[justreal]

Hello ,

I am in Kiev now.Met with a girl from Tinder who divorced soon , managed to take her my place but ,she refused to kiss . So nothing happened that night.So we kept talking in whatsapp for next dates , etc. Today she told me she divorced soon and you will leave from Kiev soon.Therefore she says she doesn’t want to have relationship, only friendship.But she wants me to meet with her friday(with her best friend and her bf) and saturday (only us) , if i accept only friendship.So may i take your comments .
Thank you.

[dark_g]

I'd go just to see her true intentions. Make her pay her own way for everything. If she does, then she's honest about friendship. If she expects you to pay, then she's using you.

[KeepMovingForward]

Definitely don't meet up with the friend and BF, that's lame as fuck, she's either being honest about seeing you as a friend (in which case you're fucked), or she wants to see what she can get out of you in that setting, food and/or drinks.

I think you should either forget about her or push for the solo time saturday, but probably not worth your time if she's pushing to be just friends.

Sounds like you missed your chance when you had her at your place, nothing you can do, good effort!

[tobehero]

Move on.

Plenty more girls in Kiev.

[Salvadore]

Just say you ran into an old friend of yours on the street there. He used to be your best friend back in the day and you two were so surprised to see each other in Kiev of all places.

Anyway, it turns out your friend owns a million dollar company there and offered you to partner up and do business with him, and that you're going to think about it because it sounded almost too interesting to say no.

Now you've given her the chance to do all the work and let her hamster brain daydream about a future with you and you can get the bang. Saturday morning you tell her your friend died and the whole business deal and everything with moving to Kiev got ruined, but you wish her all the best in life.

[RatInTheWoods]

Tell her you have enough friends, and are looking for a wife.

Do not contact her, and only respond to her if she drops the friend zone demand.

Plenty more girls out there, find one that is actually interested in you.

Good luck

[YoungBlade]

Posted this elsewhere, but:

[BlackFriar]

Fuck that bitch.

[treypound]

Move on

[SeaFM]

Maybe she is just screening out players and hump & dumpers?

I'd go and continue to escalate. After your solo date, if you don't get the bang, lay your cards on the table and be ready to walk away.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

I never was in friend zones even in my Blue Pill days. I just missed girls I could have fucked who were into me.

I am friends with girls - most of them I fucked one day and thus this is out of the way. But we have usually lots in common - and even then I fucked them since they are bangable.



"Sorry - I don't do friend-zone. After we fucked maybe we can be friends."

[Icarus]

[justreal]

Well, I just wanted make an update.Ignored her message about meetings for friday and saturday. Moved to another girls. thanks for your comments.

[Mizo1234]

Man , I have different opinion .
Woman changes and their options change. Many you have not showed her your true value yet , maybe she is suspicious of you , .. there are a lot of uncertainties.
I would say be friend with her while gaming other girls . But be friend in your own terms : no paying , no rides, no emotional tempon

[WomenLuvDeez]

If she pays for everything for herself when you go out and if she's hot.. thats a bonus when approaching other women as a wing woman.. Personally I always just say, I already have enough friends I do not need more or if she says she has a boyfriend I tell her ok then I am your man friend which they tend to like.

[RatInTheWoods]

Don't be this guy

Friend Zone Shank

[Mizo1234]

@ Ratin TheWoods,
Is there any middle ground ? I mean why make and female can’t just be friends? As long as the male set the tone:no help , no free ride , no emotional support ,.... etc. Also, the male should make it clear to the girl that he moved on

[YoungBlade]

(05-01-2018 07:05 PM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  

@ Ratin TheWoods,
Is there any middle ground ? I mean why make and female can’t just be friends? As long as the male set the tone:no help , no free ride , no emotional support ,.... etc. Also, the male should make it clear to the girl that he moved on

Because that's a shitty friend. She wouldn't do the same for you.