[kimura89]

Currently in the Philippines (Manila), for a few weeks. This is my second time here in the past 12 months as part of a wider travel itinerary. TL;DR warning but would appreciate if the seasoned Philippines guys could shed some light here. As my self esteem is almost non existent right now.

I met this bargirl last time I was here, she was keen to bang and letting me do her for free after she finished work but at the time I had an early flight the next day so declined. But we kept in touch, I jokingly proposed a threesome when we meet next and to my surprise she was game. So I asked her to find a girl. She had a "neighbour" who was a freelancer prostitute who would do it for 1,000 Pesos. I didn't have the time to go through online game to find a normal partner so I agreed just for the experience.

So we agreed to just hang out at my apartment last night. They both arrive and everything seems normal , though they seemed agitated as it took them a few hours to get here (and I got texts asking for 400 pesos for a 1km ride, I just ordered them a Grab on my credit card instead).

So we're in my room and the bargirl is all over me, but the prostitute just doesn't seem into it. Doesn't want to take her clothes off and then says she'll only give head, I just told her to leave if that's the case. Her and the bargirl seem to have a deep and meaningful discussion in Tagalog and she goes. I bang the bargirl, she's getting crazy texts from the prostitute saying she still wants the 1000P. I send her home to take care of her friend so she leaves, not before getting another text saying they need cash to get home they don't have enough, so I ordered them another Grab. But their destination is to go to some club.

My immediate thoughts are "I just got rejected by a hooker", in the Philippines no less, and she was about a 5/10. For context I have absolutely no trouble getting laid here like anyone else, and even back home I've had cute girlfriends and girls interested in me , I got 4 notches in the last few weeks here with minimal effort from cuter girls, thousands of matches online and the usual eye fucking from girls when I'm out and about. So it doesn't make sense to me.

Anyone have any thoughts on this? Did I legit get knocked back by a hooker, or was this just dodgy from the outset?

[RDF]

You tried to set up a threesome and it didn't work out. Shit happens, maybe 1000 pesos wasn't enough (on that note, you shouldn't discuss P4P here), maybe she's just BPD, or maybe something else.

If you've gotten 4 notches in the past few weeks with cute girls, why does this even matter?Charge it to the game and move on.

[kimura89]

I just have issues about the way I look I guess. And getting rejected by a hooker doesn't really help with that, when I pushed the other girl for an answer as to why she left, she said "she thinks you're cute but not as attractive as the other guys she sees at the bars". Not sure if it's bullshit or not, or if it was a money thing.

[yankeetravels]

Threesomes don't always work out here. It's an easier place for women but not easy to the point a threesome will fall in your lap automatically lol. Without going into p4p details, my guess at what happened here was that you didn't make it clear in advance that you weren't going to pay for anything other than covering a Grab for the girls. That's particularly important when dealing with bar girls, which my advice would be to avoid in the first place with plenty of normal women available.

Bar girl, other girl, or both probably thought you would be willing to pay for the time. Don't sweat it though man. I tried to set up a threesome a couple of times in that country (though not with bar girls in any circumstance) and there's usually one girl that's less down to get involved with her friend in the room. If they're not bi or lesbians, it can still be a tough sell. I've been rejected a couple times for a threesome and usually just end up hooking up with the more keen/better looking of the girls. Best thing to do is just remember you're still in a pretty friendly place for another opportunity, shake it off to the game, and try another girl next time.

[kimura89]

Thanks , there was a payment agreed though beforehand for the girls friend - 1,000P. And no payment for the girl I actually ended up banging.

[MongolianAbroad]

(07-06-2018 07:57 PM)kimura89 Wrote:  

Thanks , there was a payment agreed though beforehand for the girls friend - 1,000P. And no payment for the girl I actually ended up banging.

I don't do P4P, but you paid almost $1000 for the plane ticket or whatnot, then paid $20 for the girls.

Seems ass backwards.

My bad, you're Australian, much shorter flight.

Still.

But yeah, forum's not a P4P forum, you can get banned for these posts.