[Barney]

Grew up with strict parents where dating was implicitly discouraged. Never dated in my teens. Led to despair, depression, and anxiety. Teens turned into twenties and so on. Anxiety got worse. Throughout all the years hoped that it would magically somehow fix itself but it never did because I never really put myself out there. Considered myself a failure in my early twenties already and the older I got the burden got worse and worse and so did the depression and anxiety.

Right now I wouldn't even know where to begin even if a dozen models wanted to go out with me. They would realize within seconds how broken and clueless I am. Fuck this modern dating market. It's all pointless. It's too late. The ship has sailed. Fuck it all. I don't even feel comfortable being touched by people. Some people just don't fit into this world, and I'm one of them.

Fuck off with your instagram, tinder, social circle game weightlifting bullshit trying to hookup with this generation of 9volt-battery-brained twenty somethings who fuck 150 men by the time they're thirty and come looking for guys like me when they're diseased, washed up, single mothers.

How the fuck do you guys even bother with women these days? Are there any normal women out there? Are they even capable of bonding with a man after their 100th partner who they can order like pizza from one of their many dating apps? Most men are invisible to women, and men are more expendable than ever. 100 women would rather share 1 man than find a good husband to have kids with. Society is swirling down the shitter as we speak. Have you guys resigned yourselves to a life of quick hook ups with unmarriageable fuckups? What has this world come to? Marriage or even committed relationships are meaningless. I refuse to be someone's provider. Fuck that. Never. I will never invest a penny into any women when they give it away for free to the most despicable men. Not even a drink. Not even a first date coffee.

Roast away...

[Turnus]

With all due respect sir, you need to work on yourself before you can even begin thinking about attracting and dating someone else. Let's start there

[PremiumBeefCut]

Start by directing the blame and the hate toward the real culprit: your mother.

[Barney]

(11-24-2018 03:19 PM)Turnus Wrote:  

With all due respect sir, you need to work on yourself before you can even begin thinking about attracting and dating someone else. Let's start there

I'm not against self improvement at all, but with all due respect sir I've heard this work on yourself bullshit for 20 years and it only seems to apply to men. Fucked up broken women (aka your average modern woman) live happy lives being the broken failures that they are. And yet I'm worthless? How the hell does this not breed resentment?

[Deepdiver]

LOL I Joined the Service as an 18 Year Old Virgin - got a little stinky finger and some nippleage but no solid bangs.

Graduated A School on Mare Island in Vallejo Californication... Became a push button junior NCO...
to celebrate a Buddy Offered to buy me drinks that night at the NCO Club E4s and up at the time and I got Blue Faced on Cunt Drinks - I think Cherry Brandy and Cokes all sugar and alcohol. Long before my Victory Cigar and Scotch days. Anyways I had a legal beater car and as I was barely compos mentis he offered to drive us down to the infamous MacArthur Blvd in Oakland CA before the days of Herpes and HIV - still had to wrap it ... the Blvd was about 3 miles long with a wide center divider planted with Trees and a wide range of shop fronts and a few Motel Notells. Every doorway had either a black chick with blonde hair - blondes and redheads and quite a few College girls working for their tuition and rent. My first Official Suck and a Phuck cost $25 and straight screw was only $20 back then... was so drunk could not get it up so she sucked me off for about forever and then I ate her out and my buddy drove us back to the base and I woke up in my bunk hung over like I had been run over - car keys were in my open locker and looked out at the parking lot and at least it was legally parked.

I had a mouthfull of Cunt hairs in my teeth and vaseline all over my face then remembered short slivers of the drunken night before.

My next bang was a cute babe I danced with at the NCO Club one night she was 21 and I was only 19 but told her I was 20 - this one was a no-cost hot sexy slim chick bang from Alameda just wanted to dance and bang on the Navy Base... From then on I had broke my cherry - knew how the bits fit and became a natural over the next couple years...

So Moral of the Story is to use professional ladies of the night when you are too young or too old to know what you are doing anymore. In between just perfect your game and slay on.

[chicane]

(11-24-2018 02:51 PM)Barney Wrote:  

How the fuck do you guys even bother with women these days? Are there any normal women out there? Are they even capable of bonding with a man after their 100th partner who they can order like pizza from one of their many dating apps? Most men are invisible to women, and men are more expendable than ever. 100 women would rather share 1 man than find a good husband to have kids with. Society is swirling down the shitter as we speak. Have you guys resigned yourselves to a life of quick hook ups with unmarriageable fuckups? What has this world come to? Marriage or even committed relationships are meaningless. I refuse to be someone's provider. Fuck that. Never. I will never invest a penny into any women when they give it away for free to the most despicable men. Not even a drink. Not even a first date coffee.

Roast away...

The dating scene has changed dramatically in the last 40 years. In 1980 a guy just needed to be fairly nice and ask girls out to have some success. Maybe not rolling in pussy, but able to get dates and get laid. I know I was far less polished then and far less physically attractive, but I managed. Today, I have had to give up. American women are nasty cunts and most of them are overweight with bad attitudes.

I was serious when I said Toastmasters. Learning how to speak well is extremely valuable in life. Physical improvement is a good thing as well, if you don't want to lift weights, pick some activity with a serious physical element such as rock climbing, windsurfing, kitesurfing of something else that is more strength than cardio.

If you don't have a Passport, get one. Make some trips to Eastern Europe or Asia. The costs there are much lower. Get a TESOL or TEFL certificate and go teach English abroad.

I do hear what you are saying and I agree with you, it really sucks out there.