $3/day to quickly filter and msg 7-9's who I was interested in connecting. As I type this there are still some who I sent messages 2 weeks ago that have just hit me back, as they are returning to the city for college for the Spring Semester.
Interested in the groups thoughts, and will answer anything I can. I am nowhere near a master at game, but if you guys move to a new city (especially one with over 1M population), I recommend trying this out if you aren't a newbie to game.
