We all know when training your woman in an LTR or even shorter relationships, the main tool we have is the "soft Next" or going ghost for a few days to show her you don't approve of some behavior, and dread game keeps the attraction strong.
Theory goes its a strong move to show you are not invested and can move along at any time. It often works.
Problem I got with the current Russian, is she is calling it out as Beta behavior.
This Russian is hot, and like most Russian women relentlessly shit tests me, hard and full on, all the fucking time. Reason I put up with it is I can handle it, and she gives the best fucking blow job ever.
When she kicks off a bitch session, I just kick her ass out, go radio silent, and post up stunning pictures of me having fun and generally not giving a fuck about her, and not missing her a single bit.
I am in Thailand, so its not hard to get photos of me surrounded by loads of hot women and a party going on in the background.
Now this used to work great. I'd get a few days off, she'd come back with cakes, blowjobs and apologies.
But lately its not working with her. She is reframing the soft next as me "being too much of a pussy" to handle her. Shes saying "you have to run away, rather than face me"
This is great girl game, because its an attempt to force me to engage in her drama and give her the attention and hystronics she craves so badly.
I fucking hate drama, and I fucking hate having her reframing the soft next.
Looking to the Vets in the forum to give me their thoughts and a new approach?
I expect PapaTapa will be along in a minute to sort me out.
Theory goes its a strong move to show you are not invested and can move along at any time. It often works.
Problem I got with the current Russian, is she is calling it out as Beta behavior.
This Russian is hot, and like most Russian women relentlessly shit tests me, hard and full on, all the fucking time. Reason I put up with it is I can handle it, and she gives the best fucking blow job ever.
When she kicks off a bitch session, I just kick her ass out, go radio silent, and post up stunning pictures of me having fun and generally not giving a fuck about her, and not missing her a single bit.
I am in Thailand, so its not hard to get photos of me surrounded by loads of hot women and a party going on in the background.
Now this used to work great. I'd get a few days off, she'd come back with cakes, blowjobs and apologies.
But lately its not working with her. She is reframing the soft next as me "being too much of a pussy" to handle her. Shes saying "you have to run away, rather than face me"
This is great girl game, because its an attempt to force me to engage in her drama and give her the attention and hystronics she craves so badly.
I fucking hate drama, and I fucking hate having her reframing the soft next.
Looking to the Vets in the forum to give me their thoughts and a new approach?
I expect PapaTapa will be along in a minute to sort me out.