Quote: (05-24-2018 04:55 PM)General Stalin Wrote:
Quote: (05-24-2018 04:00 PM)nola Wrote:
At what point did I say I think a woman can or could be perfect out of the box.?
You're inferring this by making it clear that you think it is pointless to try to address and correct any bad behavior:
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Why? what's the point.? why address it?
Do you have a "Take it or leave it" mindset when it comes to women?
Quote: (05-24-2018 04:00 PM)nola Wrote:
You ask what I'd do in this situation.?
I asked what you would do if you're with a girl that did something you didn't like. Not what you would do in OP's exact situation of a girl talking about her ex.
Quote: (05-24-2018 04:00 PM)nola Wrote:
If I ever felt the need to train a women it's inevitable in my case that I'd cut her loose.
Sounds to me you are not long-term relationship minded or at least have unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship looks like.
Thats not a bad thing, but it's also no relevant to OP's issue.
When you spin plates or just bang girls casually here and there, then it is very easy to dismiss a girl for seemingly innocuous shit like cussing at the dinner table or bringing up stories about her old bangs, or vice versa; overlooking those things because you don't care about your investment in this girl down-the-road.
I addressed all these points in full in my last post. Also I just gave an opposing perspective to yours.
We don't know the full extent of the OP's investment in this girl.
One point I'll address is whether I'm relationship minded or not. I'd say I don't seek the idealism of full control over a females statements around me. Then again I really don't read deeply into much of anything a girl says to me even if it's out of line or borderline retarded.
Actions speak louder than words and if she sitting on my dick and sleeping in my bed I'll give her the benefit of the doubt at that moment. If her actions prove otherwise and I find out about it, then I'll swiftly address the issue in the form of banning her from sitting on my dick, sleeping in my bed or being in my company.
You're making a lot of assumptions of my stance on handling women or relationships outside of anything I actually stated in my previous post.
When you make an investment in something no matter if it's a bitch, business or blackjack hand you're always going better off mitigating the risk before you throw your chips in from the start rather than half way into it.