Quote: (01-12-2019 12:20 PM)UlugBeg Wrote:
Meet a girl through a work-related connection. We got along great, went out and had fun. However, I had a friend drop off a little box of candy for her at work. She got pissy and texted me it wasn’t appropriate at work and she didn’t know me that well. (&10 gift). So I stopped all contact with her.
About a month later, a mutual friend said she’s asking about me. I then ran into her a couple of times. She’s been really friendly and I feel we could maybe start again. I do like her. But her reaction to the little gift seemed way out of proportion.
Move on or try again?
Are you really asking the forum "move on or try again"? Really? Are you like 18 years old?
I can understand when people ask questions here to get closer to potential sex. But you really ask the forum members for advice whether you should continue or not?
When it comes to finding a life partner, in my opinion you definitely shouldn't ask strangers on the internet. Why would you?? Do they know you? Did they know what exactly happened? I have no idea why people ask such questions when it comes to finding mister/miss right. Surely nobody here can help. Maybe some can give you some general advice, but without knowing A LOT more about you and the whole context, feedback here can't be very valuable.
The internet has great potential, but unless the technology changes (from text to mind-reading etc), to ask your question here is a waste of time. In the end you will do whatever you want anyway.
p.s. my feedback to your story: why should you be interested in such a retarded woman who says it's inappropriate to receive a gift at the workplace? What the hell.
Ah and when reading some of the answers from other forum members here on this topic, like "Girls reaction is actually normal." I must say, damn, what the hell. Like sheeps who follow the social norm.
Maybe I am just too old for such childish topics.