Quote: (10-12-2018 06:14 PM)66Scorpio Wrote:
Unless something truly tectonic has shifted, the numbers being thrown about the thread are with overestimations. The NHSR036 from the CDC is probably the best data and methodoligy out there, albeit the numbers are basically a decade old at this point.
In the study roughly half of college-age women had one sex partner in the previous 12 months and maybe 5% had 4+. Among women age 20-24 less than 8% had notch counts of 15+
While not everybody goes to college, the overall numbers don't suport the idea that anecdotes of racking up 5 or 10 notches a year are anything but outliers. Even in the age of swipe apps, a five or ten fold increase is not credible.
There are a few factors that give this impression. One is that slutty girls and player-type guys seem more common due to their conspicuousness, like airplane crashes or mass shootings.
Secondly, it's not unlikely that the people you hang around with will have similar n-counts by and large so it seems like everyone is fucking everyone die to the particiular crowd you are part of.
Third and most interesting is the implication in the data that slutty girls are a smaller percentage of the population than slutty guys, but slutty girls fuck way more than slutty guys. There are certain remarkable cases of guys with triple digit counts or more but we all know that any half decent looking girls who set her mind to it could have a new partner each week for years in end. My points here are that you have probably fucked one or more really slutty girls, of you have fucked lots of girls the many or most are slutty, and even of you have a modest notch count you have probably encountered one it more women with really high n-counts.
Since this thread got a bump, I will jump in and second/third/fourth this statement. I can assure you that there is a subpopulation in almost any stastical population that has very high numbers of sexual partners. However, there is also a subpopulation that has a very low (or no) sexual partners. The size of those populations, both generally and in relation to one another will vary by location (and many, many other factors).
Guys that study and practice game are going to be exposed to girls that trend towards that first group. Part of game (go for the yes, IOIs, etc.) is dedicated to pursuing women who are making themselves obviously sexually available. That is basic.
I think a lot of men fail to realize that there are, in fact, groups of very sexually conservative/sexually selective women. Perhaps this is due to either studying game and not practicing it or having little variance in real world experience with women. In other words, if you always hit on club sluts, that is your only frame of reference. Other women exist. Incidentally, I'm not speaking specifically of anyone on the forum. This problem, however, is a serious concern on some of the more Black Pill areas of the internet.
Brass tacks. Most women past their early 20s are not virgins. Most women past their early 20s haven't slept with 100+ guys. Or 50+. Or 25+. As has been pointed out, you can run the math on this. I have. Guys who are claiming that many, if not most, women are triple-digit megasluts (cough, RSD, cough) run in to what we like to call the Phantom Cock Incongruity. Either most men would also have very large notch counts, or a select few men would have absolutely monumental notch counts. I'm talking about numbers so large that theses men would have to dedicate the better portion of every day, every week, every month, and every year of their adult lives to screwing new women. Male pornstars who have worked for decades do not hit the kind of numbers required by the math on that one.
