Quote: (01-27-2019 09:19 PM)Green-On-GO Wrote:
Chicks pick up on aspie and autism way more than dudes..It doesn't matter how good looking the dude is chicks are mercilessly cruel to them.Unless its family.
Confirmed. If a female, especially a Western(ized) female spots something off about you, she will keep digging and twisting her finger into that psychic wound for as long as you let her. Remember that men evolved to attack our problems physically whereas women evolved to attack their problems psycho-emotionally. This is why females bullying each other in high school looks different from males bullying each other in the same environment. Male bullies tend to physically assault their victims whereas female bullies attack the reputations, self-esteem, etc. of their victims by trashing them on social media, spreading malicious rumors about them, and so on as swell as, like happened to me when I was growing up, mocking and insulting male victims in front of others because they know that the male victims are prohibited from physically stopping them and said victims are also, for whatever reason, not as good as they are at the social manipulation game and so cannot turn the crowd to their side.
I got bullied constantly growing up myself but the females were the most cruel and vicious because they utilized the male bullies to attack me and, unlike the males (whom I also usually was prohibited from striking due to the utterly retarded "zero tolerance policy" on violence in the school system I grew up in - I still broke one guy's nose with a headbutt in the bathroom but I got concussed in that fight and I lost more fights than I one), I was socially forbidden from laying so much as a finger on them but they would never be punished for their behavior because they were not being physically violent directly (though they manipulated the males into inflicting violence on me). Males evolved to beat the hell out of our problems. Females evolved to manipulate males into beating the hell out of their problems.
In adulthood, male bullying gets controlled to a great degree by laws and things of that sort but female bullying, due to its usually non-physical nature, is not and so female bullies go their whole lives without ever being checked. They get used to behaving in the same awful way they did growing up and just carry it into whatever grown-up space they decide to insert themselves into. I have even reduced (to the point of ceasing) communication with at least one of my close female relatives because they have a habit of putting me down in front of other people and, since I obviously can't just backhand them, my response is to cut ties and direct my time and energy into a direction that is less likely to upset me.
The quantity and caliber of negative experience I've had in my own case has made me pretty much impervious to female criticism because, nowadays, I genuinely don't take them seriously until I have already established at least some rapport with them. There is virtually nothing bad that a female can say or do to me within the confines of the law that has not been said or done already and I am just not reactive to it anymore in the way that I was when I was younger and less experienced. So why should I be put off by their harsh words or manipulation as if it were something new that I haven't already encountered before? Further, why would I waste time on a terrible female when I could just move on and have another girl who isn't insufferable, such as one of my plates, keep me company instead? This realization brings serenity.
This is one more reason, as if we needed another one, to not care what women say or think and not take them seriously. Referring back to
some rules I mentioned a while back, have a clear set of rules and boundaries that you will not tolerate her crossing. This gives her reason to respect you while also giving you a way to measure when it is not worth it anymore and you should just ditch her.
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I think if you think you are aspie get into some kind of art form like dance, painting, acting ,comedy,photography etc etc..Develop passion for beauty instead of robot like passion for numbers and objects.
I think the artistic side of pick up is ignored with concentration on looks lift and cash..The other type of guy wildly successful is the artistic dude. Combine lifting looks maxing and cash with artistic hobbies.
I use to go to comedy nights and I picked up a few times..young chicks..I thought it was cause I was cool alpha etc etc..I see now it was because I had passion for stand up comedy and talked with passion on the subject..I was passionate about the art I loved it..
So to round yourself out if you are failing take up an artistic passion in my opinion.You got to radiate out whether you are good looking or not.
Now look at all the big daygamers..It seems they all have a art form or pretend.EG..BEING A MUSICIAN..being a photographer....Most have IG with some kind of art form pic.
This is solid advice. Utilize that singular weirdo focus to get really good at something. Find a niche to make yourself a heavy hitter in. You can also leverage the robotic passion for numbers and objects to deconstruct skills like drawing and playing an instrument so as to learn them faster and more efficiently, as in Tim Ferriss' DiSSS (deconstruction, selection, sequencing, and stakes) and MED (Minimum Effective Dose) methods of rapid skill acquisition.