How Important is a White Wingman for Non-White/Non-Black guys?
11-11-2018, 12:27 PM
I don't think any of these gimmicks make that much of a difference if she is not attracted to you in the first place. A lot of times these girls may be nicer to you and entertain speaking with you for the sole purpose of keeping your wingman around but at the end of the night, attraction speaks above all else.
I see these kinds of thread come up so much that I am going offer a guide to all minorities out there who want to do well with prime white girls, take note and thank me later.
I've done alright with these types and while I did mix with some white guys who were socially well connected, I've pulled these types of girls from dating apps as well. My success rate is higher with non-WASPy white women but I do not mind one bit, good pussy is good pussy.
First off, the reality is that prime white women care more about looks and appearances than any other ethnicity out there.
Ethnic guys struggle with them because most ethnic men are not necessarily the best looking. You might get the rare Indian, Asian, Middle Eastern or Hispanic guy who is tall and chiseled, those guys are not talking about how tough it is to pull white girls. Women of other cultures might be more forgiving of a chubby guy or a less attractive dude, prime white women are not.
Most do not care that much for how rich you are, if that was the case then Indian doctors would be marrying tall hot suburban blondes all day long but we all know that isn't common. Prime white women care more for looks than any other group out there, not even "strong game" in most cases will overcome it unless you have some status and serious social proof but even then, the better looking guy will win. Most white girls do not need a sugar daddy, they come from well off families, having parents that spoil them and fund their sugar daddy lifestyle. How much you make, your job title (unless its something cool like bartender, DJ or model photographer) and how well you can speak rarely matter that much, it is all about
They're not going for the dorky STEM white guy, there is a reason most of those guys end up having to date Asian women. At least with Asian and ethnic women, dorkier white guys have a selling point of having blue eyes and can capitalize on the colonialism mindset these women have. Even the white guys that prime white girls go for are top notch in terms of looks whether or not they have their life together elsewhere. We all know exceptions to the rule but they are rare exceptions, this is the reality. Looks and cool factor matter above all else if you want to game prime white women.
Now I've known ethnic guys, including Indian men, who did well with prime white women.
Here are some of the things they had in common.
At least 5'10 or taller and in great shape.
Almost all the Indian guys I knew who were doing well with the type were on the taller end. I will go farther than that and say most of them were over 6 ft tall and in amazing shape. Look at your competition, very likely its a tall white guy with an athletic body and chiseled face due to having low body fat, that's who you are up against. Why would she pick you over that guy?
Very much the opposite of the typical ethnic guy in terms of attitude.
Irrationally confident, brash, outspoken and the take shit from no one mentality. In many ways they were the brown version of the douchebag frat boy stereotype, a lot of them even grew up around these types of guys and naturally had them as friends. Prime white women eat that irrationally confident douchebag vibe up like crazy, it arouses them once the physical attraction is there. You won't see too many of these guys posting threads like these, no offense OP.
They just "get it" in terms of understanding the world she comes from. They're relatable.
They don't see themselves as "ethnic guys" trying to "game white girls", they see themselves as guys trying to game girls they find hot. In many ways, they aren't that different compared to the guys she is normally around. A lot of them understand her need to party, get wasted, get drunk and not to take her seriously. They traveled around, have booming social media accounts and likely run with the kinds of crew (younger whites) she is friends with.
Even if you cannot get young white friends or mix with those social circles, things like a booming social media account showing value and a better understand of the kind of world she comes from will do wonders. You have to be able to tease her and not take her seriously as well as present values in your pics and social media profiles that scream you get it, it screams that you're "in".
Here is one final word about prime white girls, don't take them seriously, ever.
Do not get philosophical with them or try to have an intellectual conversation there. Talk to them as you would talk to a kid at a daycare center, that is the personality of a young white girl. Make one liners, act dumb and leave your whole race bullshit at the door. She does not give a damn about your struggles, SOB stories and life experiences, she is just looking for one adrenaline rush after another in life.
Here are things you can do if you don't fit any of the requirements above.
1. Get a cool job in the area and get status that way, maybe its ski instructor, maybe its a DJ or maybe its a bartender, who knows what it is. Shut out the noises telling you that you are selling out for pussy, if you want it bad enough then make the changes and stop pondering.
2. Take a trip to a really white part of the country and run game there, you'll fare better there than the "diverse" cities where there is more division. Your race might carry some value there and you might have a lot more success if you are one of the very few brown guys in the area, better keep voting for the right wing while you're at it because it only takes a given number of refugees in a city to lower your value.
3. Run social circle game. I have no idea how this works, not much at least but try to be the guy that adds value and other successful white guys want to be around.