I have noticed women I’ve dated or slept with have viewed my dread as me being angry, upset or butthurt. For example, this week I talked with two women I used to date and sleep with. Both of them said “You hate me” in our normal conversation. The back story with them is that when they start to misbehave I dread them and stop talking to them. I’ll usially just cut the cord and walk away and date other women. Then a few months will pass and I’ll run into them and say “we should hang out” and they are shocked and think I hate them. What am I doing wrong here?
Another girl I dated for a few months. She was giving me the run around on actually meeting up so when she would text me I would respond but never ask to hang out. Then she stopped texting me. Last night I saw her and she said “you hate me” even though I was being mellow and playful. I didn’t allow her to waste my time and walked away and now she has an opinion that I must have been super butthurt.
Another girl I dated for a few months. She was giving me the run around on actually meeting up so when she would text me I would respond but never ask to hang out. Then she stopped texting me. Last night I saw her and she said “you hate me” even though I was being mellow and playful. I didn’t allow her to waste my time and walked away and now she has an opinion that I must have been super butthurt.