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Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick....
07-06-2018, 03:19 AM
I would not dispense advice - you should know that women are perfect the way they are.
Let her run free like the wind - like a strong independent Hippie woman.
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07-06-2018, 05:38 AM
Mostly I'm more concerned with how hard you dropped the ball on your thread title.
So much potential here, and you went with: "Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick...."
Sigh.
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Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick....
07-06-2018, 07:37 AM
She is gaming you.
You are in her rotation.
You clearly saw that some loser fucked her on her period and you were next. After you there's the other loser who she put in her carousel.
It doesn't matter what we all say here...it all matters what you want and how much you value yourself.
If you see yourself as the next guy in her rotation go for it if it makes you happy/satisfied.
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Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick....
07-07-2018, 04:25 AM
Did you throw your condom in the trash for the next guy to see and have the same reaction as you?
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07-07-2018, 09:09 AM
My datapoints are limited but I'm starting to think most women, at least women who live alone, are lazy slobs. They just clean up before allowing a guy into their place, and afterwards it just immediately goes to shit again. So it's not so much the mess that's the red-flag, as that's par for the course, but the decision on her part not to bother cleaning up. (Some of the horror stories I hear about guys living (platonically) with female roommates destroy the Three's Company tittilation of that fantasy over the slob-factor.)
To be fair, most guys are the same with a bachelor pad, but women are (or were) the traditional homemakers and we expect them to be more into keeping the home looking nice.
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Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick....
07-07-2018, 11:27 PM
Quote: (07-05-2018 03:26 PM)articulatecool Wrote:
So her house was not very clean, and she appeared to have borderline hoarding disorder. Finally, we get to her bedroom and she made me wait outside the room so she could tidy up. I finally walked in, and the room was STILL pretty messy, with clothes everywhere and a bunch of wine glasses on her nightstand and supplements everywhere. It was dark and she insisted the lights stay off so I couldn't see exactly what was everywhere.
Fast forward to about 20 mins later, I went into the bathroom to wash up and looked to toss the used condom. In the wastebasket, I see SEVERAL bloody used condoms.
Nasty, wth is she running there.
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07-08-2018, 12:22 AM
Were you articulate and cool around her?
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Field Report: Slept with an older hippie/yoga chick....
07-08-2018, 05:01 AM
Why not just simply tell her ?
If i was you I would tell her how shocked you are , word for word , like you told us.