[Rhyme or Reason]

(01-10-2017 03:44 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

(01-10-2017 03:33 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  

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It's the most inane verbiage that proliferates the minds of young females.

Right up there with "It is what it is"

And, "It's all good."

I gotta say I have extra disdain for 'it is what it is' because it doesn't say anything.

The 'it's all good' line can be said to some effect, like if the waiter drops a tray on the floor or something. But "it is what it is" simply has no impact at all. It says literally nothing.

[debeguiled]

It says what it says.

[WomenLuvDeez]

(01-10-2017 03:46 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

Or, "You only YOLO once, so start killing it."

fuckin hell, I hate that YOLO shit.

[Rhyme or Reason]

^ Bump of the year, right there.

[Flux]

They trust their female nature with their lives. They don't philosophize.

On the other hand, women tend to regret a lot more than men do... Their nature and their logical brains are rarely in sync, unlike men, who can understand their own nature with logic. Women don't know consciously why they make decisions, they just feel it's the right one.

I think everything does happen for a reason though. Maybe they know subconsciously they're too damaged to find prince charming, and they're okay with that.

People get what they think they deserve. Love is not easy to accept, and it's not really a gift; it comes with responsibility.

[66Scorpio]

"Everything happens for a reason" is usually interpreted in a fatalistic fashion such that the universe is trying to teach you something or move you towards some destiny that you have. It is the same underlying philosophy about whether something is "meant to be", particularly when girls will talk about you being "meant to be together".

My interpretation is that things happen and then we as humans find meaning in our experiences after the fact. People ultimately have a choice, and many happenings are the result of previous choices rather than random events or the will of the gods.

" It is what it is" is a cautionary to people who flip out emotionally at a bad situation. Alternatively, it is an expression that a situation is far from ideal but still manageable. It's classic stoicism. There are problems but they will be overcome and there is no point in complaining about it.

"It's all good" is generally a euphemism for "it's not all bad" or that it is resolved with a net positive.

[Cr33pin]

(01-06-2017 10:03 PM)YoungBlade Wrote:  

I know, it's (((Amy Schumer))), but this the mindset them have. Women don't use philosophical reasoning, they use feelings which is rooted in solipsism.

The title of that video......

[Steve McQueen]

Call me niaive but l kinda believe this. I'm of the belief that there is a God, and that my life has occurred at this point in time for a purpose. Probably why its been such a killer subject with the wimmens when discussed, l believe so l can talk for hours as to why. If you'd disagree l wonder why? Who cares if you believe its all one big void and life is an accident? Why even bring it up?

[Freebird Flying]

"Everything happens for a reason"

I think that it's a good line to put into your game at some point.

Like, it's really funny how I just met you. I was just walking by earlier and then I noticed you looked like my Grandma. I had to come meet you.

Then later when you're on a date or back at your apartment, "everything happens for a reason" I think it's good for helping to establish plausible deniability for girls. Maybe that's why they like it so much. It takes the accountability off of them for what happens.

Hmm...Attract, Comfort or Seduction phase for this line? I like it on the date or at the close location, but I think it can also work on the opener.

[questor70]

Women may be irrational but humans in general are still rational creatures. We look for meaning (keyword look for). We tend to draw a hell of a lot more false conclusions than real ones, but we're all constantly trying to draw those conclusions.

Men tend to come at life with more of a "life is what you make it attitude" rather than a "someday my prince will come" attitude. That doesn't change the fact that any one of us could die in car accident or mysteriously get diagnosed with late stage cancer. So it's not true that can make the future happen by just following the right steps, just that you're far more likely to get what you want when you work towards it strategically rather than just sitting on your ass wishing for the universe to provide it the way women are predisposed to do.